breakups

When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.

People think differently, it’s ok. Content Warning.
How many times have we had this argument? 20 or maybe 30 times, I don’t seem to be able to get through to you. It really doesn’t matter how much I explain or how hard I try to communicate effectively, you just never seem to be able to get what I am saying, or maybe you choose deliberately not to understand, maybe there is a bias in your mind preventing you from accepting the truth, my truth. Looking back at it now, maybe it wasn’t a bias, maybe the problem was somewhere else. I could have guessed your experiences led you to believe the wrong thing, but I think the underlying problem comes from your way of thinking.
By real Jema3 years ago in Humans
Provisional Sunshine
The first time I watched Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, the 2004 film directed by Michel Gondry and written by Charlie Kaufman, I was learning what jet lag feels like. I was in a movie theatre in Reading, England, having landed that morning in London and taken the train to visit a friend from Virginia who was studying abroad. I’d never flown internationally before. I was a few days shy of turning 21.
By BK3 years ago in Humans
The Broken Valentine
Valentine's Day arrives, enveloping the world in its romantic aura. I sit alone in my room, the soft moonlight casting a gentle glow, providing the perfect ambiance for reflection. My thoughts drift to Q, our relationship, and the intricate dance of love that we shared.
By J.B. Rage3 years ago in Humans
Addiction . Top Story - February 2024.
I'M SORRY my depression consumed us. I'm even more sorry yours didn't. If it had we could have been over a lot sooner. Not that I wanted an end at all. But because that's where we ended up anyways, we might as well have saved us a lot of time. People talk about cherishing or focusing on the good stuff... and let me tell yah, having been outside the good stuff for a while I really wish none of it ever happened. This isn't usual for me. I like to think I'm rather the optimist. But with you babe, I spent all my optimism. This isn't to say I didn't have a blast, feel love more intensely then ever imaginable... that's the issue really. I believed you were my one, my soulmate, twinflame, kindred spirit, partner in crime, better half, companion, lover, any other names I'm missing? Someone I've been with in many lives before this one maybe... (I don't know if I believe that sort of thing anymore, but with you I did.)
By Hayley Matto3 years ago in Humans
Holding On Sometimes Does more Damage than letting Go
Navigating the tumultuous terrain of heartbreak is an inevitable part of the human experience. Whether triggered by the dissolution of a relationship, the loss of a loved one, or the shattering of a dream, the sting of heartbreak is a universal phenomenon that transcends cultural, social, and geographical boundaries. Yet, amidst the shared experience of heartache, there exists a perplexing disparity: why do some heartbreaks inflict deeper wounds than others?
By Ibrahim Dauda3 years ago in Humans
Friends to Lovers but in Real Life.
I thought that we were both the same with absent fathers and mothers who was a drunk. I know that for me I felt like I couldn’t leave no matter how badly I wanted to or needed to. For you, you wouldn’t leave no matter what. you found solace in your unwavering loyalty as if the stability you provided could compensate for the lack of it in your own life. I wanted to get out of there and as far away as possible but no matter how far I ran, it was just not enough.
By Nat 3 years ago in Humans
The "Key" To "Finding Real Love."
Hello you lovely human. Thanks for clicking on my article. Some of you are reading this because you're healing a heartache. Some of you are a little lonely. Some of you are here because you saw the title and wanted to come to scorch me for whatever bullshit I'm going to say. Or some of you are genuinely hoping for some kind of answer- a simple but kind of magical explanation for your love problems.
By Hope Martin3 years ago in Humans
The Paradoxal Relationship of Sagittarius and Taurus
Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21) and Taurus (April 20 - May 20) are known for their distinct characteristics. While Sagittarius embodies adventure and freedom, Taurus represents stability and practicality.
By Zondra Dos Anjos3 years ago in Humans
Aries and Virgo Compatibility
Aries is a fire sign that exudes passion and energy, while Virgo is an earth sign that values practicality and attention to detail. However, their differences sometimes make them incompatible. Here is an overview of the love, sexual, communication, emotional, and trust compatibility between Aries and Virgo.
By Zondra Dos Anjos3 years ago in Humans
The Importance of Self-Love Languages: Nurturing Your Emotional Well-Being
The Power of Understanding Your Love Language Love is the purest emotion one feels towards themselves and another individual. While the expression of love can vary in its entirety from one person to another, the care we hold for the ones we love shares an undeniable impact on how we forge our perceptions of interpersonal relationships. The way we communicate our feelings to someone also says a lot about how we are wired, the method of conveying our affection to our beloved ones is called a love language. You may express affection to the one you love regularly, but do you take the time to ensure that you are communicating it in the way that the other person prefers? Even love can become lost in translation when two individuals speak different love languages.
By Hridya Sharma3 years ago in Humans
Lived, Loved... Fell out of..... Content Warning.
~DATING~ You tell me We kiss very honestly. That I kiss like it's our last. And You kiss to curb your craving. Your craving for me.
By Hayley Matto3 years ago in Humans
Timeless Tarot Prediction #5: Valentine’s Day and a Boost of Emotions
This week, we’re diving deep into the Queen of Cups energy. Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, and if we are smart enough, we can use this energy in a way that opens more opportunities than ever.
By Zondra Dos Anjos3 years ago in Humans