So in the world of sex, there are two categories: kinky and vanilla. Kinky is where people are into stuff that goes beyond traditional sex, like restraints, orgasm control, and butt plugs. Vanilla is anything that involves regular anal, oral, or vaginal sex. Sometimes vanilla people use kinky once in a while to spice things up. Sometimes they come to the kinky side permanently. Vanillas sometimes badmouth the kinky people because they don't understand or they're just closed-minded and/or judgmental. Some kinky people have not been very nice to the vanillas either. One reason is that some of them may have been hurt by the vanillas. There is no shame in being kinky or vanilla. The thing is that we need to stop shaming each other or talking bad about each other. Just because you don't understand or agree with someone doesn't give you the right to be mean, judgmental, or rude.

The diaphragm is a type of birth control. It is a piece of material that is dome-shaped. The diaphragm gets inserted into the vagina, and covers the cervix to reduce the risk of pregnancy. They are usually made from latex or silicone.

Three years ago, I was casually dating a boy, and one day this boy had a cold sore on his mouth. Some cunnilingus and few days later, I was experiencing extreme pain in my womanly regions... enflamed vulva and outer skin, strange sores that looked like popped blisters that invaded the whole area, pain while sitting, standing, doing anything, smelly discharge, and thick rough skin. I know, gross.

For years now, the question as to why there is no contraceptive pill available to men has been unanswered. Now, Dundee University is the latest organisation attempting to give us an answer. Researchers at the university have already begun work on finding a drug to stimulate male infertility, although it is estimated that it will take about five years before the pill is able to be tested and much longer before it will be available in pharmacies.

What does an orgasm feel like? It's a common and pretty understandable question. So if this is a question you're not sure how to answer, then don't worry because you're not alone. A lot of people, particularly women, struggle with knowing if they've ever had an orgasm. Many others have a hard time pinpointing when and if their orgasm occurred.

It was a Saturday afternoon.

*The Agony Element™ was discovered and trademarked by PTSD-Related Intimacy Issues Expert and Sexual Anthropologist, American Authoress Nannette LaRee Hernandez, who noted a discernible pattern amongst the 8,347 men and women that suffered from Acute, Chronic or Complex Traumas, who'd sought her sexual advice in relation to their Intimacy Issues.

When we are talking about sex, it can mean more than just one thing. Oral sex is one type of sex that people can engage in. It involves the use of the mouth and tongue to stimulate the genital or anal region of someone else. The whole purpose of oral sex is pleasure. It's not possible for pregnancy to occur from oral sex.

One of the ways we can practice safer sex is by ensuring we are using protective barriers, such as condoms. Some people think that condoms ruin sex but along with keeping us safe, many condoms are designed to enhance pleasure. It's all about figuring out what kind of condoms you prefer for which activities. Which one you choose will depend on your needs and preferences. There are a lot of different kinds of condoms to choose from but they do fall into three basic categories: external, internal, and oral.

So you want to try anal sex? Here's why you shouldn't until you consult a professional.

Do you ever ask yourself, how often should I get tested? Getting tested is an important part of safeguarding your sexual health but how often should you go? The answer is going to be a little different for everyone. The choice is a very personal one and there is no right or wrong answer. Each person needs to decide their own level of diligence based on their lifestyle and choices.

Everyone has an STI status and it's important for you to know yours. It's a huge piece of being a sexually healthy and responsible adult. Getting tested on a regular basis will help you avoid any long-term health risks by helping you to address any problems quickly and before they cause any serious damage. It also helps you keep your sexual partner(s) safe as well by reducing the risks they have of contracting anything.