Horn Smith
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Loneliness and success complement each other
Humans are social animals, people are naturally afraid of loneliness, and a sense of security comes from relative loneliness. Now people are redefining loneliness. Extraordinary people use loneliness to achieve themselves and fill their lives; mediocre people choose liveliness to fill their lives. I ask whether loneliness makes man, or does man's success define loneliness? Or are they perfect for each other?
By Horn Smith2 years ago in Psyche
If you can't have a positive attitude all the time, is external pleasure worth pursuing?
What is a positive attitude, someone summed up a sentence: "everything is a positive attitude". It's good to have this mentality all the time, but can you really have it all the time? If you think in the right direction, things don't necessarily go in the right direction. The reality will one day make the mentality collapse. Positive energy is good, but a person has 100% positive energy and no negative emotions. I don't believe there is such a person.
By Horn Smith2 years ago in Motivation
Thinking from a different angle will bring things closer to the way things are
People most hope that the mistakes others have made will not be made again by themselves, but they still follow the path others have traveled and make the same mistakes. The experience of others is always difficult to learn and imitate. Why is this? (This piece of content is from the Internet, I think it is good and I will use it, thanks to the original god) "From the perspective of semantics and hermeneutics, after an incident occurs, many details of the incident are quickly forgotten by the parties involved. When he starts talking about it, you need to find the right words as a carrier, his memory will filter the incomplete memory again because of his emotions and likes and dislikes. We all have this experience, want to talk Or write an article, but always can't find the right way of expression or the right words. That is to say, when this matter is spoken by him, his expression may not be his original meaning. During this process It is very likely that the words do not convey the meaning of the words. Next, of course, we have to talk to the listener or the audience. When we hear the narrator, our understanding may be deviated, and our understanding of semantics may appear one way or another. When we restore the so-called "truth" based on our understanding again, the so-called "truth" has already drawn a considerable distance from the fact itself. Therefore, in this sense, everything he told , is never the way things really are."
By Horn Smith2 years ago in Psyche
How to get rid of being controlled by evil in human nature?
Because the human body has many bad qualities, also known as the inherent evil, innate, lazy, greedy, easy-going, vain, selfish, evil, know how to opportunistic... This is human nature, everyone is To fight them, the ones who win have hard work, kindness, righteous wisdom, wealth, and earn respect, while most people are mixed, so they become ordinary people.
By Horn Smith2 years ago in Psyche
Success is not hard work but good habits
Every successful person must be a positive and autonomous person. Being proactive is the catalyst for people to change. It allows you to abandon the passive victim role, and let you not blame the gods and let them play the unique talents of human beings - consciousness, conscience, imagination and Self-awareness, change from the heart, create all kinds of opportunities, and face everything positively. They do not make decisions based on emotions or external circumstances, but on principles and values, as well as their usual habits.
By Horn Smith2 years ago in Motivation
"Critical Thinking" teaches you to really think
If you pay attention, most people in life are cramming when they read books and news. Most of the information in the books is accepted without thinking. Therefore, most people feel that reading is useless and does not help themselves; while people with critical thinking are digging gold in the sand for information in books and newspapers. They screen and digest information through analysis, reasoning, questioning and thinking. More structured, purer, more reliable knowledge.
By Horn Smith2 years ago in Psyche
Feel Your Feelings with "My Feelings"
In fact, our emotions are easily driven by others. For example, when watching a movie, in a specially created bad environment, we are easy to empathize, or laugh, cry or sad. There will be similar feelings in life, and most of them are moved by things that we identify with in our hearts and things that we can understand. If it is out of range, there is no emotional response in any case.
By Horn Smith2 years ago in Psyche
People need to learn to doubt, people need to learn to believe
Learn to doubt, you can doubt everything, and the spirit of doubt is beneficial to the development of society, the progress of science and technology, and doubt can make people learn to think. For example, now people are concerned about educating children, is it rich or poor? They believe that children are their future, and they should be greatly satisfied in material aspects. Some people think that children can't get what they want; some parents entrust all their hopes to their children, and some parents let it go. It is true that every parent has their own ideas in education and has the right to implement them. But you have to admit that today's bear child will easily be a "guest" in prison in the future, and society will not take care that he is your child. Most parents teach their children that they want their children to be useful people. You must realize that people have to go through long-term education to hope to become useful people, and it is even harder to become outstanding people. It is not that the more open the better, but the better. We must never simply believe that some things are better to consider their pros and cons.
By Horn Smith2 years ago in Psyche
Live with your heart
On the Internet, you often see these words, "There are only three kinds of things in the world: God's affairs, other people's affairs, and your own affairs. You can't control God's affairs, and you don't need to care about other people's affairs." "The world you see is a reflection of your heart, which means that you create the world you see" and so on.
By Horn Smith2 years ago in Psyche
How to suffer in life?
When dealing with people, we are most afraid of being cheated. Both black and social skills teach us how to avoid being cheated. In fact, can someone really avoid being cheated? There is an old saying that "suffering a loss is a blessing". So is it worth it? Take a clear loss or a dark one? Below are some of my less mature opinions.
By Horn Smith2 years ago in Psyche
From virtual exaggerated groups to real lies not exposed
Growing up, we've been told to introspect, to be humble, and to accept criticism from our parents. Even if you do good deeds, you still have to be told in the end, you can't be proud. It's so hard to get compliments!
By Horn Smith2 years ago in Psyche
Taking on the negative emotions of others consumes your own happiness
Just imagine yourself walking on the side of the road, not chasing anyone and not provoking anyone, and suddenly someone glares at you angrily—you know that look is not because of you, and you also know that his anger is not aimed at you, so bear it for nothing If you don’t feel the emotions of others, you will still feel uncomfortable, uncomfortable, aggrieved, and even painful.
By Horn Smith2 years ago in Psyche