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You’re Consuming More Than You’re Living
There’s a shift that happened quietly. No big moment, no clear turning point—just a gradual change in how people spend their time and attention. It didn’t feel dangerous, and it still doesn’t. In fact, most people don’t even notice it.
By mike5 months ago in Humans
The "Good Kind" of Disability. (Apparently I Missed the Memo)
There are moments in life when someone says something so baffling, so cosmically unhinged, that your brain just...blue-screens.
By Tracy Stine5 months ago in Humans
You’re Experiencing Life Through a Filter You Didn’t Choose
Most people believe they see things clearly. They trust their thoughts, their opinions, their reactions. When something feels right or wrong, good or bad, they assume that judgment comes from them—from their personality, their values, their way of thinking.
By mike5 months ago in Humans
You’re Not Growing—You’re Just Getting Used to It
There’s something dangerous about time. Not because it moves fast or slow, but because it gives the illusion of progress—even when nothing is actually changing.
By mike5 months ago in Humans
You Don’t Actually Know Yourself—You Know Your Patterns
A lot of people believe they know who they are. They describe themselves in simple ways. They say things like “I’m not disciplined,” “I’m an overthinker,” “I’m not confident,” or “I’m just like that.” These statements feel true because they’re based on repeated experiences. You’ve seen yourself act a certain way enough times that it starts to feel like a fixed identity.
By mike5 months ago in Humans
You’re Not Tired—You’re Mentally Overloaded
There are days when you don’t really do much, yet you still feel drained. Not physically tired, not the kind of exhaustion that comes from working hard or pushing your limits, but a different kind. Heavier. Harder to explain. The kind that makes even simple things feel like effort.
By mike5 months ago in Humans
You’re Not Confused—You’re Avoiding a Decision
A lot of people say they feel lost. They say they’re confused, unsure, unclear about what to do next. They spend time thinking, going back and forth, trying to figure things out. From the outside, it looks like they’re searching for clarity, like they’re trying to make the right decision.
By mike5 months ago in Humans
You’re Always About to Start Your Life
There’s a pattern a lot of people fall into without realizing it, and it doesn’t look like failure. It doesn’t look like laziness either. In fact, from the outside, it can look like you’re thinking, planning, even improving.
By mike5 months ago in Humans
You Don’t Enjoy Things Anymore—You Evaluate Them
At some point, without realizing it, you stopped simply experiencing things and started evaluating them. It doesn’t feel obvious at first. It’s not like you made a conscious decision to do it. It just slowly became part of how your mind works. You go through moments, conversations, experiences, and instead of just being in them, a part of your brain is always analyzing.
By mike5 months ago in Humans
Plan the Perfect Romantic Honeymoon in Dubai
Dreaming of a honeymoon that combines luxury, adventure, and unforgettable moments? Dubai delivers all three. When I think about the ideal romantic getaway, I picture beachfront resorts, private desert dinners, breathtaking skyline views, and world-class hospitality, and Dubai offers it all in one destination.
By Katie Collins5 months ago in Humans
Where Have all the Good Times Gone. Content Warning.
I wrote this in 1966. At the top of my worn, fragile paper are the words, Batman is a rat fink. Robin is a queer. Joker went wild and lost his head and went crazy.
By Vicki Lawana Trusselli 5 months ago in Humans
You’re Remembering Your Life More Than You’re Living It
There was a time when memories happened naturally. Moments passed, and some of them stayed with you. Not because you tried to keep them, not because you documented them, but because they meant something. They left an impression strong enough to remain in your mind without effort.
By mike5 months ago in Humans