Trust
Loyalty and trust go hand and hand.
I like people I can trust with my eyes closed and my back turned. (Speak it into Existence)
Trust and loyalty will always go hand and hand because, without these two, you have nothing. No matter what relationship you are in now, you must use both for growth to begin with all parties involved.
We all know that the world can be a scary place to live in if you are not mentally and emotionally stable yourself. I know I do not have to go around pleasing others because if they do not want to grow positively, I have to move on. I like people I can trust with my eyes closed and my back turned because these are the people that are in your corner to help you get to the next level.
Once I see that I can trust you, that also tells me that you are loyal to me and what we, as a team, are trying to do. Now I know that I tend to trust and give loyalty to people who do not deserve it the same way I give it to them, so do not be surprised when I disconnect myself from your crazy ass way of thinking and moving.
I should be able to close my eyes and know that you are for me, not against me when things get complicated. When my back is turned, will you still be that support group I can go to, or will you be the support system that I dismiss? Now please understand that I only dismiss individuals I know are not loyal and trustworthy, so when you see me move differently with you, please take a minute and reflect on what it was that you did to make me change directions with you. This does not mean that you are a terrible person. This only means that we are not going in the same direction as we first set out to do. If you choose to carry me a certain way and then expect me to keep being there for you when you are not doing the same for me, I will dismiss your ass and move the fuck on.
I am always a work in progress, and I am always looking for people that are on the same mental wave link as me, so if you think that you are going to come around me with negative mental bull shit coming out of your mouth, I will check your ignorant ass because you know that you have crossed the line more than once with me. How about sitting your ass down somewhere and working on yourself and stop trying to push your hurtful comments on others because we all see you.
This past year has been fantastic; in my last piece, I talked about being humble. Of course, we all know that being humble is showing gradute for all that you currently have. However, being humble, grateful, loyal, and trustworthy all work together for everyone if others are on the same page as you.
Take action on who you are giving your loyalty and trust to because if you are not careful, you will have a mental breakdown, and you don’t even know why or what happened. If the people in your inner circle are not the kind of people who can take accountability for their actions, then you already know what to do from there. The real question is, how long are you going to keep allowing others to not be loyal and trustworthy to you when you have done nothing but give yours away to them for free.
About the Creator
Theresa Evans
I am a woman on fire for the love of life and being able to reach one life at a time through my words. If I can reach one then I can teach one the art of healing one's self from the inside out all mentaly
Keep reading
More stories from Theresa Evans and writers in Motivation and other communities.
Humbleness
I am humble enough to know I'm not better than anybody and wise enough to know that I'm different from the rest. Unknown I wanted everyone to see and know this because we all need to be a bit more humble when it comes to life. Now I know that it is not easy being humble, but at the same time, it is one of the best gifts you can give yourself and others, and the best part of being humble is that it is free, and you do not have to pay anything for it. I know that I am humble because I was so used to not having the things I needed and wanted in life that I chose to change my mindset and think of all the things I have.
By Theresa Evansabout a year ago in Motivation
It Only Took One Minute.......
It only took a minute. I was sitting at the computer in my office when the phone rang. I picked up the receiver and then laid it down my desk as I went to find the student who the call was for. Within seconds I was back at my desk, ready to resume typing, when I heard the student yelling obscenities at me for listening in to his call through the handset that was still lying on the desk. Sick and tired of the lies he was spewing, I was up running down the hall, ready to kill him. By the time I reached him, I had calmed enough not to hurt him, but as I turned back towards my room, I knew that I couldn’t go on like this any longer. The decision was clear. I had to leave.
By Gail Wylie3 days ago in Motivation
Embracing The Darkness
In the depths of night, when the world is cloaked in shadows and silence reigns, there exists a realm of solitude where personal narratives unfold. It is in these moments, alone in the dark, that we confront our deepest fears, grapple with our innermost desires, and embark on a journey of self-discovery that transcends the boundaries of time and space.Every individual possesses a unique narrative, a tapestry of experiences woven together by the threads of joy and sorrow, triumphs and tribulations. These narratives, like constellations scattered across the night sky, guide us through the labyrinth of life, illuminating our path with the light of self-awareness and introspection.For some, being alone in the dark evokes a sense of trepidation, a fear of the unknown that lurks in the shadows. Yet, it is precisely in this darkness that we find the courage to confront our deepest fears, to face the demons that haunt the recesses of our minds. It is here, in the silence of the night, that we discover the strength within ourselves to emerge victorious, to transcend the limitations of our fears and emerge stronger, more resilient than before.In my own personal narrative, the darkness has been both a source of solace and a crucible of transformation. There have been moments when I have felt lost in the labyrinth of my own thoughts, overwhelmed by the weight of uncertainty and doubt. Yet, it is in these moments of darkness that I have found the clarity to see beyond the illusions of fear and uncertainty, to embrace the light of hope and possibility that resides within me.One such moment occurred during a period of profound loss and grief in my life. As I grappled with the pain of saying goodbye to a loved one, I found myself consumed by darkness, engulfed in a sea of sorrow that threatened to drown me. In those long, lonely nights, I felt the weight of despair pressing down upon me, suffocating me with its relentless intensity.Yet, it was in the midst of that darkness that I discovered a glimmer of light, a flicker of hope that refused to be extinguished. It was the memory of my loved one, their laughter echoing in the chambers of my heart, their spirit guiding me through the darkness like a beacon in the night. In their absence, I found the strength to carry on, to honor their memory by living my life with purpose and passion.In the silence of the night, I began to unravel the tangled threads of my grief, to find meaning amidst the chaos of loss. I sought solace in the beauty of nature, finding solace in the gentle embrace of the moonlight as it bathed the world in its soft, silver glow. I found comfort in the words of poets and philosophers, whose wisdom illuminated the path ahead with its timeless truths. Slowly but surely, I began to emerge from the darkness, like a phoenix rising from the ashes of despair. With each passing day, I felt the heaviness in my heart begin to lift, replaced by a sense of peace and acceptance that I had not known before. I realized that while the darkness had tested my resolve, it had also forged within me a resilience that would carry me through even the darkest of times.Today, as I look back on that journey through the darkness, I am filled with gratitude for the lessons it has taught me. I have learned that even in our darkest moments, there is always a glimmer of light to guide us forward, to remind us that we are never truly alone. I have learned that it is in facing our fears that we find the courage to transcend them, to embrace the fullness of life with open arms.In the tapestry of personal narratives that weave together the fabric of human experience, the darkness is but a thread, a fleeting moment in the grand symphony of life. Yet, it is a thread that holds within it the power to transform, to inspire, to illuminate the darkest corners of our souls. And so, as I journey forth into the unknown, I do so with a heart full of hope and a spirit renewed by the wisdom of the darkness.
By White head7 days ago in Motivation
The Fish Song
The room didn’t smell like disinfectants. Its fragrance seemed light and not overbearing. A soft mixture of lavender and mint permeated the space. No beeping machines or any tubes hooked up to four-year-old Kaleeka. Her cacao skin seemed to glow from the light over her head. The family, save for one and the doctors and nurses exited the room like a trail of saints showing their last vestiges of regard.
By Skyler Saunders4 days ago in Fiction
Comments
There are no comments for this story
Be the first to respond and start the conversation.