Live with your heart

On the Internet, you often see these words, "There are only three kinds of things in the world: God's affairs, other people's affairs, and your own affairs. You can't control God's affairs, and you don't need to care about other people's affairs." "The world you see is a reflection of your heart, which means that you create the world you see" and so on.

We never doubt our thoughts, but what are thoughts? In fact, it is formed by the superposition of your character, family, social experience, etc. All the things you have experienced that you think are great, there are people in the world who are experiencing with you, or have experienced them, but different mentalities and practices will lead to Completely different results.

For example, when two people meet for the first time, and A has no smile on his face, and his face is unhappy, B can think that A does not like B, so the two may not have any intersection in the future; B can also think that A is in a bad mood at the time and can choose more Observe it a few times; B can also be kind and caring to ease B's mind, and the two may become close friends because of this. So it's your attitudes and actions that shape your world, your present, and your future.

Some people use the energy field to describe it. Some people can hold the audience, and every sentence is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. It’s like a strange person saying that Xiao Xiao appeared on the stage, and the ticket was constantly swiped, and the situation was reversed; while some people just talked bitterly for a long time, listening to When people are bored and yawn, their energy cannot affect others.

The more courageous a person is to face their hearts, the less afraid of failure. In failure, they become more and more brave in battle, tempering themselves, and unconsciously they become stronger and their energy increases. Carefully observe the people around him, the fear of failure is only superficial, the real point is that he has never figured out what he really needs in his heart. A person with a clear goal will not give up easily when he fails.

Reality does not play cards according to common sense, and many times it does not develop according to our predetermined plan, and the attack comes unexpectedly. This is the time to test a person's heart. Most people have two mentalities, one is afraid of not being able to win, and the other is that they can afford to lose. The former kind of person must reject the fait accompli, on the contrary, the other kind of person accepts the reality and then goes on the road.

They understand that all events that happen to us are a carefully wrapped gift that can be good or bad, as long as we are willing to face its sometimes ugly packaging, with patience and courage little by little If we unpack it, we will be pleasantly surprised to see the gift hidden deep inside.

The advantage of surrendering to the facts is that when you accept the present moment and don’t waste your energy fighting in vain, things often turn around unexpectedly, and you realize that the original struggle was really in vain.

Next is your way of thinking. If you look at your thoughts, you will find that what you are thinking about is either in the past or in the future, rarely in the present moment. Our thoughts are always in the past and the future, but our bodies and breath are always in the present.

The last step is to crack. You identify yourself with something, and you may not be able to let it go right away. Your identity is the biggest obstacle. A person's cognitive ability is innate, and no one can be completely objective, but when you have nowhere to go, remember that you are not you at this time, and what you have is also It's not yours, and it won't always be yours, and you risk waking up from this nightmare chased by the outside world.

At every stage of life, there will be all kinds of problems, and will be entangled by all kinds of messy emotions, surrounded by heavy academic work, melancholy and confused about life, or unhappiness in emotional life, etc., simply deny these emotions and facts. , not a struggle for life, but your unwillingness to face it. Stop meaningless thinking, anger will make you lose the ability to judge, it is not terrible when bad things happen, the terrible thing is that you are always surrounded by bad emotions. Instead, focus on your inner needs. This is idealism in idealism.

In life, there are too many choices to make, and the outside world on which the choices are based is just in line with your inner standards. When you are confused, ask yourself why, is it what you really want? Does it hurt to lose you? Will you be happy to get it? When extremes are reversed, happiness and pain are not too long when we are alive. Together we realize that in life we ​​are in a level where we are neither painful nor happy. You have to give yourself a rod to move forward, but happiness or pain is like a burning point. The explosion of ability will make people deviate from the established track, and then there are countless paths to take. Your heart, emotions, and personality will affect the future outcome. If you want a more happier outcome, remember not to lose your heart.