Love + Relationships
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Cliché Old School Pick Up Lines
With all of the new technology designed to make our lives easier, we have forgotten the art of the conversation. Long before cellular towers, strangers actually met each other in person. Old school pick up lines were the opening salvo before your personal profile was located on a plastic device in the pocket of an attractive stranger you wanted to meet. Your wit was more important than how many followers you had and your charm was defined in actual conversations, not Snapchat stories.
By Bea Norton8 years ago in Filthy
Porn Star's Thoughts on Penis Size
Porn stars are a good judge of dick. After all, that is what they do for a living. For the purpose of entertainment, bigger probably is better. The camera, which is said to add 10 pounds, has more to capture and it adds to the excitement. But does it add to the excitement of the woman on the receiving end of the big prize? First we have to start with what is an average sized penis. Men, don’t be scared. According to studies, 45 percent of you think that you have a small one. Kind of makes you wonder how big the other 55 percent of you actually are. Another interesting fact, even if your dick appears tiny when you are soft, the stretching potential upon reaching an erection isn’t a direct correlation. You want to know the hard averages? The average size for an erect penis is 5.6". The average circumference is 4.8". Take that information for what it is and remember that a woman cares more about how you treat her—erections come and go, but jewelry lasts forever. Just saying…
By Bea Norton8 years ago in Filthy
How to Revive a Failing Relationship
Must an emotional cure always be a long job? When I'm asked this I generally answer that any basic personality change usually entails working your ass off at helping yourself over a period of time. Psychology and behavioral responses to conditioned activity play an important role in reviving failing relationships. Various experiments with clients are making me qualify this answer. They indicate that there are palliative methods which, if you employ them continually, tend to sink into your cognitive-emotive core and become curative—a permanent part of your behavioral pattern. In my book Rational Sensitivity: Self-fulfillment for Executives, I was able to give three such self-therapy techniques for calming the emotions. Here is how they work.
By Filthy Staff8 years ago in Filthy
Laid Off in More Ways than One
I still can’t believe it happened. Had I not been laid off from my job as a flight attendant, it never would have. It’s true that every cloud has a silver lining. I really enjoyed my job, as I love to travel. When I heard that I was soon to be unemployed, I was depressed. Two of my girlfriends invited me out dancing, and I happily accepted, needing to forget my troubles. But once we arrived at the club, I didn’t feel all that comfortable. As a dark-skinned black woman, I felt very out of place in a crowd of mostly whites. So I decided I’d just hang out at the bar.
By Lizzie Boudoir8 years ago in Filthy
Hottest Snapchat Stories to Follow. Top Story - March 2016.
Snapchat is the wave of the future. If you don’t know that it is, it is time to learn. Unlike Facebook, there are no likes or comments. Originally, folks used this medium for sexting. It was a messaging app where you could send a naked picture to someone and it would disappear in seconds. What a genius form of foreplay. It then progressed to the "story." You could make a 24 hour account of your day in "snaps" and then send it to all of your contacts, or just specific ones. They would get a time sensitive, accurate account of your day to day activities. And then, it would just disappear like magic. In the day and age of instant gratification, what is more gratifying than seeing what you need to see, and then never having to see it again (especially if you didn’t want to see it in the first place). The perfect app when you think about it. No muss or fuss.
By Bea Norton8 years ago in Filthy
Flirting Tips for Women
Have you ever been on a "sex audition"? Do you believe flirting is the same thing as texting? The science of flirting is maintaining a balance between attracting through engagement and never seeming too available. If you have ever practiced the "art of flirting," you know what I am talking about. When a woman purposely flirts with a man she is interested in, she tends to step into character, losing the sneaker-wearing-yoga-pant-loving version of herself and amping up the 6"-stiletto-no-panty-wearing edition. This sex goddess character is on a mission, a mission to be the funniest, wittiest, and most mysterious woman she can be. From long stares and batted eyelashes to the dropping of her napkin to show off her great ass, every woman has a different method to their enticing madness. As little girls, our mothers taught us to be ladies. Keep your legs crossed, never utter profanities, and never make the first move. As we have gotten older, we have learned that lots of fun happens when our legs are uncrossed and that all of the rules of being lady-like have changed. The rules are that there are no more rules.
By Bea Norton8 years ago in Filthy
DIY Sex Toys for Women
Though it might be hard to imagine, sometimes a dick can get a little boring. Especially if it’s little. What is a woman to do when she just isn’t getting what she wants out of her man? Let us take a look around and discover all of the wonderful, unusual, and weird things you can have sex with. There are phallus shaped items everywhere you look; but please don’t try to fuck the top of a skyscraper, that could end really badly. Men, if you see some of these items lying around the house, maybe it’s time to step up your game a bit. But don’t you worry, ain’t nothing like the real thing, baby. She is bound to come back to you soon enough, and when she does, make sure she comes hard. No one wants to be permanently replaced with a popsicle. There is nothing wrong with experimenting from time to time. Changing things up can sometimes be a good thing. And if something goes terribly awry, feel free to seek medical attention to make sure you didn’t cause any permanent damage during the throes of self-induced passion. In the end, however, no matter how fun it is to try these things out, you still need a warm body to spoon when your done…
By Bea Norton8 years ago in Filthy
EXXXOTICA's Free Speech Battle in the Adult Industry
Bob Guccione, Larry Flynt, and Al Goldstein fought for freedom of speech throughout the latter part of the 20th century. While not in vain, their efforts were merely the starting point for a never-ending battle involving censorship, First Amendment rights, the definition of erotic art, and sexual expression. The adult industry continues to fight for these virtues in direct opposition to established conservative institutions. The combat often gets heated, and the casualties are real people with families, employees, and dependents often suffering the greatest tolls. The 21st century has produced a number of crusaders to carry the torch that men like Bob Guccione carried nearly a half century ago. One such crusader is J. Handy, the owner and producer of EXXXOTICA Expo, a revolutionary sexually charged event. EXXXOTICA celebrates sex in an informative, educational, and fun way, as it was created for adults who are looking to start their own sexual revolution. What began as a fun idea for a trade show quickly developed into a platform of free speech for sexual education and adult content.
By Natasha Sydor8 years ago in Filthy