Cheryl A Nocera
Bio
I am an educator, writer, photographer, and singer song writer. I have a podcast [email protected], and talk show CTS: Cheryl's Talk Show on Spotify I love to share & learn new things. Come join me on this adventure.
Cheryl A Nocera
Stories (23/0)
Life
As we all know to learn something as a child, young adult, and adult we study the subject. We have read books, listen to audio books, podcast, youtube videos, and had conversations with others. Do you know who you are? What about you? I feel that way to. Who is Cheryl? Who am I? I have podcast helping people through my personal growth journey https://cheryl918.podbean.com/. I love sharing my information, tips on how to get through some bumpy roads, and standing strong while doing it. I know I do not sharing everyone's problems, but I have had struggles where the solution could relate to someoneelse's. I myself have been ridiculed, put down over and over and over again, while facing problems I did not understand. Because of an accident I had almost fifty years ago learning has been a problem. When I was teenager and a young adult I pretended to know everything when I was more confused than anything. I pretty much walked through life with a blindfold over my eyes. When I became a mother I was the happiest I could be. I suddenly did not feel alone. Yes, being a single mother I had financial problems, and finding someone when you are a single mother was so challenging. Everyone wants to be loved. I played it cool around my son when we would go to games, and I saw the hurt in his eyes when another child's father would say, "Hey budy good game, pick them up after school and hug them." I felt so bad, because I remember how I felt when my biological father was suddenly not there anymore. I was the fortunate one, because my mother did meet a nice man who became my father. I wished I could have done the same. I also felt bad I did not have enough money to do what other families could do with their children. I had to work two jobs all my life, even going to college did not help me. I felt like I was misplaced. I would often ask myself, how is the rest if the world getting a head, and here I am still in the same place in the same way. Why as tears rolled down my eyes. When I turned fifty I recognized that I was not really enjoying life to its fullest. Yes, I did things, and went out. But I still did not know who I am. My goal this year is to find out who I am, and accomplish what I must accomplish, while putting forward my story. This is goes for everyone. Find out who you are. Forget about what you do everyday, what people tell you to do. Take a break, and really delve inside of you, and study you. How you ask? How do I find out who I am? Everyday take a minute or more if you can. Do a self check called the self scan. Sit quiety draw your attention to the top of your head, and keep scanning all the way down to your toes. How did that feel? Did you feel tension, were parts a little more stressed than others. Stretch them out. Do a light tapping release the stress. After a couple of weeks doing that try to sit quietly, and ask yourself, "Am I living the life I want, is there something I can do more, what is my dream, and who am I really?" This could take a while. One day or night you will wake up after doing this, and learn what you really want to be doing. Honestly, once we get focused on our careers, and family. We do forget what did we really want to do. Hey! Remember when you were a little child, and said to yourself or somone, " When I grow up this is what I want to be." Yes, that is right you knew as a little child what you wanted. As time went on that dream disappeared. Happened to me who is extremely aware in this world. Also, for anyone reading this article, and would like to learn more please reach out to me. I would love to do this personal journey with someone, or help someone. Have a blessed day by Cheryl A. Nocera A wish I may, A wish tonight, This is my wish for my life
By Cheryl A Nocera about a year ago in Motivation
Interview with Jo El Cambio
My name is Cheryl A Nocera owner and creater of CTS Cheryl's Talk Show. I was able to interview a very talented, strong Spanish song writer, Jo El Cambio. In his interview he talks about the struggles he faces as a person, artist, and as a songwriter he found his passion, strength, and creativiy through his songs. Also, the challanges he faces as a songwriter, local artist, and entertainer.
By Cheryl A Nocera about a year ago in Interview
Listening to Your Innerself
Listening to your inner self is one of the hardest things for me to do. There are distractions, uncertainty (am I doing it correctly, how should I sit, what stone should I have with me, and what smell)should be burning. All of these questions arose when I first started. Another problem I have is what if I do not agree with what comes to me.
By Cheryl A Nocera 2 years ago in Motivation
Knock Knock!! Who is There?
Do you remember me? I am what you feel everyday. You hide me when you can, and let me out when I am suffocating. There are many people that hide their feelings on a constant basis. Sometimes our lives are so fast we cannot even keep up. We move from one emotion to another emotion to another emotion, including massive amounts of stress. Anyone who works or goes to school can think of a time that you had to get things done in a certain time frame. Did you think about how you were feeling? No, you only thought about getting things done. So where did those feelings go? They get buried down deep inside, and create pain in your body, mind, and soul.
By Cheryl A Nocera 3 years ago in Motivation
What A Day!!!
Have you ever had a day that was so perfect, amazing, and you did not want it to end? Most of us have had those days that we wish we could capture it with one shot, and put it in a frame. Maybe it was your first kiss, first taste of a food that was so delightful you want to savor the taste forever, or if you have seen something that was so beautiful you want to lock it away in your memory forever.
By Cheryl A Nocera 3 years ago in Motivation
What Do Colors Mean
What do colors mean? Why are we drawn to them? Are they like a spirit animal? All of these are great questions. Time and time again colors have been shown to be a sign, meaning, and represent something of significance. I have been home for the past week, and I keep seeing the color green. Almost like when you see the angel numbers that come in threes. Yes, I know anywhere you look one can see any color they want. This is true, but what color is drawn to you. This week I have been seeing the color green, it appears in many things. For example, today at the grocery store the first box of tissues I got were green, a stone I was drawn to was green, and my jacket had green sticky beads on it (I did not put these on my jacket).
By Cheryl A Nocera 3 years ago in Motivation
Angel Numbers and Feathers
I have been working with angel numbers since 2015. My life was in a complete tizzy. I barely had time for a break, because I was working so much. My personal life was shattered, and my brain was mush. As I was at my breaking point I kept seeing the numbers 222. Sometimes it would be on a receipt, license plate, time, and customer's phone numbers. I was working with this lady, and she told me what those numbers meant. Basically 222 is an angel number that means everything is going to be OK.
By Cheryl A Nocera 3 years ago in Longevity
The Little Black Book
Clark Jones a well known author, writer, and mystery buff was struggling to meet his deadline, and running out of options. He tried throwing the ball up in the air and catching it to clear his mind, meditated, and had a dance party by himself to get the juices flowing. Nothing worked.
By Cheryl A Nocera 3 years ago in Futurism
Everyone Wants To Be Loved:
Everyone wants to be loved. No one should have to go through life alone. People ask me all the time why I am so kind. Truth is I have seen my share of sorrow. Years ago when I was in my late twenties I worked an overnight shift job at a bank. An older woman was very nice, very hard worker, and she was alone. She had no friends, no one to talk to except the people she worked with. One night me and my coworkers had a conversation about how we did not like when people would ring our bell, and try to sell us something. This woman said, "I love when people come to my door, because it is someone to talk to." The lady told us that every day sh came home to an empty house. This is the reason she loved to come to work every night.
By Cheryl A Nocera 3 years ago in Humans
In Times of Stress
In times of stress we feel flustered, anxious, like the world around us is unraveling, and we cannot keep up. This was my world up until three years ago. In my mid forties I was working 7 days a week, 5 days I worked 8.5 hours, and the other two I worked 18 hours. There were times I thought I was just going to drop. When I was going through the craziness of exhaustion there were other parts of my life that were even worse. Just because you are tired problems do not stop. Instead the opposite. Life just kept getting harder, and I was like a suction cup to problems.
By Cheryl A Nocera 3 years ago in Motivation
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