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Strangers Are Better Than Friends

The Loneliness Behind Strangers: A Tale of Why They Might Be Better Than Friends

By Vivian EnenchePublished 6 months ago 4 min read
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In the intricate tapestry of human connections, a peculiar thread stands out - the allure of strangers. Friends, those once cherished pillars of support, seem to crumble under the weight of expectations, leaving the loneliest spaces in our hearts. The irony lies in the idea that strangers, often dismissed as fleeting and inconsequential, may offer a solace deeper than the bonds we meticulously cultivate with those we call friends.

The journey into the realm of loneliness begins with the realization that friendship, despite its promises of everlasting camaraderie, can often be a mirage. The burden of expectations, the unspoken demands for loyalty, and the inevitable changes that time brings can turn even the closest of friends into distant memories. Strangers, on the other hand, carry no preconceived notions or burdens of history. They exist in a moment, unencumbered by the weight of shared yesterdays.

In the quiet corners of our minds, we find solace in the anonymity that strangers provide. A fleeting conversation with someone we may never see again becomes a sanctuary, a brief respite from the complexities of friendship. There is a certain freedom in being unknown, in sharing fragments of our souls with those who have no vested interest in our past, present, or future.

Friends, once the keepers of our deepest secrets, can become judges and juries. Strangers, in their transient existence, offer a non-judgmental ear, a canvas on which we can paint our emotions without fear of scrutiny. There is a certain beauty in the anonymity of a shared moment, a confessional booth where we can unburden our hearts without the fear of repercussions.

As the saying goes, "Familiarity breeds contempt." Friends, by virtue of their closeness, often become intimately acquainted with our flaws, insecurities, and vulnerabilities. Strangers, however, see us through a different lens – one unclouded by preconceptions and prejudices. In their eyes, we are not the sum of our mistakes or the echoes of our past. We are simply present, existing in the shared space of a fleeting encounter.

Yet, in our pursuit of solace in strangers, we must acknowledge the inherent transience of these connections. The beauty lies in the impermanence, the fleeting nature of shared moments that do not linger long enough to breed contempt or disappointment. Strangers are better than friends, not because they replace the warmth of companionship, but because they offer a temporary sanctuary in the cold winds of loneliness.

In the end, whether it's the brief exchange of glances with a stranger on a train or the shared laughter with someone in a crowded cafe, these ephemeral connections remind us that sometimes, the comfort we seek is not in the familiarity of friends but in the arms of the unknown.

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Once upon a time in a bustling city, there was a woman named Emma who, despite her vibrant smile, carried a heavy heart. She had a circle of friends, but lately, the laughter felt hollow, and the conversations seemed to echo her loneliness.

One day, as rain poured down in torrents, Emma found herself stranded at a bus stop, drenched and defeated. She watched as strangers hurried past, wrapped up in their own worlds. Little did she know, a man named Daniel, a complete stranger, noticed her plight.

Daniel, with a heart full of empathy, approached Emma and offered his umbrella. "You look like you could use this more than I do," he said with a gentle smile. Emma, surprised by this act of kindness from a stranger, accepted the umbrella and mumbled a grateful "thank you."

As they stood together under the shelter, waiting for the rain to relent, Emma and Daniel began to talk. The conversation flowed effortlessly, and soon, they found solace in each other's stories. Daniel, it turned out, was also grappling with a sense of isolation despite being surrounded by people.

Over time, Emma and Daniel's chance encounter at that rain-soaked bus stop became a routine. They met for coffee, shared stories, and, in each other's company, found a kindred spirit. The friendship with Daniel became Emma's sanctuary, a haven from the superficial connections that once filled her life.

However, fate has a way of weaving its own narrative. Daniel, a traveler by heart, received an opportunity to explore the world. Though Emma was overjoyed for him, the impending farewell cast a shadow on their unique bond.

On the day of Daniel's departure, the bus stop that once united them became a poignant symbol of parting. Emma hugged him tightly, fighting back tears. "Strangers sometimes understand us better than friends," she whispered.

As Daniel boarded the bus and waved goodbye, Emma stood alone at the rain-soaked bus stop, holding the umbrella he had given her. It wasn't just an umbrella; it was a tangible reminder that sometimes, strangers come into our lives to mend the fractures left by those we thought would never break our hearts.

And so, Emma continued her journey, forever cherishing the bittersweet friendship that bloomed unexpectedly at a bus stop on a rainy day—a friendship that proved, in some instances, strangers are better than friends, if only for a fleeting moment in time.

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Vivian Enenche

I’m a sad addict i guess i put life into my writing and feel at ease when i share my pain’s with others

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