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Signs that your partner is controlling you!!

From a male perspective.

By Zuzu7Published 12 months ago 3 min read
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When one person tries to dictate or control their partner's thoughts and actions, it is referred to as dominating behaviour" in a relationship. Saying she's always correct can be a kind of control in a relationship, which is one way a woman might be controlling.

It can be exhausting and frustrating to be in a relationship with a woman who thinks she's always right, especially if she ignores everything you say. This kind of woman can make you feel as though your thoughts, feelings, and opinions don't matter, and you might find yourself constantly defending your position or caving in to avoid conflict. Not only can this be detrimental to your self-esteem, but it can also lead to an unhealthy power imbalance in the relationship.

It can give you the impression that your thoughts, feelings, and opinions don't matter. You might find yourself constantly defending your position or backing down in order to avoid conflict. This can be detrimental to your self-esteem and lead to an unhealthy power imbalance in the relationship.

Among the things to watch out for is getting offended if you disagree with her, if you follow your own decisions, if she constantly mocks your opinions, if she ignores your legitimate complaints, and if she refuses to take into account your perspective or point of view on anything.

A small bit of jealousy is alright, but too much is simply too much, and an obsessive quantity can be detrimental to your relationship. Jealousy can be a form of control in a relationship. When we feel threatened by the prospective loss of anything, such as when we believe we might lose our partner to another woman, jealousy is a possible emotion that can arise.

Consequently, a woman could experience jealousy if she thinks she might lose her spouse to another woman.A woman could feel envious if a man spends time with a female companion or makes mention of other women.If a man consumes extreme porn, If a man doesn't show her open signs of affection in public and claims he is too busy to take her out, it may give the appearance that he is trying to exert control over the relationship.

Being forced is different from being drawn into doing something beneficial, such as exercising or watching videos of Uncle Jamal.A woman might exert pressure on a man by encouraging him to act in ways that are against his personal moral and/or religious principles, pressing him to carry out nefarious activities, making decisions for him when he's not ready or comfortable doing so, encouraging him to abuse alcohol or drugs, or to participate in risky or hazardous behaviour.

Making a man doubt himself can be another method of controlling him in a relationship. She can do this by playing with his emotions and undermining his sense of self in order to exercise power and control over him. A woman can cast doubt on a man by insulting him. Letting him believe he isn't good enough to succeed. By persistently undermining his self-confidence or self-esteem and making him feel like he's not good enough for anybody else, you might make him feel like he's not good enough to be a decent father.

If your woman doesn't respect your privacy, it may be a sign that she doesn't value you or your limits. Respect and privacy can be another kind of control in a relationship. If your wife doesn't respect your privacy, you might feel misled and undervalued. A lady might not respect your privacy if she demands access to your social media accounts or goes through your phone or emails without your consent. Seeking assistance and support can be beneficial if you are in a relationship with a woman who is controlling. Things might start out mildly, but they can quickly spiral out of control, refusing to respect your privacy when you are with friends or family, spying on you or monitoring your activities without your knowledge.

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