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Hey Girl, You Will Never Beat Me In This Relationship Game
Hey there, sweet young thing, freshly out of college, still blurred and clumsy trying to figure out this world; Your blooming youth and beauty were the unspoken branding of you.
Life LessonPublished 2 years ago in ConfessionsIs It Love?
One day, you meet someone. At first, it seems too good to be true. You seem to get along so well. Too well actually. FINALLY, it feels like you have met a compatible person who seems to understand you! They appear to be a good listener, almost too good of a listener. Then, comes the Love bombing behavior. Love Bombing? You know, the type of behavior that is often displayed at the beginning of a relationship, where the partner displays lots of attention, showering you with endless compliments and or over the top affection. It becomes clingy. Then, the behavior becomes possessive. Your significant other once made you feel like you were their world. They made you feel like they could not live without you. All of a sudden that “love bombing”behavior blows up in your face like a bomb. Your significant other transforms into someone who you don’t recognize. Now, they use the past against you. It explains why they had listened to you so intently in the beginning. They don’t listen to you any longer and have become insanely stubborn. If you make a mistake, you are criticized to no end; and, those sweet words that were once spoken to you by your partner, have been exchanged for verbal abuse. You always find yourself confused and apologetic for behavior that is not your fault. All your significant other does is guilt trips you, manipulates you, and deflects their negative behavior on you. Your partner is never accountable. Everything is your fault. You break up and they do everything possible to win you back. When you reconcile, the relationship only gets worse. Empty promises, broken promises. They want more details about you; yet, when you ask them questions, they are evasive. Instead, your significant other is accustomed to habitual lying, mysterious and shady behavior. You don’t feel like a respected individual. You feel broken and don’t even recognize yourself. You cannot remember the last time that you were happy. When you leave them for good, they unleash pure hell on your life! Sounds Familiar? I am sure that many of you can relate. Certainly, I can relate. This is NOT love! This is Narcissistic Abuse. You have encountered someone with narcissistic personality disorder.
Mako BlackwellPublished 2 years ago in ConfessionsA 24-Year-old girl who has never Dated
A little background my name is Vanshika and I am a finance professional from India, I love to cook and I am a shy kind of person but only until I am not familiar with you, the moment I am friendly with you I can not be shut up.
VanshikaPublished 2 years ago in ConfessionsThis Could Be Why You Never Marry The One You Truly Love
Some of us could wonder — why I never seem to marry the one that I love the most? Or how could I miss and let go of the one I truly love?
Life LessonPublished 2 years ago in ConfessionsThings That Aren’t Worth The Effort
The surest sign something wasn't worth the effort is the pounding reconsideration, "I ought to have stopped while I was ahead."
si bouzePublished 2 years ago in ConfessionsI Will Follow You Into the Dark
Taylor Swift's Speak Now and 1989, Death Cab for Cutie’s Kintsugi and Plans, and Andrew McMahon in the Wilderness are my favorite albums. But it has nothing to do with the lyrics to the songs or the stories they tell or their image in the tabloids or anything that people normally cite as reasons why their favorites are their favorites.
Megan GlanzPublished 2 years ago in ConfessionsDating Adventures of a Single Speed Dating Host
UK is interesting. Our storyline is funny because I thought he was cute the last time that I saw him at the speed dating event and I had wanted to talk to him previously as well, but was not able to because he had walked away so fast to the bar.
ChantelPublished 2 years ago in ConfessionsI Don't Know How I am Feeling
I'm confused. I watch these break up tiktoks and I think of you. I still miss how vulnerable we were able to with each other- and I still crave it.
ChantelPublished 2 years ago in Confessions"Just A Friend"
What is a friend? Is it just someone that you call when you need someone to talk to? Is it someone to whom you reveal all your secrets? Or is it a person that you have slowly fallen for?
Gang002Published 2 years ago in ConfessionsImagination
Imagine months flying by, soaring, full speed. You’re being led. This path has been paved, just for you, carefully. Imagine everything happening without interruptions.
TestPublished 2 years ago in ConfessionsIf You Settle Other Than this, You Are In Disservice To Your Soul
People who only chase pleasure in their intimate life oftentimes seem like the ones who experience a deep sense of freedom, yet they are the ones who are imprisoned the most. At some points, they lost their adventurous spirit as their soul grows tired and weak. They start to decay from the inside, deprived of the greatest gift of life: true and deep intimacy, the intimacy that touches the soul. Their nervous system confuses the rush of adrenaline and excitement that comes from jumping from one relationship to the other with love, while in truth, it is trauma. By chasing the pleasure they do nothing but further perpetuate their trauma. Understanding this insight will change their entire life.
RudinaPublished 2 years ago in ConfessionsHow To Eat A Cat Is As Easy And Fun As Eating Ribs At Applebee's
For All Of The Cat Eaters Out There Where are my cat eaters? Yeah, yeah, I know. Nobody eats cats in the United States. My dad told me about being overseas during the war, and how they served cats in places. Apparently, they serve dogs in places too, but nobody wants to eat a dog unless it's Oscar Mayer.
Jason Ray MortonPublished 2 years ago in Confessions