I Walked Away From Him Now What (I Walked Away From Him Will He Come Back)

You ended the relationship because you thought you had found someone better, you realized that this was a mistake, and now you want to win your ex back. WOW! This is a biggie! What on earth made you give up a good thing and think that someone else could make you happier?

You have really put your foot in it this time, I can tell you! However, if you are being honest, and really love your ex as you say you do, then there is a slight chance that you can win your ex back. You do understand of course, that you have in fact, betrayed your ex's trust in you and that this is going to be really difficult to reverse?

The only advice I can give you in this case, is to leave your ex alone for a while, and prove to him that you mean what you say. You have to convince your ex that you DON'T want anyone else, and you are willing to wait for however long it takes, to get him back into your life again.

This means of course, that you are going to have to be a "loner" for quite a long time. If you go out with your friends, it means that you have to brush off anyone who is remotely interested in you. You have to keep telling yourself that you want to win your ex back, and you don't want to be with anyone else.

If, when you are out with your friends, you find that it is hard to resist any attention someone else is giving you, then you must stop going out with your friends as well. It means that you will have to keep yourself busy in other ways. For instance, rather be with your family and friends, or take up a hobby or something else.

However, if you feel that you really can't do this, then you have to realize that there might not be a chance for you to win your ex back. If you enjoy getting attention from other guys now that you're on your own, then you should steer clear of relationships for a while.

How to Get Your Lover Back - 5 Ways to Prepare Yourself

Your ex-lover was the light of your life - but he's not in your life anymore. Fortunately, there are ways to get that person back.

Anyone who has gone back to an ex-lover knows that the same issues that were there before are bound to re-surface after some time back together. The secret to success, then, is to prepare your heart and your mind for the relationship should you both be fortunate enough to be given a second chance at success.

Here are 5 ways to prepare yourself for re-kindling the romance.

1. Recognize your ex-lover for his uniqueness: Even before contacting your ex again for the first time in a long time, you need to close your eyes and really see in your mind's eye what makes that person unique: he's like nobody else on earth. If you are able to picture this uniqueness, this means that you really do understand him in his essence. Before you try to get back together, you need to hold this special image in your mind and in your heart. Once you are able to see it, it is certain that your ex-lover will know this. This knowing is a pre-condition for getting back together.

2. Admit your own faults: You also need to do some soul-searching within yourself about your past actions in the relationship. If you believe that the end to your relationship was mainly the fault of your ex-lover, your chances of making a relationship work again are slim. But, by admitting your own faults (and seeing his faults for what they are), you can both get on the path to forgiveness and reconciliation.

3. Understand his goals and dreams: It is important to see the object of your affection as a person not, well, an object. He has goals and dreams. Have you taken the time to really find out what those dreams are, or do you just assume that you already know? Maybe his goals and dreams have changed in the months or years since you first met each other. It is important to be very sensitive to what he is all about now. Just like life, no individual is static. You need to be sure you are seeing him as the fluid, dynamic person that he is, rather than what you project upon him.

4. Get feedback from close friends and family first: Often, our close friends and family know us better than we know ourselves. Have a heart-to-heart with someone you really trust and ask him whether he believe your relationship with your ex-lover could work again. Of course, you are not obligated to follow his advice. But having his input can serve as an excellent reference point about what to do and what to avoid as you move toward in re-kindling your relationship.

5. Make room in your life for the relationship: If you do get back together with your ex-lover, remember that success will take some work. This is not the time to take up a new hobby, "find" yourself, or spend more time with friends. For a while, you will need to treat your renewed relationship like a job that you love and that can potentially pay you huge benefits. Do everything you do for and with him and you could well be rewarded in having a love that lasts.

Getting your lover back can be an exhilarating, emotional roller coaster. To be successful, prepare your heart and mind for the experience first. By doing so, you stand to greatly improve your chances of success.

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