coping

Life presents variables; learning how to cope in order to master, minimize, or tolerate what has come to pass.

Do I Have to Lose My Self to Love You?
As codependents we lose ourselves in relationships, unaware that losing our Self is the greatest despair. When the relationship inevitably ends, it's devastating, because we are lost. We lack autonomy because that task wasn't completed by adulthood. The struggle to achieve it is typical of codependent relationships. Often there are power struggles, characterized by repeated, unresolved arguments, either about a single recurring issue or numerous trivial things. Many of them boil down to the question of who has control, whose needs will be met, or how intimate they will be. Intimacy problems are a common symptom of codependency. Avoidance of intimacy, and the vulnerability that occurs when we open up, is a way to maintain control and autonomy. We fear that closeness makes us more dependent on our partner and exposed to being judged and hurt. These outcomes aren't necessarily true, but hearken back to a traumatic or dysfunctional childhood when being vulnerable and dependent was unsafe. Some people feel unsafe both in and out of a relationship. The more we're threatened by closeness and autonomy, the greater is the conflict in the relationship.
By k eleanor3 years ago in Psyche
The Rise of Teletherapy: Understanding the Benefits and Challenges of Online Counseling
Introduction: In recent years, there has been a significant rise in the popularity of teletherapy, also known as online counseling or virtual therapy. This innovative approach to mental health care allows individuals to seek professional support and guidance from the comfort of their own homes. In this article, we will explore the benefits and challenges of teletherapy and shed light on its growing impact on the field of psychology.
By Lomat Al Noor 3 years ago in Psyche
Stop Being A Debbie Downer: 15 Books for Overcoming Negative Thinking
Negative thinking can significantly impact our lives, affecting our relationships, success, and overall well-being. It's crucial to break free from this cycle and cultivate a positive mindset. Fortunately, there are numerous books available that offer valuable insights and practical techniques for overcoming negative thinking. In this blog post, we will explore 15 empowering books that can help you shift your perspective, embrace positivity, and lead a more fulfilling life.
By NovelNest Books3 years ago in Psyche
You're going to be okay: 15 Books To Heal From CPTSD
Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD) can have a profound impact on individuals, affecting their emotional well-being, relationships, and overall quality of life. However, healing from CPTSD is possible, and books can be a valuable resource on this journey to recovery. In this blog post, we present a curated list of 15 books that offer insights, strategies, and support for healing from CPTSD. Whether you are just starting your healing journey or seeking additional resources, these books provide valuable guidance and empower you to reclaim your life.
By NovelNest Books3 years ago in Psyche
Identify and Deal With Toxic Parents
Toxic relationships include relationships with toxic parents. Typically, they do not treat their children with respect as individuals. They won't compromise, take responsibility for their behavior, or apologize. Often these parents have a mental disorder or have a serious addiction. We all live with the consequences of poor parenting. However, if our childhoods were traumatic, we carry wounds from abusive or dysfunctional parenting. When they haven't healed, toxic parents can re-injure us in ways that make growth and recovery difficult. When we grow up with dysfunctional parenting, we may not recognize it as such. It feels familiar and normal. We may be in denial and not realize that we've been abused emotionally, particularly if our material needs were met.
By k eleanor3 years ago in Psyche
Bipolar Disorder
Having Bipolar disorder is no easy task. "Formerly known as manic depressive illness or manic depression, bipolar disorder is a mental health issue or illness that causes unusual shifts in a person’s mood, energy, activity levels, and concentration" (National Institute of Mental Health, 2020). This mental illness is a chronic illness - meaning that it is a lifelong illness that is very hard to diminish.
By Mahpara Mukhtar3 years ago in Psyche
Unraveling Pain: The Path to Understanding
Here’s how you understand pain In the vast landscape of human existence, pain stands as an ever-present companion, weaving its intricate threads through the tapestry of our lives. It is an enigmatic force that can both shatter and reshape us, leaving indelible imprints on our hearts and minds. Understanding the nature of pain, unraveling its complex layers, and finding solace amidst its depths has long been a pursuit of humanity.
By Jerrick Pedroza3 years ago in Psyche
Cracking the Code of Love: Unveiling the Signs of True Connection
How do you know if it’s the right love? Finding the right love is a universal desire, but deciphering whether a romantic relationship is built on a solid foundation can be a daunting task. Is it merely infatuation, or is it the real deal? To unravel this mystery, we must delve into the three crucial signs: intimacy, passion, and commitment. These pillars of a healthy and fulfilling romantic relationship, as proposed by psychologist Robert J. Sternberg, hold the key to understanding whether it's the right love for you. By exploring the depths of intimacy, the fire of passion, and the strength of commitment—the three components of love according to Sternberg—we can unlock the secrets that guide us toward true connection and lasting happiness. Join us as we embark on a journey to crack the code of love, incorporating Sternberg's insights, and discover the key indicators that illuminate the path to a love that's meant to be.
By Jerrick Pedroza3 years ago in Psyche
15 Books to Help Perfectionists Stop Screwing Themselves Over
Perfectionism can be both a driving force and a hindrance in our lives. While it pushes us to achieve high standards, it can also lead to anxiety, self-criticism, and an unending quest for flawlessness. If you find yourself caught in the grip of perfectionism, it's time to reclaim your life and embrace imperfection. In this article, we have curated a list of 15 books that offer valuable insights, strategies, and tools to help perfectionists break free from the cycle of self-sabotage and find balance. Let's dive into these transformative reads!
By NovelNest Books3 years ago in Psyche
Reasons to Stay Alive: Top 15 Books to Help Cope with Grief and Loss
Grief is a deeply personal and challenging experience that everyone faces at some point in their lives. During these difficult times, finding solace and support can be crucial for healing and navigating the grieving process. In this blog post, we have compiled a list of the top 15 books that offer insights, guidance, and comfort to help cope with grief and loss. Whether you are seeking understanding, practical advice, or emotional support, these books provide valuable resources for individuals navigating the complexities of grief.
By NovelNest Books3 years ago in Psyche
Mastering the Art of Media Management
Stress and Anxiety Coping Strategies: In today's fast-paced world, stress and anxiety have become increasingly prevalent. Whether it's due to work pressure, personal challenges, or the constant bombardment of information, these feelings can take a toll on our mental and physical well-being. However, by incorporating effective coping strategies into our daily lives, we can manage stress and anxiety, promoting a healthier and more balanced lifestyle. In this blog, we will explore some practical strategies that can help you navigate the challenges and embrace a more tranquil existence.
By Aditya Chandure (Aditya chandure)3 years ago in Psyche
"Exploring the Many Paths of Meditation
Meditation is a practice that has been around for thousands of years and is known for its numerous physical, mental, and emotional benefits. It involves training the mind to focus and redirect thoughts, ultimately leading to a state of deep relaxation and heightened awareness. There are several different types of meditation, each with its own unique approach and techniques. In this article, we will explore some of the most popular forms of meditation and their benefits.
By sajeeka don 3 years ago in Psyche