Let's face it—we can no longer think everything has to be black or white nowadays, and we need to accept that anything in the world we live in has gray areas—and so do our relationships. Is it scary? Fear not! It is actually a pretty good balance, but for it to be so, we first need to agree on that reality.
When you’ve lived in London a long time and you’ve finally embraced the local habits — the lifestyle, the culture — you’re likely hoping to settle down, to find a job, a proper job, and potentially, a pure, genuine, incomprehensible, Brit-born and -bred partner.
It is a beautiful warm Sunday afternoon so my partner and I decide to walk to the beach for a swim, heading through town on our way. She is wearing a beautiful airy summer dress over her swimwear which flows effortlessly in the breeze, I am wearing my swim shorts and a t-shirt so that I can get straight into the sea when we find our spot on the warm sand. The sun is beaming in a cloudless pale blue sky giving us a skip in our step and a light feeling in our souls. We happily chat away as we stroll along the busy pavements, chuckling to each other at the holiday makers stopping dead in their tracks in-front of us, oblivious to the ‘people-jam’ that they create as they peruse shop windows for treasures and trinkets to take back home to loved ones; maybe an I love Paignton t-shirt or key-ring, possibly some fudge for grandma. We continue on our way holding hands, exchanging glances and little kisses as we go. We are in love and its plain to see.
Having a lot of doubts in the mind people that the relationship will make them happy. The relationship will make him worthy and give them a feeling of joy. The relationship will give them a feeling of greats and erase all signs of grief from their life. In a relationship, people thought about their needs and wants. But they forget about other people. They started inspecting them all moments with their partners. They not only make their life hell but their's partners.
What is love bombing?
Love bombing is the most manipulative dating trend. Just like a wolf in a sheep skin. Lies take a bigger share of your relationship but because you feel loved you you’ll want the whole neighborhood to know all the awesome stuff your guy does to you.
Lately I've been noticing the difference when women get rejected, as opposed to men getting rejected. Although the women opinion is really just my own opinion, but I'm always wanting to read other peoples points of views and comments. :)
Have you noticed how good your partner feels when you express your love to him/her?
In this busy schedule, you often start taking your partner for granted and fail to do a few little things that would make them special. As a result, love between both of you decreases.
Step 1: Don’t actively try to impress her.
Now, this sounds counter-intuitive but it’s ACTUALLY so important. Here’s why: When you brag or actively try to impress a girl with how awesome or badass you are, you’re just asserting the fact that you’re NOT actually badass because you constantly need to remind everyone that you’re a badass.