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Four personality types that are happier when single

Some people aren't built to be married.

By sara trifPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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Four personality types that are happier when single
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Some people aren't built to be married. They'd be more happier by themselves. They don't, though. After being married, they endure years of suffering. since not everyone is destined to marry.

As reported in A.'s "Changing Attitudes Towards Marriage and Single Life," D. Thornton and According to Freedman (1982), the single life is now regarded as a viable alternative and the majority of Americans do not think being married is preferable to being single.

The following four personality types are happier when single:

Those who think it's nothing more than a sheet of paper

Many people don't think that marriage is a sacred institution. It's simply a piece of paper to them. They don't want a grand wedding ceremony. However, they will gladly live together with their partner as long as their relationship doesn't have a name.

They'll commit to their partner for a very long period. They appreciate the idea that there is an exit strategy because it gives them comfort to know there is one. They are frequently content enough to remain with their lover forever.

Take a look at Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn. They've been together for several years and are both successful performers. And they were never formally married.

If I had been married, I would have been long divorced by now, said Goldie.

Whoever does not want to be "the wife"

Women were out of the workforce for a very long time. They settled down and started working at home full-time. When they got home, their spouse had hot meals, a tidy home, and slippers waiting for them.

These women sacrificed themselves for their boyfriends and had no ambitions for their own careers. They prioritized the ease of their husband. Even a list of how to treat men was published for women in the "Good Wife's Guide" from Housekeeping Monthly in 1955.

Nowadays, the majority of people hold salaried employment and are passionate about their careers. The following factors could prevent them from getting married:

Their partner holds a more significant position. They don't want to be forced to sacrifice their own job in order to advance their spouse's profession.

They don't want to be "the woman," spending all day at home cooking, cleaning, and watching the kids so their partner can concentrate on their work.

In order to avoid having to give up their own goals for someone else, they decide to live single lives.

Travelers and adventurers

When you have a spouse and/or kids at home, it might be challenging to travel the world and embark on experiences.

Your spouse can be a homebody who doesn't want to travel and wants you to stay at home as well.

It's even harder to escape if you have kids because of conflicts with their hobbies and school. A infant or toddler requires a lot of gear when traveling, as everyone who has done so knows. It's draining.

It has been attempted by some. They'll go on excursions with their families. A family that travels frequently requires people who are extremely organized, adaptable, and dedicated.

But let's be honest: It's not simple. When you have a family, you can't just jump on a plane and fly to Paris at the drop of a hat.

On the other side, you are completely free while you are single. Additionally, some people are unwilling to settle down and renounce their carefree, extravagant-free way of life. Any day they would choose to be a loner.

Those who hate children and infants

Some folks have absolutely no tolerance for children. They dislike children. They don't think your baby is cute. Furthermore, they don't want to have a personal one.

But many people just marry in order to have children. Therefore, it makes no sense for someone who despises kids and has no desire to have them to get married.

But many people just marry in order to have children. Therefore, it makes no sense for someone who despises kids and has no desire to have them to get married.

After all, you can cohabitate permanently without the document. Additionally, you can raise a child on your own, but it is preferred for parents to raise their children together.

Some people adore being the entertaining aunt or uncle but don't want the burden of rearing their own kids. Because of this, they can decide to remain single and enjoy their lives apart. My single friend is loved by her nieces and nephews as if she were their parent. She can, however, always send them back home.

Those who adore their freedom to do whatever they please

It takes cooperation, selflessness, and communication to make a marriage work. For the benefit of everyone, you both learn how to compromise.

A person won't get along with a spouse if they are so independent and set in their ways. These are the ones who hate being told what to do and crave freedom like they need oxygen.

And they'll be drawn to the single life if they genuinely think that having a spouse will prevent them from living their best life.

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