love
All you need is Love, and Love is all you need.
What's Your Relationship Like?
What’s your relationship really like? What is love, and what is it not? When you start a new relationship, there’s usually a lot of excitement. But what happens when this excitement ends? Sometimes people’s emotions fizzle out and they drift away from their partner without noticing. This becomes a pattern in some relationships, but it can also be the beginning of a new chapter that will lead to true love. Here are some ways to tell if you have true love or just desire.
By Witoon Aranyanarth5 years ago in Humans
It Doesn't Cost Him Anything
— I don’t get it, man. He said he liked me and that he missed me. He was making all these plans for us and all of a sudden he just vanished. As if it wasn’t him that said all those nice things. I mean, why would he say them all if he really didn’t mean any of it?
By April Moons5 years ago in Humans
The Night of the Rain
The office was clam and on the edge due to the recent termination of the seasoned PM. The mode was gloomy, but yet to realize the excitement that would soon brink the morning of a new day. There she was, presenting herself as the temporary solution to the current problems. However, in Timothy's mind; she was the answer to all of his prayers. She spoke softly, but yet commanded presence and authority. This demeanor drove Timothy wild! Knowing the tension of office sexual misconduct in the workforce, Timothy had to reserve himself and respect her position in the workforce. As the day continued, Timothy gained a great deal of respect for her intelligence and her knowledge of the industry.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins5 years ago in Humans
A positive ripple effects from a few assumes
A ripple effect is often used to describe a situation where an effect from an initial state can be followed outwards incrementally. These effects can be either negative or positive and occur quite frequently in society and yes, the Internet.
By muskan shakya5 years ago in Humans
Single and Ready for a Better Relationship?
Relationships serve as our mirrors. Whatever you believe about yourself, you will attract from others as well. Following that thinking, you will always manifest a partner who symbolizes your belief about your self-worth, your assumptions about people's nature, and the world in general.
By Katarzyna Portka5 years ago in Humans
What you didn't know
Sometimes, life gives you a hand while sitting at the blackjack table that makes you look down and say this is some bullshit. It leads you into a deep depression and makes you feel like all has is lost. Now you just lost your life fortune on one dumb-ass hand that could have changed your life. However, at that moment, that lousy hand was creating a path to a different life, and you didn’t realize it.
By Charlene AC5 years ago in Humans
I Could Really Care Less
As individuals, I believe that we are all in apt playing different roles. It makes us strong and gives us meaning. I have several, but the two most prominent are the “Anti-Social Butterfly” and “I Really Could Care Less” roles. I like to think that I’m gifted with words and the art of rebuttals. I can debate on just about any subject or share my opinion with anyone. It’s funny because from the outside looking in people would think that I thrive in social situations, however, the reality is that I cringe at the thought. I’m a social recluse for many reasons. Some of which are, I prefer the company of my own thoughts, sharing my feelings with others gives me anxiety, and I’m a serious control freak. I use to be able to channel these feelings into my writing, but as of late they’re all very much bottled.
By Dania Alfred5 years ago in Humans
Nobody likes a Heartbreaker
I wish toxic men and woman alike understood the short and very long term effects their abuse of any kind impacts their chosen victims life. Maybe that sounds a little over dramatic but when you're dealing with narcissistic individuals or a partner with an abusive pattern then you know my previous statement is almost an understatement. I can't speak for anyone but myself and recently I had an epiphany. Reality check Stephany you're not that special. We all think we're that special one, that one day they're going to miraculously wake up and realize what we're worth, and if they don't stop cheating or lying, or hitting us they're going to loose us. We say to ourselves "of course he's going to treat me better... because I'm worth it" "I'm so good to him". Now I'm not saying you're not worth it and I'm not saying he'll never change but 98.9% of the chances are its not going to happen. Yet we forgive them and we try again and again and cling on to little bit of hope that maybe just maybe they will. Only to have our forgiveness and our hearts and patience taken for granted and our head and emotions to be toyed with one more time. I've been known to love people for lack of a better phrase too hard. I for whatever reason seem to attract very damaged men. I'm very nurturing, I have a heart the size of the ocean that I wear on my sleeve. I want to help everyone and try and save everyone and everything that needs saving. My mother always told me not to let people steal my energy. I still haven't grasped the concept but I'm starting to understand. You can't save or help anyone that doesn't want to be helped, they tend to pull you down with them. I'm a bit naive and often in denial of my reality. I choose to see the good in everyone and this has gotten me hurt time and time again. When I fall in love I love at an unhealthy level. I put all my self worth into my partner. Their opinion of me is the one that matters the most. So when someone says they love me but then cheats on me things become a bit confusing. When I'm giving my all to someone, when I'm loving, caring, giving, patient, forgiving, and understanding... among many other things and in return I'm being hit and lied to, when I'm being left and my belongings are being stolen I question myself. Why am I not good enough... I know what is going on in most people's head. It's obvious. Don't be stupid. He doesn't love you. That's the thing... Maybe he doesn't but I love him. He made me love him. For the first year they're too good to be true. They're perfect and little by little the toxic behavior and abuse starts. Bob Marley said "The biggest coward of a man is the one to awaken the love of a woman with no real intention of loving her." When the one person you love with all your heart mistreats you it's devastating. You literally physically feel your heart hurting. It's the most hopeless and helpless feeling in the world when you try to make them understand and they don't get it or don't even care. There's times you'd rather be dead then feel that kind of heartbreak... that kind of hurt. Pain and betrayal like that can change people. It can start a domino effect. It can cause someone their life. It can make someone crazy, or promiscuous. It doesn't cost anything to be good to people. Be mindful of your actions because they can have real life consequences and impact someone's life in ways you wouldn't think. Love is powerful. Be mindful as well of the hands you put your heart in. It's a very vulnerable position and not many people are going to care for it the way it deserves to be cared for.
By Stephanysays.blog5 years ago in Humans
