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All about dating. First dates, three years into a relationship, Tinder, and more.
I want to get my ex back
“I want to get my ex back”, that's all you might be thinking about right now, breaking up can be hard times. I’m here to tell you the truth about getting back with an ex-girlfriend, I’ve done it and sometimes it’s been a mistake, others a success.
By juhi kanojia5 years ago in Humans
Important Things To Keep In Mind When Dating An Introvert
So, you’re dating an introvert. Ugh. The person must be quite a mystery, am I right? He or She is also undeniably very attractive, very warm, caring, soft-spoken, and reliable. You may feel you’ve hit the jackpot, and you may be correct. You may also feel very comfortable hanging out with your introvert. You may have a couple of common interests with the person, which is wonderful. So, you’re ready to take the next step. Of moving in together. This is when you will come face to face with real hardcore introversion in a person.
By The Soulful Scribbler 5 years ago in Humans
The Story of Us.
I smile, because I remember the day as if it were yesterday. It was Spring time, and life around me seemed dark. For the first time, in two semesters I went out (which, as most people know is very rare for me) with my cousin and his friends hoping to ease the thoughts inside my head.. for just one night, at least. And, little did I know my world would change forever the next day. The night was a blur, but it occupied the heaviness on my heart; it was a night I needed to escape from the world around me. As I awoke the next day, I knew I had drank a little too much, so I decided to go home and sleep (most of) the day away, of course I had finished all of my homework and did not have class, so that made it easier to do so. In the evening, I decided to try a pizza place that my brother told me about a few months ago, and as we all know a hangover and pizza go hand-in-hand. I thought, (looking back now) way longer than I needed to about whether I wanted to pick the pizza up or have it delivered; as I did not want to leave my bed, although my stomach was a little upset still, so I decided to stop for a Sprite on the way to the pizza place. You see, in life every choice we make leads us to a different path, and as I sit here today I wonder what my life would be like today if I had not made (what seemed like) the most unimportant decision of my life (getting a Sprite at Sheetz). I do, however remember feeling a little more hopeful that day; I felt as if at any moment I would meet someone who would (maybe not) forever, but just for a minute, make me smile again. All I know is, that Fall/Spring was one of the hardest times of my life. I felt broken, unable to be fixed, detached from the world, hopeless, and nobody knew, so I believe that is why I was led to you. They say people come into your life for different reasons; some stay, some go, some teach a lesson... we may not always understand the reason behind meeting someone until later on in life, but eventually the reason becomes clear. As I walked into the pizza store around 5:30-6:00 in the evening, I still had a headache but I was finally feeling hungry. I looked up because there was nobody else at the front (where I was supposed to pick up the pizza), and there I saw you. You were smiling so big, and honestly that smile made me feel like I had known you forever. I smiled back, nervously, of course. You started walking toward the counter and I stated I was picking up a pizza, so you went to get it. That day was a little chilly, so I was wearing a fuzzy brown coat, black sweatpants and yellow vans. You came back with the pizza and said to me, "That jacket looks so cozy", and I (awkwardly) laughed and said "Yes, it is." As you know, I was very unsure if you were "flirting" with me, I assumed that you were just being a nice guy. I could tell you were not from the United States, by your accent, but I did not know where you were from. I remember thinking, I have had so many guys flirt with me, but the way you flirted was different. I could see it in your eyes that you were genuine; you respected me, and that is something I have never encountered before. Yes, I have had guys flirt with me in the past, but the flirting was typically aimed toward my physical features or my body; but you were different, and I admired that. I wanted so bad for you to ask for my number, or even just my name. But, I could see that you were a true gentlemen, and I know you did not want to appear as the typical pushy "man." Again, I admired that. As I left, I turned to look at you, one last time, and in that instant we shared a smile; we shared a connection. Two strangers, from the opposite ends of the world, meeting by an innocent choice, but destined to meet for reasons beyond understanding. On my way home, all I could think about was you. I thought, "Why does a stranger feel so much like home?", "Why do I feel so strongly connected to someone I have never met?" Emotions, thoughts, feelings, all running through me, each shaped with confusion, but all so sure that I was meant to find you. My pizza did not last long, specifically because I had not eaten all day. The thought of you continuously lingered on my mind. I contemplated calling the pizza place back for an hour. I thought, "What if I call and he thinks I am weird, maybe a stalker?", "What if he has a girlfriend already?", and the funniest of all, "What if he isn't into girls that way?" You see, the way you appeared was very retro-ish to me and growing up in the States, I was not used to the uniqueness about you. Don't get me wrong, I thought you were unbelievably handsome, and just so different (personality-wise)... That is why I was so drawn to you. But, from my experience, nothing ever worked out for me the way I wanted it to, so my hopes were not high that day. Anyway, I did end up calling the pizza place back, and the lady that had answered the first time I called had picked up again. I explained to her that I had just come for a pizza, that the pizza was delicious, but I was calling for a different reason. The words, to me sounded so desperate coming out. Never have I made the first move on anyone, but in my heart I knew I couldn't let you slip away. I said, "The reason I am calling is because I wanted to give the man who rung me out my phone number." I sat there, waiting for the woman to laugh, or better, hang up. But she proceeded to tell me that she would tell him (you). After I hung up, I felt so relieved, but anxious, too. I thought, "What if he never texts me?", "What if she gives the number to the wrong person?" I sat, impatiently that night waiting for a text. Finally, I received a text from you, I couldn't believe it. For a minute, I thought she had given my number to the wrong person, but luckily it had really been you, the one I was waiting to talk more to, to learn more about. We talked for a while that night, so long that I even picked you up from work (the pizza place). Gosh, I was even more anxious picking you up, I wanted our instant connection to remain. As you got in my car, you looked over at me in awe, saying "you're beautiful." Picking up a stranger is a little uneasy, so I had to determine your true intentions. As the night progressed, we had talked for hours and I my feelings for you had become overwhelming, and to my dismay, scary.
By Katlyn Oliver5 years ago in Humans
Tinder Travesties - An Investigation of Chad. Top Story - October 2021.
So, I don’t have much luck on Tinder for a number of reasons. I’m mostly on it just to hold onto the possibility that one day I will be loved (read: get laid). But that’s beside the point. What I will admit is, as a straight guy on Tinder, I don’t run into very many weirdos. Every so often, I find a Republican or an aspiring cop or a woman asking for men over six feet only, and that’s jarring, but that’s more of an IQ thing than a weirdo thing. Men on Tinder need to be bolder. It doesn’t take much for a woman to get a swipe-right on Tinder, but a man? It’s a tough crowd out there, and you gotta use every tool in your arsenal, which is why a lot of men rely heavily on the Tinder bio to set themselves apart from the crowd. Sure, a lot of them are normal, but a lot of them are also very not-normal. That’s where the magic begins, my friends. My friend Val came across the Tinder profile of a gentleman named Chad (not his real name), and I thought that it would be worth it to study his bio and peel apart its layers. What is Chad trying to accomplish? How is he accomplishing it? Is he effective? The answer may surprise you. At the bottom of this article, you can find his full bio, but I think it’s better if you experience Chad one or two sentences at a time, for the sake of dramatic effect. This is going to be an excellent study.
By Steven Christopher McKnight5 years ago in Humans
What Questions to Ask Yourself Before Break-Up with Latin Chat Line Date?
There are many single Latin Americans who dial free phone chat line numbers in search of a romantic partner. However, not everyone succeeds in finding the one. Many single Latina and Latino experiences ups and downs in their romantic relationships. If things didn’t work out between the two, it hurts. There’s no point in continuing with such a partner who is just not right for you. However, if you think things can work between both of you, and you want to give yourself a final chance before breaking up, that’s a good thing.
By singles phonechat5 years ago in Humans
4 Things You Should NEVER Do to the Person You Are Dating
Dating a person has been used for years so that people can figure out what they want in a relationship and what type of person they are meant to be with. However, if this practice isn’t taken seriously, then you could end up in a cycle of dating one person after another without finding strong commitment or an equitable partner. Since dating involves two people, it is important to know that even though you are watching the actions of your partner and paying attention to their decisions, he or she may be doing the same to you. Therefore, there are four things that you should never do when dating a person.
By Nicole Higginbotham-Hogue5 years ago in Humans
What's Dating like during the Pandemic
As we are almost done with the second year of the pandemic that we are all trying to survive, I wanted to touch base on what it has been like to try and date during these hectic times. I’m sure as you can imagine dating has been hard. You can’t really go out to places to try and meet anybody. If you can’t do that, then what can you do? You can download dating apps and or visit a dating website.
By Bianca Lafrennie5 years ago in Humans
Getting Back The Years After Being With A Narcissistic Person
Getting back the years after being with a narcissistic person can feel like a task that is not feasible. But it is. Time is our most precious commodity. Unfortunately for many us, we never understand, or appreciate, the value of time…until it is too late.
By Frederick Emerson5 years ago in Humans
The commercialization of emotions
This is a new topic been discussed. Have you ever used a dating site before? If you did it was probably for meeting someone an building an intimate relationship. According to google, the reason for people using dating sites is to find quote "like-minded people" or matches. And it is clear that the internet portray the use of dating apps as all positive. For example one site suggest that Meeting people and falling for them can lead to a disappointment since you barely know them. But online dating apps allow you to read through.
By alain Junior5 years ago in Humans
Love at First Sight
The sun rays from the morning sun woke me as the lacy curtains on the window dance in the warm breeze. I stretched and got up and went to the open window in my bedroom. I watched the sun rise over the ocean into pale yellow clouds and a beautiful blue sky.
By Sherry jackson5 years ago in Humans




