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  • Lena Bailey
    Published about 18 hours ago
    My BDSM Horror Story Update

    My BDSM Horror Story Update

    I want to start this post off by saying that I am not making any of this up to get attention. I'm doing this so that people will feel like they aren't alone. I want people to be aware that this happens. I also want people to look for the signs. I will mention a new person but this new person decided to block me and possibly ignore my warnings so I think this is fair game to talk about.
  • Lena Bailey
    Published 3 days ago
    Play Buddies and FWB

    Play Buddies and FWB

    I really want to continue doing posts on how to do certain dynamics or teach you about certain dynamics. This one will be really simple and might be enlightening to some of you. So let's jump in, shall we? If you don't know what play buddies are, it's just what it sounds like. It's when two adults decide to do sexual stuff to each other but maybe not go all the way. If they go all the way, it may evolve to friends with benefits (FWB) possibly. Friends with benefits is where two friends (again adults) decide to maintain a friendship but fuck and maybe play on occasion. There's different variations of this, but this is the main dynamic of this variety.
  • Alicenaraa Naraa
    Published 3 days ago
    7 Things to Do Before a Hookup You Need to Know

    7 Things to Do Before a Hookup You Need to Know

    Knowing that you are on the verge of a great hook up experience is a great feeling. When you actually do it, it ends up being exciting, thrilling, embarrassing and even weird sometimes, which just makes it more memorable and enjoyable. For some people, it might be a life changing event and for others it ends up being a memory to cherish for the rest of their lives. There are innumerable ways in which you can be affected by a casual hook up experience. However, if you go about it without exercising caution and common sense, you might end up with the exact opposite. Such a situation will end up leading to an experience that you will not only regret but even one that might put you in a lot of danger.
  • Lena Bailey
    Published 4 days ago
    Fake or Bad Sugar Daddies

    Fake or Bad Sugar Daddies

    So as I go through my journey as a sugar baby and as a friend to some babies, I will always learn more so I may write several posts about one topic. I wrote one post already to give you the basics about salt or fake daddies (Filthy: "Salt Daddies and Fakes").
  • Lena Bailey
    Published 4 days ago
    Salt Daddies and Fakes

    Salt Daddies and Fakes

    In the world of sugar, there are several names or terms for fake daddies or wannabes. I'm here to clear up any confusion or questions. I will be using the term Splenda or salt a lot but some of this can be true for scammers too. A lot of girls prefer online and some of this can be used for that so take this advice and apply it to what you want. Let's dive in—we have a lot to cover.
  • Lena Bailey
    Published 4 days ago
    Little and Middle Aesthetic

    Little and Middle Aesthetic

    Baby girls are submissives in the realm of DDlg (daddy Dom/ little girl) or age play. There are also a group of subs called baby boys. Littles (baby boys and girls) come in all ages. There is also a group called middles who are like littles but they identify as teens instead of like 12 or younger. Some people just like age play but don't consider themselves submissives.
  • Narinder singh
    Published 6 days ago
    What Are the Best Masturbation Tips and Masturbation Techniques?

    What Are the Best Masturbation Tips and Masturbation Techniques?

    Discover some of the best female masturbation tips for males, and masturbation techniques for females.
  • Gayla Ber
    Published 8 days ago
    What a Girl Wants

    What a Girl Wants

    DISCLAIMER: I don't speak for all women, we're all different. But I speak from my experience and expectations. Thank you.
  • Amy Neuman Proffitt
    Published 8 days ago
    Let’s Talk Nudes

    Let’s Talk Nudes

    I'm 44, which seems old in your world. I get it. But, I am also a mother of 4 kids—3 gorgeous girls ages 19, 16 and 14, and one handsome fella who is 9. What does that matter? Well, it means I am highly qualified to talk on this subject. I have been schooled by my girls, been part of countless conversations around the topic, and seen all the bad stuff that comes from it. Now that you know I know what I'm talking about, let's have a very frank discussion about nudes, shall we?
  • Teela Hudak
    Published 8 days ago
    What Is Foreplay?

    What Is Foreplay?

    Foreplay, like sex, can mean a lot of different things to different people. It can include a variety of activities, or few at all, depending on the preference of the couple or individual. Foreplay is all the erotic stimulation prior to sex.
  • Teela Hudak
    Published 10 days ago
    What Is Masturbation?

    What Is Masturbation?

    Masturbation is the act of self-stimulating the genitals for pleasure. In most cases, it usually is continued to the point of orgasm or until the person feels satisfied. It's a natural way to help someone relax, reduce overall feelings of stress, and explore their sexuality.
  • Teela Hudak
    Published 12 days ago
    Should You Play Hard to Get?

    Should You Play Hard to Get?

    Some people think that it's necessary to play hard to get. But what does that actually mean? When we are talking about dating and relationships, this usually refers to putting up some resistance to the attention given by another person. The attention may be their pursuit of a relationship or simply their interest in a casual sexual encounter. Either way, it's seen as someone offering up a fight but secretly wanting to give in to the desire and attention of the other person. The belief is that the person wants to be pursued. Sometimes this is also called token resistance because the resistance that they offer isn't really meant. So if they are going to consent, why do people play hard to get in the first place?