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Virtual Dating Ideas for Couples in Long-Distance Relationships

What's new?

By Lai QiuPublished 2 years ago 6 min read
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You never feel alienated whenever people share their perspectives on long-distance relationships.

It doesn't work.

What's new?

Well, some of these people who believe that long-distance relationships have no chance of survival have experienced it before — it didn’t work. The main reason, however, is not due to the lack of being able to spend time with their partner.

In 2018, a study found that long-distance relationships have a 58% success rate, and what most couples do is maintain every aspect of the relationship.

Even in this present day where online dating has become the newest form of creating potential romantic connections, people don't worry about the distance knowing that communication is more accessible than ever, not to mention that it’s faster, easier, and more convenient.

Since the start of the global health crisis, a lot of people have become active in using online dating applications to maintain a connection with reality and a hope of meeting someone who could lessen the loneliness brought by isolation and lockdown.

Due to the pandemic, you need to maintain a six-feet distance with the person you are with just to make sure that you won't contract the virus. No holding hands, hugging, or any form of physical touch.

Clearly, social distancing is not an enjoyable experience.

But virtual dating exists, and other couples who are struggling to maintain romance and affection with their partners can take advantage of that.

The advancement of technology and updates of numerous dating apps create a new space for love seekers and couples to devise different virtual dating ideas.

Video calls are the initial part of the dating idea, of course. But that's not the highlight of the experience.

As such, we’ve curated a list of simple activities you can engage in despite being away from your long distance partner.

Have coffee together.

It’s pretty normal for you and other young adults to never start nor end your day without a cup of coffee.

However, you can maximize your coffee session with your current or future partner. You may talk about anything during the day. You may even discuss how to make your favorite coffee.

With this kind of routine, you can create a more comfortable partnership and justify that long-distance relationships can work.

Conduct virtual tours.

Knowing that every government prohibits physical contact with anyone, holding hands while strolling around the city is apparently not possible.

With that being said, couples and daters can do tours together while being on the phone.

Both of you need to plan for a specific time to go out in your respective city and use any application that has video conferencing. You let them see the places you are going to and share about its history or the present situation.

You can be as creative as a legitimate tour guide to make everything interesting and worth it.

You may have been apart for a long time now, so all you can do is be inventive and make the most out of whatever resources you have.

Share your music interest.

In 2019, Statista published a datum that 68% of people aged 18-34 years old listen to music every day, which means to say that they are more exposed to different music genres and are up to date with recent music releases.

If you’re a music lover, you can set a date where both of you can share your favorite artists and songs. You can also sing songs together since screen sharing is available in most messaging applications like Zoom, Google Meet, and even Facebook Messenger.

If both of you are particular with the meaning behind every song, you can analyze songs together.

So you get to sing and have an intellectual interaction at the same time.

Isn't it great that you’re able to sing along with your partner even though you are oceans apart?

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Learn a new skill through an online workshop.

Due to the impact of the pandemic, a lot of businesses have shifted their means of transactions online. The education sector is not an exemption.

All learning institutions, depending on whatever programs are offered, are delivering their instructions through Zoom and Google meetings. Everyone has adjusted, even professional instructors from the much older generation.

You can also maximize this kind of setup with your partner since a lot of groups and organizations put free seminars and workshops in order. You can check the web and look for a subject matter that both of you are interested in learning.

If you want skill training workshops, there are several available online. If you want to focus on your personal skills, you can hire a professional to train you both exclusively.

This is your chance to learn more since you are stuck at home.

Set an online gaming session.

In 2020, there were 41% females and 59% males who engaged in online video games. With this data, it is safe to assume that women somehow love to play trendy online games alongside men.

Try setting up an online gaming session with your partner regardless if you are not on the same mastery level. With this, you can enjoy a relaxing yet enjoyable activity together.

If your partner has no idea how to play an online game, teach them. Extend your patience in clarifying the concept of the game and the ways to navigate it. That would surely be a plus point for you, especially when you are still dating.

Explore the possibilities of getting to know the person you’re romantically connected with deeply.

Prepare a themed dinner date.

This may feel like a typical virtual date -- you eat at the same time -- but it isn't.

You don't need to prepare dishes or get a bottle of wine. You just need to plan out what kind of dinner you both want to have. The theme is the basis of everything -- from your attire and dishes down to the setup and decor.

For instance, if you have a luau themed dinner date, you and your partner must wear Hawaiian outfits, cook Hawaiian food and drink, and situate yourself in a portion of your home where it can be a perfect spot based on the theme.

It doesn't need to be very expensive, you can be as resourceful as you can be.

Let Creativity Strengthen Your Long-Distance Relationship

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According to Tinder's most recent data, the online dating scene, since the start of the pandemic, has become more apparent than regular dating.

A user’s length of messages is longer, profile bios involve a wider array of interesting info, and people have become more creative in getting someone to be attracted to them online.

It’s like anything under the sun is worth talking about.

However, what makes the dating scene bizarre and more interesting are the creative virtual dating ideas love seekers and couples engage in. As such, you should never hesitate to come up with new ideas for your relationship to grow and improve.

Just keep in mind that everyone wants to learn and experience new things, and it becomes even more memorable when you do it with the people you’re comfortable socializing with.

In the meantime, get creative with your partner and explore the virtual dating world. It’s only as good as you want it to get.

Lai Qiu, Dating Coach and Professional Matchmaker for Asian Women

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