We all as human being have sexual experiences in our lives. We all admit, men especially, love it or not love it. We all have good and bad experiences when it comes to sex. Men do too. I mean, just because they are men doesn't mean it's always good for them. Let me tell you what pleases a man in bed the most.
Oral sex
Men love oral sex, but not every man likes a fast motion sucking. A lot of men like slow, passionate, affectionate oral sex. The best way to do it is to start off kissing there. Kissing from the top of his penis to the testicles over and over again is a good way to show affection. Most men dream of having it done to them. A little rubbing during is pleasurable too. So the next time your in bed with your man, give it a try.
French kissing
Most men love French kissing before, during, and after sex. Some men are very nervous, so try kissing him first. Slowly come on to him during. Touch his lips and start with soft kisses. Talk to him, tell him it's ok to kiss you. Let him kiss you when he is ready to. Don't rush the first time with a new man. Take your time with him.
Touching
Touching is something a man loves doing and loves receiving. Let him know ways your are comfortable, and not comfortable, with being touched. Listen to his boundaries as well. If there are ways he is not comfortable, honor that. Guide his hands. Let him caress you, even for a few seconds. Take it slowly. Let him feel you. Enjoy his touch. Kiss him while he touches you. Touch him back and ask him how it feels.
Slow or fast
Some men like penetrating fast. Some like it slow. Some like a mixture of both. Men get more excited than women do. As long as he is good to you outside of the bedroom, who cares how it goes on the inside. But even if some don't care there are some who don't like it fast or don't like it slow. Talk to each other. Sexual gratification, especially for women, doesn't come the first night together.
There are things men love doing to a woman that he enjoys.
Oral sex on a woman
Some men love performing oral sex on a woman. They love pleasuring a woman they love. It's something a lot of men desire. If you like oral sex, and he is performing it, tell him how it feels. Take it slow and give it time.
Kissing certain spots
Men love kissing a woman on certain spots. A woman's thighs, breast, and neck are sensitive to a man's kiss. If you are comfortable with these areas and you like it let him know. Don't just lay there and not tell him. Tell him how it feels.
Caressing
Men love to caress a woman in certain areas. Men love to touch a fell a woman they love and they love when she enjoys it. Men love to show affection before, during and after sex. Love making is a good way to show someone you care.
So there are these things and many more that a man loves to do in bed. There are many ways to show him, and for him to show you how much you love each other.
Try to remember that not all men act like dogs and that most just want to be loved. Showing him true passion is a good way to make a relationship.
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