How To Make My Ex Jealous On Social Media (How To Make Your Ex Jealous On Facebook)

The popularity of social media has created a whole new way to communicate with friends, family and, yes, even our ex boyfriend or girlfriend. Facebook allows us to portray ourselves in different ways and to control the way our friends and family perceive us. Used effectively, you can get your ex back with the Facebook strategy.

Following a breakup, the tendency might be to cut off all forms of communication, at least for a while. My advice, if you and your ex have been "friends" on social media, is don't "un-friend" him or her after the breakup.

Chances are your ex won't un-friend you either. Even if he does, he'll be able to follow you through the walls of mutual friends. There's always a curiosity about what the other person is doing or thinking and social media provides that otherwise secret glimpse into each others' lives. Social media allows us to track (I'll try to avoid the word "stalk") our ex in a socially acceptable way.

Used incorrectly, your ex may un-friend you and your chance of reconciliation are diminished. Follow these guidelines for a successful social media strategy.

Your Social Media Strategy for Getting Your Ex Back

1. Change your profile picture and change it often. Use a picture your ex hasn't seen that shows you beaming and looking hot. As you change your look get new photos taken.

2. Change your relationship status. No sense hiding this from the world.

3. Do Not mention your ex in any posts. Enough said.

4. Do not respond to any posts that mention your ex.

5. Get chatty with your friends. Use this as an opportunity to let everyone know how active you are and how you are enjoying life.

6. Post frequently about trips and events you've enjoyed with other friends.

7. Post some party pics. Keep them clean and respectable. No sloppy drunk pictures. Keep the flirty pictures to a minimum.

8. Join Facebook groups. You want your wall to show how active you are and how you are expanding your interests. Be selective. Don't join any and all groups. You want to create the right perception.

9. Get friendly. Expand your friend list. Friend everyone you meet.

10. Don't flirt. Not an acceptable social media etiquette anyway, so don't be tempted.

11. If your ex writes on your wall, reply with a direct message. Try to keep your initial conversations with you ex private.

You get the picture. You want to portray yourself as happy, confident, connected and ready to walk through doors that are opening for you. You avoid the mistake of making direct contact with your ex and you don't violate the "time and space" rule.

Most important, your ex gets the picture of who you are and it's strikingly different than the one he or she left behind. With the social media strategy you can become freshly attractive to your ex, and that's the first step in your quest to get back together.

3 of the Most Common Breakup Mistakes

There are many things that can go wrong when you are going through a breakup and you are trying to get your life back on track. Most of these mistakes can be fixed or prevented if you just know what to look for and take care of them ASAP. Once you get the mistakes figured out, you get on your way to recovering. Here are a few mistakes that you could very easily be making right now.

Bombardment - Nobody enjoys getting call after call and text after text... no matter how flattering they may be. It just seems desperate and gets annoying. It does not matter if you have the best intentions, but it still does not work.

This is very easy to get in to. It seems like such a perfect thing to do, and being in this emotional state can make it seem even more logical for you. You may not even realize that you are harassing your ex, but that is what you could very easily be doing. This will put you in a bad situation and making getting your ex back much more difficult.

Self Pity - I understand feeling sorry for yourself... you are in a really bad position right now. I have been there too and felt like it as well. It is a very rough time and is hard to make yourself feel good, but you have to try to make yourself feel good. You have to try to make yourself not feel so bad. It is very common to just stop living your life and let it pass you by.

This can hurt you more than just keeping you from getting your ex back. If you will not let yourself have fun, your friends will not want to hang out with you. The same goes if all you ever talk about is your pain. I know it is hard to make yourself get out and have a good time, but it is essential in helping yourself emotionally.

Drunk Dialing - Alcohol will not solve your problems, but a lot of people rely on alcohol to help ease the pain of a breakup. This can lead to many much bigger problems. One of these bigger problems is drunk dialing. Calling your ex when you are drunk is an absolute bad thing to do; you will say something you will end up regretting, look really desperate and look very foolish.

This is a very common mistake that a lot of people make during a breakup, but you have to try your hardest to avoid it. Calling your ex in this state is bad enough, but in a drunken state on top will end up embarrassing you and making everything ten times harder!

These are only three of the MANY issues that people run in to during a breakup. It does not matter if you have already made some of these mistakes, just avoid them from here on out. Once you begin to avoid these mistakes and figure out a plan, you will see just how easy getting your ex back truly is!

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