sexual wellness

Safe sex is the first step to enjoyable sex. Advice on improving your sexual health to improve your sex life.

  • Katrin with Love
    Published 4 days ago
    How Your Lubricant May Be Messing Up Your Vagina

    How Your Lubricant May Be Messing Up Your Vagina

    If you’re dealing with painful sex and vaginismus in particular, choosing the right lubricant is even MORE important than the right set of dilators.
  • Roseanna Davis
    Published 9 days ago
    WHY WE SHOULD TREAT DEPRESSION, ANXIETY AND SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION TOGETHER

    WHY WE SHOULD TREAT DEPRESSION, ANXIETY AND SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION TOGETHER

    Sexuality is an element that plays an essential role in both women and men. In addition to being vital, it also allows you to flourish and have better self-esteem. Impotence in the sexual domain is also considered as one of the factors leading to the deterioration of the image that those who are victims of it have of themselves. However, these sexual dysfunctions have much more important causes, especially in men.
  • Lydia Catherine
    Published 10 days ago
    Kink and Social Distancing

    Kink and Social Distancing

    Many people in the community are in the same situation at this point in time, staying home and socially distancing themselves from everyone else in order to slow the spread of COVID-19.
  • Leigh Norén
    Published 18 days ago
    I Know Why Your Sex Drive Is Gone

    I Know Why Your Sex Drive Is Gone

    “Why has my sexual desire decreased?” — five words I hear strung together on a daily basis in my job as a sex therapist. Often, they’re accompanied by worry, sadness and sometimes even panic.
  • Leigh Norén
    Published 19 days ago
    Male Difficulty Reaching Orgasm - Yes, It's A Thing.

    Male Difficulty Reaching Orgasm - Yes, It's A Thing.

    Not being able to orgasm can be distressing for anyone, regardless of gender. But for those who identify as men — it can be especially taxing. The male orgasm is often portrayed as both easy and explosive (watch any porn-film out there and this becomes abundantly clear). Because of this, male difficulty reaching orgasm is perhaps one of the sexual issues we stigmatize the most.
  • Demeter DeLune
    Published 23 days ago
    When Our Sexual Needs Are Met, Something Changes Inside

    When Our Sexual Needs Are Met, Something Changes Inside

    When I began writing about sex, one of the things I expected to hear a lot was how disappointed people were with their sex lives.
  • Frank White
    Published 24 days ago
    What is Premature Ejaculation and Can You Prevent It?

    What is Premature Ejaculation and Can You Prevent It?

    Sex is great. But for some of us, it’s not always the romantic, enjoyable, carefree activity it should be. Among other issues, a particularly common sexual disorder for men is premature ejaculation. Speaking as a man, I can say exactly how it feels to ejaculate earlier than desired: rough. It can be detrimental to man’s emotions as well as his partner’s. Not only does it disrupt intercourse, it can lead to feelings of shame or embarrassment, especially if it is a frequent occurrence.
  • Gabrielle Lamontagne
    Published 24 days ago
    Try A Little Tenderness

    Try A Little Tenderness

    Romance novelists and most of my female friends seem to think that the most enjoyable way of achieving orgasm for a woman is to have a man stick his tongue into her vagina and wiggle it around until he hits the right nerves a few times. Obviously, that’s not how they would describe it, but that’s generally the real-life version. For me, it’s much too messy.
  • Katrin with Love
    Published 25 days ago
    CBD Lubricant To The Rescue

    CBD Lubricant To The Rescue

    Do you feel that burning…
  • Katrin with Love
    Published 28 days ago
    6 Lessons Of The Vaginismus Journey

    6 Lessons Of The Vaginismus Journey

    I struggled with vaginismus for as long as I can remember and did not find out about the existence of this condition until a couple of years ago.
  • Demeter DeLune
    Published 30 days ago
    Casual Encounters Are Nothing to Be Ashamed Of

    Casual Encounters Are Nothing to Be Ashamed Of

    Years ago, Craigslist had a section for Casual Encounters. I’ll admit, I placed ads there on occasion, when I was looking for a friend with benefits without emotional attachment.
  • Ariel Rebel
    Published 2 months ago
    Are sex toys companies trying to kill us?

    Are sex toys companies trying to kill us?

    Fact is... I have one giant box filled with various dildos, vibrators and other sex toys of all shape, sizes and material types, in my storage space.  I've used them on webcam shows, videos... and, I sometimes wonder, how many of these are toxic for me, if any?