"After rejecting a blind date, he came back to me overnight."

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In a relationship, a man may not be serious enough to you, but he must be serious enough to money.

I always say when it comes to relationships, guys are more realistic than girls.

Thinking back to the news a while ago, I feel more like this truth: some cheating philandering men spend money not only to hear the sound, but also can be recouped.

Especially when it comes to blind dates, things can be more realistic.

On the surface, gentle and elegant, secretly assess, this figure is worth spending money to date, this economic condition can wipe off how much oil.

Therefore, if you want to know how much a blind date man is committed to the relationship, you can see his attitude towards money after breaking up.

"After rejecting the blind date, he made a dating consumption form."

In order to let his ex-girlfriend pay back the spending income, even choose to call the police, even mom mom package dumplings also calculate in, an 80 cents.

The meme went viral for days, with countless real-life experiences: returning food for a blind date dinner, asking to report salary expenses...

In short, pick a man pass, or it could be bad luck.

But that's all for another day. In any case, blind dates are bound to cost money.

Not only spend money, but also may not be one-time money, but many times, after all, unlike in the past, modern contact with more people, it is difficult to "fall in love at first sight", not to mention, talk about marriage also want to contact in many ways.

At this point, you should neither lose face nor let the other person think that you are generous and don't care about money.

Otherwise, neither partner will have a good idea of where to draw the line.

Around the real case is like this, generous treat blind date does not bring good feelings, but some "hint" a lot:

"Tomorrow we will play XXX"

"What do you want to give me for my birthday?"

But in fact, can really have a relationship with a girl, will test spending power, but more will test his understanding of money.

For example, whether he has the ability to save, consumption level, financial management ability, willing to pay how much bride price and so on.

In other words, together because of the three views on consumption, the right ability, then the consumption of money is also solved.

Otherwise, a sense of imbalance will only lead some money-conscious men to draw up long lists and ungraciously withdraw money spent in a relationship.

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Have you ever seen a real "high-end dating platform"?

It is said that the entry fee is 1,688 yuan, and 20 men and women sit at a long table, each examining the other's worldly intelligence and thinking ability.

The whole game, looked tired for them, but very efficient, after all, one breath "interview" 20 people of the opposite sex.

It's like business. You don't like it. You change.

It's true that there are ways around that require all kinds of material resources to screen a blind date, but you also need to spend a significant "cost".

If such a relationship comes to an end, there will be "haggling" over economic issues, and the most important thing is "really wrong payment".

Sadly, the more people want to change their life through marriage, the more they see it as a lifeline.

Would rather be constantly bound by the gossip of friends and relatives, also do not want to get out of the material dependence, to take a look at the heart.

After all, it is character, not money, that really counts in a mate; No matter how much money you get, you can't be empty for the rest of your life.

It is true that one should take a long-term view of a blind date, just like looking for a job and exploring the direction of one's life and career.

But, it's about how to work the relationship, to find a way to get along in marriage, not to spend money on shortcuts, which are bound to be afraid of losing.

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Life itself is the ultimate touchstone of all feelings.

Every time a friend complains that a gold-digger makes him or her feel that he or she would rather die alone, I say that's just life.

The cold eyes, stinginess, selfishness and so on that we encounter on blind dates are the essence of human nature that we are likely to see in marriage in the future.

Money is the same. It means what kind of life you want to have.

Maybe people are used to paying regardless of the cost in the relationship, so the calculation of the cost of the people, so don't understand.

If from another point of view, take it as a test of feelings, to the life of the most subtraction, so that meet the right people, to cherish.

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~This is Antoine, and I hope you find pleasure in each of my articles~