advice

Find advice on relationships, sex, what to buy, how to try new fetishes, how to interpret fantasies, and more.

  • Gypsy Deeva
    Published 6 days ago
    Dirty Talk

    Dirty Talk

    Dirty talk has always made me feel awkwardly shy, which is totally out of character for me to be shy about anything. Awkward, on the other hand, well letโ€™s just say I donโ€™t need to flirt, I seduce with my awkwardness. But back to my point, I believe the main reason dirty talk is foreign to me is because I donโ€™t curse in my day-to-day speech.
  • Elise
    Published 15 days ago
    Casual Sex
  • 10 Things That Turn Guys On

    10 Things That Turn Guys On

    In a relationship youโ€™ll always find ways to please your partner. Everyone has different taste but that doesnโ€™t mean it should stop you from switching things up.
  • Kara Kanai
    Published 24 days ago
    How To Love

    How To Love

    What's a relationship without intimacy? Truth is nothing. The relationship/marriage would never make it without intimacy being present. There are 5 types of intimacy: Emotional, Physical, Sexual, Spiritual and Intellectual. Most of us just simply see intimacy as two units emotional and physical. Learning now there's 5 different types I'm sure you never put that into perspective. So if we really think about any of these types being absent in a relationship can you understand why it wouldn't last or you could stay together and be "stuck" is also a choice many couples deal with. They choose to live that way that is so unhealthy for yourselves and those around you seeking out a ridiculous lie! Being an intimacy coach this is what I see all to much in my clients whether their sexless, "stuck", their too broken. I hear every excuse in the book but the one I'm really there to teach and coach about. Fighting for your relationship be reclaiming your love life and seeing that you truly deserve happiness. My clients rather stay miserable and live that way then engage in a way that could fix the problem if some effort and dedication went into the actual relationship itself. Regaining that spark back is hard I get it but also letting it go is not somehow going to fix anything either. With time the problems and resentment just builds to new level of no return or you have the participants not wanting to even try and consider saving it. It's the last option they have in mind until they come and see me. Reigning intimacy isn't easy but here are just a few examples:
  • Heather Wilkins
    Published about a month ago
    Sex Tips: Your Partner's Needs

    Sex Tips: Your Partner's Needs

    Gossiping among all forms of women, everyone hears the same complaint. "My husband doesn't do what I like," or "My wife insists we do something to spice up the bedroom," and the beat goes on. Men and women complain that they don't do enough to liven up the bedroom.
  • Edwin Betancourt
    Published about a month ago
    Masturbation For Men 101: There IS a Wrong Way!

    Masturbation For Men 101: There IS a Wrong Way!

    There is just something so taboo about masturbation.
  • Lena Bailey
    Published about a month ago
    BDSM Mentors and Protectors

    BDSM Mentors and Protectors

    So I wanted to write this post for those who were curious about what these people did and if they need one or both. I also wanted to write this for my mentee to teach them what I should (and could) do for them. I will be putting in what I know and what others around me know into this post. So let's get started โ€” there's a lot to cover.
  • Adriana Smith
    Published 2 months ago
    How To Really Turn The Sex Up A Notch In Your Relationship

    How To Really Turn The Sex Up A Notch In Your Relationship

    When you get into a relationship, the most important thing is sex. One should know that sex is not just physical in a relationship, it is a mental and emotional connection as well. If you are disturbed because of any issue in your family or at your workplace, you wonโ€™t be able to turn on that easily. Because your mind is somewhere else and you are in a completely different state of mind. To have a notch in your relationship, sex doesnโ€™t require only toys and sexy clothes, it takes some extra effort from you and your partner.
  • Jaime Hunter
    Published 2 months ago
    How to Start 2020 (and New Decade) With a Bang

    How to Start 2020 (and New Decade) With a Bang

    So now that Christmas and the New Year celebrations have long but finished, and youโ€™re back to the daily grind of working with nothing exciting to look forward to on the horizon. In the break you had at the end of December, you spent more time with your significant other or your friends (with benefits), but now youโ€™re a bit more busy, you might be seeing them less often. However, that shouldnโ€™t come as a detriment to your sex life. If anything, itโ€™ll make those moments of intimacy all the more special for it. And also the new year (and the new decade for that matter) is a time for resolutions, so even if you havenโ€™t made any so far, thereโ€™s still time to get one. So perhaps it might be time to think about what you could be doing better and doing differently in the bedroom department (and whatever department you decide to get intimate in). So what can you do to improve your sexual experiences?
  • Joseph Crown
    Published 3 months ago
    Is there more than one type of orgasm I could be conditioning?

    Is there more than one type of orgasm I could be conditioning?

    No one comes with an instruction manual, but learning about the possible responses a woman is capable of producing is more than the average woman knows. Most woman can name and differentiate parts of their body, but physical education is inadequate in many parts of the world. Tell a woman that she can have more than one type of orgasm when sheโ€™s still figuring out how to consistently achieve one will undoubtedly get you a raised eyebrow matched with some disbelief. This post will go over some of the different types of orgasm that a woman can achieve. This knowledge is will help guide you in guiding your subject and developing these orgasms through your conditioning efforts.
  • SmartStrippers
    Published 3 months ago
    5 Essential Stripper tips

    5 Essential Stripper tips

    From years of dancing over the globe I have come up with some key factors to take on board. I make consistently good money and believe some of these tips are the reason for that. Sit up and soak in my tips to be the richest hoe you can be (If you get offended by the word hoe, you can already fuck off, you don't deserve my tips).
  • Joseph Crown
    Published 3 months ago
    The Gifts of Being A Hypno Dom

    The Gifts of Being A Hypno Dom

    There is much written about the gift of submission, and not enough written about being a Dom who is capable of putting oneself out there. Being a Dom means sharing who you are. The best and worst of you are your gifts that you share. These gifts are how the world knows you. You give acceptance for who others are and could be. You give purpose, inspire passion, and invite others to join you with a vision of the future. You offer a safe, forgiving space that appreciates those you surround yourself with. You hold space while others share their doubts, fear, and worry so they can be encouraged to move past them. You offer peace, love, guidance, and discipline as each action helps to order the chaos surrounding us. You offer your strength, faith, trust, and courage when others fail. A Dom becomes a living expression of feedback, sanctuary, and praise. It can be the embodiment of feeling home, accepted, and needed. You become a symbol that connects the whole expression of an individual with opportunities and possibilities that come from being together.