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3 Habits of Irresistible Women

Unveiling the secrets of Highly Attractive Women

By Timeless Siren SecretsPublished about a year ago 3 min read
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Everyone has a "type."

The men you find appealing are not always the same as the men your closest friend finds attractive.

But, if you take a group of men, you and your pals will almost certainly agree on who is the most attractive.

That attractiveness would be more than simply physical.

You'd also consider whether he appears to be a good guy, whether he has friendly eyes, and whether you could have a cool conversation with him.

However, when it comes to determining what makes women attractive...

It's common to believe that men are purely visual.

Have you ever had the thinking, "Men just want a pretty face"?

It may appear that men prefer women with perfect bodies over women with great personalities.

But it's not either-or.

Men aren't interested in either a woman's personality or her body.

They're intrigued by both.

When a woman's personality is attractive, men perceive her to be more physically attractive.

Being beautiful on the inside causes you to be attractive on the outside. Even if you don't seem like model material in a mug shot, the way you smile, move, and interact with a man makes him think you're incredibly attractive.

So, what personality qualities are most appealing to men?

Which characteristics make you shine from the inside out?

Here are 3 Habits of Irresistible Women.

Habit #1: Irresistible Women express Warmth

One of the most appealing personality attributes is warmth.

Emotional warmth is perceived as highly feminine by men. (Coolness or detachedness are viewed as masculine attributes)

The emotional warmth of a woman reassures a guy that she will be approachable and welcoming rather than critical and rejecting.

Affection and love are also associated with emotional warmth. Nothing could be more important for a man looking for a relationship.

Habit #2: Highly attractive women are inquisitive

Nothing is more annoying than being engaged in a conversation with someone who is just interested in talking about themselves.

Many dates wind up being a never-ending loop of self-promotion as your date tries to convince you that they're a good match.

There are some dates that seem more like interviews. Your date bombards you with questions one after the other. He's not interested in your response; he's just going through the motions.

It's such a comfort to find someone who genuinely cares about you.

Someone who notices something appealing about you.

A person who is interested in you will ask you thoughtful questions and carefully listen to your responses.

As you talk, you may find yourself contemplating even more profoundly. You learn new things about yourself when you describe your thinking.

The same is true for guys.

When a woman is really interested in a man, he may relax and rise to the occasion. For the time being, he forgets she's a romantic potential he's trying to impress. He is free to be himself. Her interest in him allows him to shine.

When a guy is able to step up to his best self around a woman, he never forgets it.

Habit #3: Irresistible women practice nonattachment

Our lives are already filled with stress and anxiety.

When we date, we don't need any more of it.

However, dating and relationships can be quite stressful.

We may feel compelled to play the game rather than express what we truly feel.

We might feel the pressure of needing to hide our defects in order to be perceived as perfect.

There are a lot of expectations. There are so many rules.

That's why being with someone who doesn't care where it leads is so enjoyable.

This person is in the present moment with you. They are completely focused on this experience, right now.

They certainly want it to go someplace. However, they are not emotionally attached in the outcome.

If you don't click, that's cool.

The ability to let go of the urge to control things is referred to as nonattachment. You just let whatever occurs happen. You resist labeling your experiences as "good" or "bad."

Maybe you've found that when you already have a boyfriend or aren't actively looking for a romantic partner, you're more successful with the other sex.

You are more successful because you are not tied to a certain objective or outcome.

Men can tell when you don't want anything from them. You have no expectations. You'll be OK if you just say goodbye.

There is no stress. There is less anxiety. There is a sense of openness and comfort.

These three characteristics—warmth, curiosity, and nonattachment—are not limited to dating.

They are effective in many aspects of your life.

Warm, inquisitive individuals who aren't driven by an agenda achieve success in business, leadership, and life.

So don't nurture these characteristics only to being irresistible. Cultivate them because they enrich your life. Consider it a bonus if you attract more male attention as a consequence!

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The Ultimate Guide to Becoming Irresistible to Men and Cultivating Confidence in Relationships

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