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The Reason Spending Less Will Make You Happier

Happiness and Money; It's Complicated

By Jodie RowePublished 2 months ago • 5 min read

Being frugal is associated with smarter, happier, healthier spending habits.

People who are able to practice restraint in purchasing are different than those who loose in their spending habits. There are distinct differences between tightwads, those who have trouble spending money and spendthrifts, those have trouble not spending money.

There are 5 Advantages to Being a Tightwad

Tightwads Use Their Money Wisely

There are numerous articles in consumer research that show buying experiences, like going to concerts and dining out, provides consumers with more happiness than buying material items, like jewelry and clothing. Tightwads have a tendence to buy more experiences than material items. Also, spendthrifts tend to buy more material items than experiences and therefore do not enjoy the same benefits as more thrifty consumers.

Tightwads Practice Healthy Spending Habits

On top of not using their money to effectively increase their happiness, spendthrifts are prone to compulsive buying maladaptive repetitive buy associated with low self-esteem and depression. Spendthrifts are also more likely to buy without thinking. Tightwads are also more conscientiousness and seem better adapted to avoid these mental health issues.

Tightwads Are Not Easily Influenced

Trusted advice is not as valuable as having the ability to make up one's own mind. Tightwads are less susceptible to having their minds made up by others. Spendthrifts are more likely to possess a desire to comply with others' wishes.

Tightwads' Have Eyes on the Prize

Tightwads not only value achievement more than spendthrifts, but they are also more open to self-development. This combination makes it more likely for tightwads to find success professionally and perhaps at home, a strong correlation between being a tightwad and positive emotions, specifically joy and contentment, suggests that exercising financial restraint may inspire happiness all on its own.

Tightwads Are Not What You Think

Being a tightwad is depicted as a 16th century character who is an old miserly man with tight purse strings. A wretched old man who never had any fun. However, considering what these results tell us, perhaps you being a tightwad leads to being wiser, healthy, happy, independent, and highly motivated.

Happiness and Money: It's Complicated

When researchers have tried to tease this out by looking at those who suddenly find themselves with loads of money, like lottery winners, they have found more money doesn't necessarily mean greater happiness.

Study findings show money can come and go, but our happiness largely remains the same.

If you ask people to guess how happy somebody is on a low salary and how happy somebody is on a high salary is, we tend to think that people earning loads must be really, really happy all the time and that people earning a little must be miserable all the time. It's just not the case at all.

Experiences Not Things

Retail therapy might not be a great option if you're spending to boost your mood. Spending on experiences is more likely to make us happier than buying material goods.

Choose experiences over material goods so opt for a weekend away over a new television.

Even if you desperately want that new TV, research suggests the thrill of the purchase will soon pass. And yes, the weekend will be over sooner, but the memories live on. Not only will reminiscing about your lovely weekend likely give you pleasure for months to come, but you also get to enjoy the delicious anticipation.

Experiences make us happier because we anticipate them beforehand, we think about them, we imagine ourselves in that situation.

This doesn't mean buying things will never bring you pleasure, especially if the things you buy are going to lead to pleasurable experiences (a new bike for instance), but it's important to consider the value of experiences.

Cash or Card?

By now most of us are familiar with the sense of regret that comes from the mindless purchasing that new technology facilitates.

It seems the decisions we make at the checkout are affected by how we pay for our purchases - cash or card?

When researchers followed up with people immediately after they had made a purchase using their card, they found these people are less likely to know how much money they have spent when compared to those who had to count the cash.

When researchers followed up with people immediately after they had made a purchase using their card, they found these people are less likely to know how much money they have spent when compared to those who had to count the cash.

When you pay with cash, you really need to think about it, whereas with a card you just tap it and it doesn't quite feel real, so you are more likely to spend it.

But not only are you likely to spend more money when you pay by card, research suggests you are also more likely to treat yourself with unhealthy snacks when you don't pay with cash.

Key Reasons Why Spending Leads to Greater Happiness

Less Clutter, Less Stress

Research shows that a cluttered environment raises cortisol (the stress hormone) and makes it harder to focus. Owning fewer things reduces visual distractions and mental overload, creating a calmer, more peaceful environment.

More Financial Freedom

Spending less means saving more, avoiding debt, and having the flexibility to invest in experiences, learning, or time with loved ones rather than material goods. This financial breathing room reduces anxiety about money and allows you to make life choices based on values, not necessity.

Greater Focus on What Matters

Minimalism and frugality free up mental energy by reducing "decision fatigue" from constant choices about possessions. This allows more attention to relationships, health, creativity, and personal growth.

Increased Gratitude and Peace of Mind

With fewer possessions, you are more likely to appreciate what you already have. Less spending also means less worry about future expenses, boosting overall mental wellbeing.

Better Quality of Life

By prioritizing experiences over things, you can enjoy travel, learning, and shared activities - which research shows, brings more lasting happiness than material goods.

In Short

Spending less doesn't mean living with less joy, it means living with more intention. By cutting down on unnecessary spending, you reduce stress, gain financial and time freedom, and create space for what truly adds value to your life.

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    Written by Jodie Rowe