single

Whether you're solitary by choice or simply unlucky in love, being single is complicated.

  • Jane Smith
    Published 10 months ago
    Why Are You Single?

    Why Are You Single?

    People often ask me why I am single.
  • Alize Williams
    Published 10 months ago
    How to Spoil Yourself for Valentine's

    How to Spoil Yourself for Valentine's

    Spoiling Yourself for Valentine's
  • Anastasia Adams
    Published 11 months ago
    Reasons Not to Flip for Being Single in 2019

    Reasons Not to Flip for Being Single in 2019

    So you're going into the New Year single. Although being apart of a divine union is beautiful, some have not been as fortunate in this area. From being newly single or habitually running into the wrong energy and not seeing the lessons we tend to stop appreciating what we have in front of us.
  • Jessica Skye
    Published 11 months ago
    Is There Life Out There?

    Is There Life Out There?

    I find myself 30-years-old, picking myself up after yet another failed relationship attempt, and realizing, in these moments, that my heart feels divided. There is a part of me, the part I am most familiar with, that has always been certain I wanted my prince charming, a baby or two, and roots. But a strange and unexpected thing has started to happen to me. As I look around at my friends who are getting married and buying houses and having babies, I only kind of envy them.
  • Juliette Nelson
    Published 11 months ago
    Better Version

    Better Version

    So, after being single for a few years, I am finally in a relationship (let the church say "Amen"). Since I have been in a relationship, my eyes have been further opened up to the different conversations of what a Proverbs 31 woman should be like or what a Boaz-like man should be like. People who come up with every definition of who a man should be to his lady, who a woman should be to her man, and what people should be to this world. Like other single folk, I have gone through countless lectures of how I may be too much or not good enough, and that I need to change. Everyone has a say on how I should speak, eat, think, interact, feel, and live in order to be considered attractive or worthy for a man. It seems that everyone is an expert.
  • Ashley Peterson
    Published 11 months ago
    The Single Gal User's Manual

    The Single Gal User's Manual

    We live in a society where people are expected to be coupled. There's a growing acceptance that the heterosexual married couple with kids isn't the only form that couplehood can take, but there are still people who will think that something's not right if you're single.
  • Chinecia Ferrer
    Published 11 months ago
    First Kiss

    First Kiss

    I guess it's journal day! I know I shouldn't stress about my first kiss, and I'm really not, but is it really a big deal? No, right? I've told myself so many times that it's not a big deal, and it shouldn't be. But why do people always freak out when I tell them. Is it weird that a 22-year-old girl has never had her first kiss? Some of you might be saying "yes," others "no," maybe a few "who cares?" Well, I don't care.
  • Morgan H
    Published 11 months ago
    Why I Stopped Using Dating Apps

    Why I Stopped Using Dating Apps

    If you ask me what my “ideal man” is, I’d give you my well polished answer “I’m looking for a strong, "Viking" type guy, tall, with tattoos and a beard."
  • Ashley Peterson
    Published 12 months ago
    Too Curmudgeonly to Couple?

    Too Curmudgeonly to Couple?

    One of the Wiktionary definitions of curmudgeon is "an ill-tempered person full of stubborn ideas or opinions." According to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary, it's a "crusty, ill-tempered, and usually old man." I'm not a man, and I'm not particularly old, either, although at just shy of 40 I'm pretty old by societal standards to be single and never married. But does that mean I'm too old to ever be consciously coupled?
  • Michael Thielmann
    Published 12 months ago
    Unrequited Love

    Unrequited Love

    This is a human experience that is very near and dear to my heart, particularly in recent months. I went through a difficult breakup with my partner of six years, who I still love and respect as a dear friend.
  • Dbag Dating
    Published about a year ago
    The Art of Dating: Paris vs. New York

    The Art of Dating: Paris vs. New York

    When it comes to dating, Paris and New York are like two famous men: both come with reputations that precede them. On one side of the Atlantic we have have the elitist Frenchmen, self-proclaimed ardent lovers who, paradoxically, reject the entire concept of “dating” as a restricting endeavor where romance goes to die.
  • Michelle Schultz
    Published about a year ago
    Being Single Is Horrible

    Being Single Is Horrible

    Being a single is horrible. Not because being single is awful. Being single is an amusing and amazing time. It gives you the opportunity to relearn yourself and to determine who you want to be. Many high school kids didn't get that opportunity, either dating all through high school or trying to fit in all through high school. Being single in your twenties is awful because of all the people who tell you that you shouldn't be single. Being single in your twenties is horrible because of all the weddings you go to where people ask where your date is. Being single in your twenties is horrible because every birthday someone reminds you that you're "running out of time". Being single in your twenties is horrible because your friends won't stop trying to convince you to join Tinder, again. Being single in your twenties is horrible because suddenly, trips to the bar with your friends turns into them trying to get you to flirt with the guy across the room who you have zero interest in.