Which hurts more, breaking up or being broken up?

I broke up, and now it's very hard, more depressed.

The breakup is my initiative to mention, and he was together for three years, from the campus to come out to work, it is the most difficult time of life, but we survived together

But now after each other's work has stabilized, our feelings are not surviving.

There is no such thing as a big fight, nor is there a big point of conflict.

Of course, I proposed to break up not in a sudden spur of the moment, but after a long period of deliberation, thinking about the decision for a long time.

After coming out to work, our feelings seem stable, but the heart is going farther and farther away, I do not know if he has such feelings, but I feel tired.

Many times under one roof, although a couple, but I say things, do things often do not get a response from him.

He is off work in addition to the phone is the computer, perhaps in his view, I do not argue nor make a fuss, very understanding how aggrieved I am inside, he did not notice at all?

The so-called breakup is a long-planned, I do not deny this statement, only save enough disappointment, will choose to leave the once loved him.

After the breakup these days, he kept sending me messages, at first it was okay, in the continuous admission of fault.

Later to see I ignore him, directly said I deeply hurt him, let him suffer the pain of being broken up, and said I am heartless.

Is it possible to mention that the breakup does not hurt inside me?

Breakup and be broken up, which is more heartbreaking, which needs to be compared, comparable?

Since you have broken up, I think there is no need for you to dwell on this issue.

Is it that important for you or him right now to separate who is in more pain?

You and he said he was struggling with the problem of who is more painful, in fact, deeper, is the past this relationship can not let go, so subconsciously in search of a common topic, in search of an emotional support point.

Breakup and be broken up, which party will feel more pain?

There is no fixed answer, the person who was broken up will certainly think they are more difficult than the other side.

Likewise, people who break up will not think their pain will be less than the other side.

Is a breakup more painful?

As you have told the general, the people who break up are necessarily not in love but save enough disappointment, even if love also chooses to leave.

So, this time to break up with the people, the heart will be more difficult, more depressed, and doubt themselves.

Even will produce guilt for each other, because still love, so more afraid of harm.

Although the idea of breaking up is accumulated day by day, when the moment of breaking up, all the pain and disappointment will reach the highest value, said not hard to feel is not normal.

The initiative to break up with the party, must be alone through countless days and nights, countless thought struggles, this process, how is pain enough to describe it?

So, as long as there is love or once love, the initiative to break up with the person must also be painful inside.

The breakup is more painful?

Does it hurt to be broken up with? Of course!

Because many times, the party is broken up often do not know why they will be broken up.

When you are full of joy, planning the future of the two people, the other party has beaten the retreat to find a way out.

On some unbelievable ordinary day, the cloud lightly with you to say "we are not suitable", such a hurt, how can not hurt?

It's like you're riding in a car, you're still engrossed in enjoying the roadside scenery, sighing at the beautiful scenery, but the car will somehow throw you off, whistling away, no matter how you shout also to no avail.

Such sadness and despair are the most unspeakable helplessness and heartache when being broken up.

You see, whether it's a breakup or a breakup, as long as there is love in your heart, it is destined to be surrounded by heartache.

So that the pain is not related to the way to break up, the people who love the most often hurt the most.

Any kind of breakup way, for people who still love deeply, is painful hurt.

There is no such thing as who is more painful, only love and do not love the said.

Those who put in the most feelings, who get the most pain will be the deepest, who put in the least feelings, and pain, but the recovery time is also the shortest.