At 40, What does marriage need? Novelty or fair weather...

It is often said that couples after the age of 40 are a barrier, easy to relax feelings, easy to fall in love outside marriage.

Because, marriage covers two people's life, each stage of the challenge is not the same, if 20 years old together, consumption is the freshness of love, and after 30 years old couples, want to be together through thick and thin.

At the age of 40, I gradually find that my children have grown up and are ready to fly away. My career is stable and my life is open. At this moment, my husband and wife are more "looking for a little freedom".

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40-year-old couple who want some time to themselves.

After a lifetime of hard work, what you want is to relax and get back to doing what you used to do.

Whether it's hobbies, whether it's romance, lots and lots of...

I still remember that when the college entrance examination ended, my parents left a sum of money for me to go to a friend's house to play, and she and my father took advantage of the annual leave to relax.

I could have been with them, but they didn't want to take me with them. The couple, who are in their 40s, now want "the freedom to rest a little bit" just as I suffered a catastrophe in my life.

Divorce experience once said: "We overcome the storm, but lost the calm after the storm."

It is because of years of wind and rain, so learned to respect each other's ideas and hobbies, no longer forced, no reason to doubt.

After half a life, people to middle age, have their own time, luxury and beautiful.

It's time to pick up the things you wanted to do, have fun with old friends, and do something ritual with your partner.

At this juncture, perhaps love into the family, but we have to continue to accompany each other, before busy with work, can not achieve the desire, can not take the lover to do things, can start to do.

Forty year old couple, romantic and free, enviable.

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Marriage at 40 is not conquering and controlling, company is more important than everything.

Many couples don't know that the partner they get along with for decades is someone who knows them better than they do. It is lucky to have such a person around.

There was once a wife who was bringing dinner to her husband. She happened to see him holding an umbrella for his colleague on a rainy day. She came home and tried to kill herself on the roof in front of her son and neighbors with a kitchen knife in one hand.

She was eventually saved by the police and the tragedy did not happen, while her husband was still unaware of what had happened.

Maybe they are too young, so they don't understand, marriage should give is understanding, precipitation is trust, learn to understand.

It reminded me of a variety show where someone talked about marriage and said, "I'm a controlling person in my marriage."

At this time Carina Lau light said "the most perfect control, is not control."

Two people can come to this step, relying on strength, a lot of luck, in the future will not lack a variety of help, not to mention understanding each other.

I believe in a word, a good couple, always in each other fool, blind each other, protect each other.

That's something you learn at a certain stage in your marriage. People are too smart not terrible, learn to play dumb is great wisdom.

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At the age of 40, I have found the love I want most.

At the time of marriage, the witness will ask: in sickness and in health, would you like to be with him/her?

The 20-year-old newlyweds don't know what that means yet.

After husband and wife get married, here is just a place to talk about love, a blink of an eye to middle age, time is too fast, may be about to retire age, may not be as strong as before, but still yearning for love in the bones.

Because the choice of the right person, so harvest half a lifetime of joy and a beautiful marriage, just empty, please don't forget, everyone's heart is hiding the most pure pursuit of love!

Love can last to the old, can overcome time, space, disease and poverty.

Time is long, I believe the coming days, at this time the love of husband and wife has become a towering tree.

May everyone be able to embrace their lover at the age of 40.

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