If you want to be beautiful all the time, be hard on yourself

When I arrived at the office this morning, I found that the girls were all over the place, saying things like "This is too beautiful! "I'm so impressed!"

It turns out that a colleague inadvertently clicked on a friend's circle of friends, a flip can not stop, while watching and marveling, this friend is too good a life, too happy!

Every morning, she will get up early to make breakfast for her husband and son, sometimes pasta, sometimes bread, fruit, and mixed porridge with fruit ...... After reading, I was also deeply touched, so I admire not only the daily breakfast thing but she can be so attentive to the breakfast thing, the fruit has exquisite The plate, the omelet is beautiful heart-shaped, and the table has beautiful flowers ......

And the photo of her, although still can see traces of age, their temperament is outstanding, and the atmosphere, breezy, is the kind of beauty that is not at all hard.

A colleague said that once upon a time they liked her a lot, she was a presenter, and her voice is very good, elegant, and clean, and now see the person in front of me, feel and her voice complements each other.

And the photos of her, occasionally also show a sense of teenage, and her son, Mr. photo, will hold hands, feeling very sweet, the family's temperament is very good, will also wear a pink sweatshirt ......

The forty-year-old can still be so elegant and beautiful, instantly feel that 40 years old is not so terrible - can still be very beautiful, surrounded by a favorite career, a beloved husband, son.

Perhaps the fear of growing old is the fear of every woman's heart, and the hope of being beautiful forever is our dream.

In college, I took a class in advertising, the teacher of this class is an advertising agency experience uncle, and he is very practical, the final exam gave us the task to choose a brand, to make it an advertising and marketing program.

At that time, I knew very little about advertising and was not very interested in it, so I chose a very common skincare brand and finally handed in a sloppy plan.

I was amazed, what did the teacher appreciate about this copy?

Later, I talked to my teacher, who told me that your proposal was quite thin, but you had captured a very important point: the fear of appeal. I remember I wrote that women are afraid of getting old and want to use all means to slow down aging.

Once upon a time, the thought of getting older, I was also incredibly fearful, the corners of my eyes began to appear vague spots, with the first gray hair, staying up all night to three or five days to repair back ...... to understand how cruel my words that year in a nutshell, in fact, and.

During these two years, in this worry, and fear of the mind, I began to pay attention to the side although no longer young but still living a very beautiful big sister, there are indeed many such, even to 40 years old, 50 years old, but also living a wonderful woman, such as the heart to do breakfast anchor sister.

For example, my heart has always been the jade girl Vivian Chow. Recently saw news appeared the 50-year-old Vivian Chow, found 50 years old she still has a very good temperament, comfortable, and simple, and a pair of big eyes still looks very clear.

Vivian Chow in the movie "Waiting for a coffee for someone

I think Vivian Chow is a woman with great wisdom. I remember when she was in love with Ni Chen, a talented man in Hong Kong for more than 20 years, and was caught in an indecent photo, she was forced to publish an open letter with deep emotions.

In 2008, I knew Ni Chen in the micro time, together through the highs and lows that can not be counted, has long honed a set of our art of getting along with each other. One person's problem, two people to correct; one person's frustration, two people to bear. The two of us are a team, not divided into high and low, win or lose is also one ......

Today I can become self-love, and know how to love people, with incomparable courage and commitment to the woman, please do not underestimate this spiritual partner behind me to pay for all my efforts, tolerance, love, care, and support. I have lived for so long, without Ni Zhen, I can not achieve today's, Vivian Zhou ......

I didn't waste my time with Ni Zhen's love, forever engraved in my heart, no regrets in this life. And I will also live bravely, as in the past.

I was shocked by the words of Vivian Zhou, behind the words hidden deep feelings, and deep thoughts, and let people feel mature and firm ...... less than a week after the open letter, the two received a marriage license, and were still low-key happy.

In fact, Vivian Chow is not as soft as she looks, she confessed in an interview that she is a rational person because she grew up with family reasons and also not very good at enjoying life, but quirky, unusual Ni Zhen changed her a lot.

After marriage, she also still faded out of the entertainment industry, doing daily sports, painting, and occasionally taking commercial activities, or movies, calm and light-hearted, and will live their words the way they want.

You may say, how easy it is? Yes, it is not that easy to become beautiful, and always beautiful.

Ariel was praised for still being very girly in her 30s, but she goes to bed every night between 10 and 10:30 pm and wakes up at 6 am; insists on eating vegetable salad, such a good routine and diet to keep her skin in good condition today.

The peak of her career quietly faded out and went to England to study for a year, to enjoy the fun of learning, but also to keep her mind clear, and the state of continuous learning, so that she can maintain a clear perception of life and have the right judgment of work.

Sun Li, who looks soft on the outside, is also a particularly rational and self-disciplined person, and she has been very concerned about health knowledge and insists on running the gym to keep a good figure and a good mental state.

No one can be elegant easily, you have to learn, exercise, and have self-discipline. Resisting aging is supposed to be resisting the laws of nature and the gravity of the earth, so how can it be possible without a little effort and hard work?

But, you know, "I want to be beautiful", this strong desire is the root of your action. Resist the gravity of the earth with the love of life, resist the rush of this era; resist the gravity of the earth with the love of yourself.