Becoming yourself is not about limiting yourself, it's about opening yourself

Are you your true self, or are you still yourself in the role? Are you not the master of your own life? Many people say am I not myself? Many people's selves may be their role selves, their emotional selves, or even their conscious selves.

When we can touch the self, when we become more and more aware of ourselves, then we can become the self.

Becoming the self means staying aware enough of our own lives to be able to become more aware of our consciousness. Becoming ourselves is the mission of each of us in life, and it is the root of our ability to activate our inner power.

So how do we become ourselves? We can work on two aspects that will allow you to connect deeply with yourself and embrace the best version of yourself.

Know yourself and wake up from your various roles

Life is a journey of self-growth, and Wang Xiao, the founder of Before It's Too Late, once advocated that women should understand before it's too late. The essence of Before It's Too Late is that women should awaken before it's too late, and this awakening is to break away from various busy roles.

Many people's ego is often the ego of various roles, and under various roles, they are somewhat overwhelmed and controlled by those consciousnesses, which imprison their free souls.

A good life is to become oneself before one can play various roles oneself. Many people are first bound by their role themselves, and then gradually lose themselves.

Sharing Sanso's story with you is also the beginning of a journey to break free from the shackles of standards and move towards the rebirth of self. When Sansho was a child, she was very partial to her studies and was not a good student according to traditional standards.

But she had a free soul, and she loved to write. She once told us that when she was young, she was partial to her subjects, got zero marks in mathematics, and was criticized to the extreme by her teachers. And then she pursued her love of writing, which is what saved her soul and growth.

So first learn to become yourself, and respect your talent and strengths, this is fundamental to our achievement. Human nature lies in the discovery and recognition of self, the relative advantages we gradually accumulate in our environment, which is fundamental to our gradual discovery of ourselves.

Unity of body and mind to activate the inner potential

In the growth process of life, we need to understand that true growth must be knowing how to unite body and mind to bring advanced growth and resonance.

The old saying has always advocated that the unity of heaven and man, unity of heaven and man is to fully integrate oneself into the environmental process, thus forming a process of resonance with the environment, which is what Kazuo Inamori tells about having a deity on the spot.

When a person has the essential ability to have a deity on the spot, he or she will not judge others easily but will know how to fully return to the scene at that time, mobilize the wisdom of that time, and choose to be fully together with oneself and the environment with higher consciousness.

Psychologists have found that when we unite mind and body with the environment we create a powerful resonance of the flow of the mind, and this resonant ability allows us to have a state of forgetfulness.

There was a painter who put himself into the flood of creation and then, in this state of forgetfulness, he had a strong creative ability and created first-class works.

So good works are the process of integrating with the flow of the heart. When you realize the power of the flow of the heart, you may find that the true self is not prescribing what it is like, but allowing itself to become the water, and we become what the environment needs us to be.

And good growth does not come from limitation, rather, it comes from the integration of us with our environment, and you will see a stronger self and a more abundant self.

We should not be afraid to fail but to actively try, to build our own life experiences in trying, and find the power of inner growth through positive experiences.

Always understand that to be yourself is to be unique, and to be yourself is not to set limits on ourselves, but rather to encourage us to fully integrate with our environment, and to see the diversity and richness of ourselves through our environment which is the best of life.