Chris Freyler
Bio
Mistake Maker Extraordinaire. Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.
Stories (27/0)
How Childhood Trauma Resembles a Crime Scene, and You are The Lead Detective
Have you ever heard of the crime series on A&E, The First 48? Well, subtract a digit; the First 47 is how I define my first 47 years of life. All through my childhood and teenage years, the criminal mind fascinated me. I loved psychology class in college and always wanted to be a detective. I look back and try not to live in regrets. But its difficult to not look back at times. I was more lost then, than I am now, and it’s getting a little late in life to have a do-over.
By Chris Freyler11 months ago in Psyche
You Are One Choice Away From Changing The Rest of Your Life
Joe grew up in a family where he was mostly walking on eggshells. His decisions were based solely on the mood of others. With each decision he made, he was on the hunt for acceptance and approval from those he was surrounded with.
By Chris Freyler11 months ago in Confessions
The 7th Step
The cabin in the woods had been abandoned for years, but one night, a candle burned in the window. Jimmy would light the candle a few nights a week since finding this cabin in the woods. He would sit on the floor gazing at the flicker of the candle. He never worried if others saw the candle, this cabin wouldn't be found unless you were lost and stumbled upon it.
By Chris Freyler11 months ago in Fiction
What Signs Does a Narcissist Show Before Breaking Up with You?
The relationship is on again! You can’t believe you two are finally back together! It might work this time. She really seems like she loves me and cares for me this time! It’s been so long since I’ve seen her, the good memories have slowly replaced the torment I’ve endured over the years.
By Chris Freyler11 months ago in Psyche
Can Accepting The Truth of Childhood Trauma Lead to Forgiveness and Healing?
My Dad never had a chance. He was one of seven kids. He had more trauma in his childhood than you could imagine. I understand that not all abused people end up harming others, but some do.
By Chris Freyler11 months ago in Psyche
How The Horrific Abuse From a Narcissistic Marriage Destroys You
Maybe you’ve been married for years. You have had people say you have changed since the marriage or dating this person. In reality, you know you have, but your denial keeps you hooked on the potential of the relationship and what it could become once again. It’s effortless for the victim of Narcissistic abuse to blame themselves and believe they are the narcissists in the relationship.
By Chris Freyler11 months ago in Psyche
6 Delusional Things A Narcissist Does After They Leave You
Who here has come in contact with one of these assholes? If you are out in the dating world, you have crossed one or more and maybe didn’t know what it was. Unlike me, if you were smart, you knew something was off and hit the road running.
By Chris Freylerabout a year ago in Psyche
When Was The Moment You Knew Your Friend Wanted Much More Than Friends?
I had just got to my friend’s house. I was hesitant about going over but knew his parents were out of town and couldn’t miss a great party. That, and a girl was going to be there I had a crush on, her name was Kara.
By Chris Freylerabout a year ago in Psyche
