Loneliness and success complement each other

Humans are social animals, people are naturally afraid of loneliness, and a sense of security comes from relative loneliness. Now people are redefining loneliness. Extraordinary people use loneliness to achieve themselves and fill their lives; mediocre people choose liveliness to fill their lives. I ask whether loneliness makes man, or does man's success define loneliness? Or are they perfect for each other?

People who say that loneliness makes a person feel that loneliness is alone. If you learn to be with loneliness, you can achieve your goals and achieve success in the eyes of others. There is an inevitable connection between the two, but the fact is that the two are not inevitable. . There are many lonely people and many people who are used to living alone, but have they all become successful people? Society defines them as socially disabled, single, otaku (female).

It is also said that human success defines loneliness, which is the humble speech of successful people. There are many factors for success, hard work, execution, the right direction, luck... Just like the chicken soup said, "success of a group of people is easier than that of one person", how can it be simple Lonely. Don't be misled by what successful people say, what they say is the least important, and what they don't say is the most important.

A person in a group needs to think alone and learn to think in order to have his own thoughts. A thoughtful person is not easy to be misled, has self-confidence, and has the motivation and ability to stick to his own direction.

Everyone is independent, and everyone's world is a network built around themselves, even their own spiritual world. How many people have seriously thought about actively building their own world? We all want to avoid loneliness through external filling, or find a lover to share loneliness with us. But once the outside world changes, once the lover leaves, it feels like the world is falling apart. The ultimate answer to all problems people face lies in themselves. It is inevitable to experience loneliness no matter what age you are, and it is most important to consciously fill your spiritual world.

Loneliness is by no means a person who is thinking blindly and does not communicate with others. Communicating with others can also enrich one's mind, chewing and digesting other people's words in their minds, and then turning them into their own thoughts. A person's thoughts are enriched to the extreme, and he must be lonely. If loneliness makes a person, it means that you have enriched your thoughts with lonely time, but you are not lonely. Let’s understand together that if loneliness destroys a person in life, then your loneliness is really just loneliness, and it is decadence with nothing to do.

Loneliness and success are a pair that complements each other. If you feel lonely now, first find out whether it is physical or psychological loneliness. Physical loneliness can be solved by finding the right person to improve the quality of the relationship with the outside world; psychological loneliness does not need to be feared, it may be because of not being understood, it may be due to technical obstacles, it may be a major change in life, or in other words, it is your spiritual encounter. It's time for advancement. If you want to get out of the current realm, you need thinking, thinking needs loneliness, and sometimes, a desolate figure is a kind of flourishing, not dry.

Lonely people have endured the hardships that ordinary people can't bear, and experienced the indifference of the world that ordinary people may never experience in their entire lives. Fortunately, they survived. With his perseverance and hard work, they reached the pinnacle of their lives. In this process, they learned about human nature, and they truly realized that "the world is not worth it". They didn't want to repeat the painful process of fighting against loneliness to everyone. A thank you for loneliness is also a tribute to the past self.