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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

they did what?
One morning I was listening to a morning radio show segment called forgive and forget. There was 2 stories I heard that morning that really had me thinking and giving my advice out loud in my car.
By Lena Bailey3 months ago in Humans
You Nodded Then: The Script You Chose Before You Were Born
My senior sat across from me. The tea had gone cold. After he said those words, a plane-tree leaf fell outside the window and stuck to the half-open glass, taking a long time to drop off.
By Jin3 months ago in Humans
Happy Birthday and First Date!
Yesterday, a party of three (my friend, her teenage daughter and myself) crashed my son's restaurant while he was working his shift.
By Lana V Lynx3 months ago in Humans
He Didn’t Speak to Me for Twenty Years. Then He Brushed a Leaf Off My Skirt.
I The production team's first lead on the Katayama family came from a plea for help submitted by their son: "I'm twenty-one years old. For as long as I can remember, my father has never spoken a single word in my mother's presence. I thought that was how families worked, until I stayed over at a friend's house and heard his dad call back, 'Coming.'"
By Jin3 months ago in Humans
A Light That Won’t Easily Go Out
We often hear a puzzled complaint: “Society is already full of deceit and survival of the fittest. Why, from such a young age, do we insist on feeding children ideals of truth, goodness, and beauty? Instead of letting them slam into a wall later and be forced to learn the hard way, wouldn’t it be better to teach them to see reality clearly from the start, to adapt to the real law of the jungle?”
By Jin3 months ago in Humans
Is The Date Interested? How To Tell In Just 15 Minutes
When we meet someone new, especially on a date, we’re often anxious to make that good first impression. If we are also drawn to them, we’re likely to wonder whether they like us, too.
By Elaine Sihera 3 months ago in Humans
Valuation Over $12M Before I Open a Dating App
James's desk sat against the window side of the open-plan office, looking out over the rolling rooftops of San Francisco's Financial District and the gray-blue evening sky. Three monitors crowded his desk, but only the center one was lit; the other two sat dark. Along the left monitor's edge, four sticky notes were lined up—two blue ones covered in technical notes, one pink with next week's investor meeting agenda, and a yellow one at the bottom, half-pinned under a coffee mug, revealing only a single blurry character that looked like "val." The mug was a company-branded giveaway, stamped with "SaaS Co." in faded lettering, with about a third of its contents still inside. James couldn't remember when he'd last drunk from it, or whether it had been hot or cold, but he remembered brewing a packet of instant coffee in it at 9:30 that morning. It was the only calorie he'd consumed all day.
By Jin3 months ago in Humans
Lessons That Continue to Be So Important to Me
Authors Note: Many of the following sayings I don't know who originally said them, but they were all helpful to me in my life! My son was born on July 21, 1978. One month later he stopped breathing. He was diagnosed with sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS). His father and I were struggling in our marriage. We went to a marriage counselor who told us she couldn't help us and she gave us meeting lists and a chemical dependency assessors name and information. She said to work with us would be like pounding our heads against the wall and we wouldn't get anywhere. I started meetings that week. Our son turned 48 this week. In one month, I will have been in recovery for 48 years. My husband went into treatment soon after. During our marriage he went to treatment five times. We divorced; he remarried and had another child. He died from the illness at age 46. Some of the things I learned are below. And like it says above, I am still learning.
By Denise E Lindquist3 months ago in Humans
What to Do When You Find Your Boyfriend on Dating Apps
Finding your boyfriend on Hinge, Tinder, Bumble, or any other dating app can make the whole relationship feel unreal in one awful second. Maybe you saw his profile. Maybe a friend sent you screenshots. Maybe you matched with him from another profile and watched him keep chatting. However you found out, the first decision is not how to punish him. It is how to protect your peace, your body, your housing, your money, and your exit.
By Dating Advice3 months ago in Humans
Capricorn Woman and Aries Man Compatibility Score
At first glance, a Capricorn woman and an Aries man may seem like complete opposites. She is practical, patient, and carefully plans her future, while he is spontaneous, adventurous, and eager to leap into new experiences without looking back. Yet sometimes, it is these differences that create the strongest attraction.
By Inspire and Fun3 months ago in Humans
The Art of the Encounter
Philosopher Martin Buber believed that "all real life is about encounters." Each encounter is not only a meeting with another person, but also a process of rediscovering a clearer version of yourself.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing3 months ago in Humans
The Myth Of 'Opposites Attract' In Relationships
We often hear anecdotes about how people who seem so opposite in every way find deep attraction; some even marvelling that such differences can be reconciled so easily. But in my opinion they don't. That's like an urban myth.
By Elaine Sihera 3 months ago in Humans