After separation, but also disturb your man, heart and you

Someone asked on Zhihu:

"What is your greatest regret in your relationship?"

One user replied:

"Maybe I didn't treat her more gently when we were together, didn't take more group photos, didn't take her on trips as promised, didn't walk her from morning to sunset to the stars.

When breaking up, I thought it was a quarrel, and I failed to say goodbye.

I thought I would forget her after a while, but I haven t.

Love is easy to forget, moved love, through the heart of the people, which can say put, forget to forget, there will always be obsession, do not give up, there are crazy complaints also have nostalgia.

After separation, but also disturb your man, heart and you.

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After separation, also frequently from friends to ask you how you are doing.

Endless sea of people, there are always some feelings can not be finished, we always inadvertently, lost each other.

Perhaps is the chaos of the missed, after knowing the live up to, or love and not hesitate, injury and silence, after all, lost the qualification of standing in her side.

In the days to come, can only silently pay attention to your dynamics, secretly from friends to inquire about your recent situation, know that you are very good, then persuade yourself to turn around and leave.

The movie "Former 3", Meng Yun did not retain when Lin Jia went away, but after the separation from the good friend there to frequently explore her news.

Can not put face to find her, the heart is still thinking about her, Meng Yun know Lin Jia's residence, know that she went to travel, change jobs, even learned that she made a new boyfriend and sad hysteria.

On the eve of her marriage, Meng Yun wore the clothes of the supreme treasure in the crowd shouted "Lin Jia, I love you", is to have a deep love of people completely goodbye to let go.

Clearly have the heart to retain can retain, clearly seriously apologize can be reconciled, but because of her stubborn temper pushed away the appointment of the white head, lost only after regret.

So, love a person, have time, please heart; Accompanied by time, hope to cherish.

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After separation, they will send you messages and gifts on important holidays.

There is a saying:

"There is always a person, originally just a passer-by in life, but became a frequent visitor in memory."

By coincidence, when you come, the wind is calm and the breeze blows the mountains, but when you leave, the sky is falling and the earth is splitting and the lone one is haunting the mountain torrents.

Can not tell where she is good, but just occupy their own heart who can not replace, separated, memories are full of her every twinkle and smile, habits will be retained for her.

Like the TV series "My Girl", Xue Gongcan and Zhou Youlin day and night together, gradually fell in love with this strange girl, because her identity was exposed she had to leave.

After she left, he always remember the snow day is Zhou Youlin's birthday, can not help but want to buy a crystal ball to her, to the flying snow chanting her name, telling miss, exhausted all ways to find her.

Many years later, accidentally meet again, Zhou Youlin saw the cabinet full of crystal balls, understand Xue Gongcan's deep love, brave back to his side.

Two people who love each other may be forced to separate at a crossroads, but the deeper the time, the stronger the missing.

Every happy moment and important festival we once had together can't be erased from our memories. We can't help but send messages and gifts to each other, even if we haven't heard from them yet.

Heart believe, as long as the heart of each other, one day, will meet again.

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Apart, when you are in trouble, will also lend a hand.

Remember "Once Upon a Time in Lek Chuan"? It's a very moving and tearful novel.

Wang Li Chuan deeply fell in love with the redemption of his girl Xie Xiaoqiu, but taking into account his residual pain of the body, he was afraid not to give Pelle warm happiness, so they broke the union far abroad.

But love a person love to the extreme, the ends of the earth will still care about her, he hid illness, in her difficulties could not help but lend a hand.

Knowing that she was falsely accused, he stood up for her resolutely, fought hard to get her to stop drinking and take care of her body, and he gave her all the tenderness and love that he had in his life.

It is said that time is the best medicine to cure regret, but people who love into the bone marrow are like blood into the body, despite how the flow of time wash, can not easily erase dissipated.

Not because of love to separate, it is because of too love to separate.

Experienced the unforgettable feelings, is that I don't bother you, but my heart has always had you, is that I am not around you, but also want to protect you.

As Wang Xiaobo said to Li Yinhe:

"I love thee unselfishly, as a man whose pigeon flies away from his hand blesses its flight from his heart."

Flowers bloom and fall of their own time, gather and disperse clutch eventually sometimes, love a voluntary, no regret, not meet, do not talk about debt.

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In this world, not all feelings can be smoothly beautiful, hand accompanied to the end of time.

Truly loved people, even if separated, or remember the past heartache of joy and heart into the lungs moved, can not help but miss, quietly to disturb, to the bottom of the matter, but is still not put in the heart.

But fate sometimes, miss is missed, leave is left, broken mirror reunited, lost back, is a rare lucky love.

May we know how to cherish each other, love each other, go all out, separate, bless each other, is the best outcome of this relationship.

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