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Can Tourists Take Sex Toys to Dubai?
There is no clear yes or no answer in the public guidance from Dubai Customs. Its online rules do not name sex toys as a separate category. However, customs guidance does list broad restrictions on items that may conflict with public morals or UAE law. Customs officers can also inspect travelers’ luggage.
By Salman Ashraf2 days ago in Filthy
Still Confused About Choosing Your First Sex Toy?
Choosing your first sex toy can feel like a bigger decision than it needs to be. There are many shapes, features and materials, and product descriptions can use terms that are hard to compare. The best place to start is with what feels comfy to you, what you want the toy to do and how leisurely it is to clean.
By Salman Ashraf2 days ago in Filthy
He Chased Fire. She Chased Light. Neither Could Stop.
Screen 1:17 a.m. Evan’s thumb slid across the screen. Left, right, left, right. Profiles lit, went dark, lit. Match. She sent an emoji. He replied, “Hey.” They agreed on Saturday, three p.m. Hotel lobby. She wore a white sweater. He smelled her perfume. Two hours later, he put on his shoes. She said, “See you next time.” He said, “Okay.” In the elevator he looked at his phone. No new messages. He walked out to the street, bought a bottle of water. Drank two sips, threw it in the trash. The phone lit up again. He swiped. Left, right.
By Jin4 days ago in Filthy
My Teacher Posted an Abalone Video. I Still Have to See Him Twice a Week.
When “Don’t Play with Your Food” Is No Longer a Joke: The Taichung High School Teacher Abalone Video Controversy, and the Discomfort No One Can Say Out Loud
By Jin17 days ago in Filthy
I Know Why Men Think About Sex
“Look at those.” “Where?” “You missed it.” It’s annoying when Fabien doesn’t specify, but I know exactly what he’s talking about.
By Zohan Khan2 months ago in Filthy
Everyone Thinks Bisexual People Are Secretly Something Else, And I’m Tired of It
There’s been a lot of conversation online recently about bisexuality. And by “conversation”, I mean people confidently explaining bisexuality to bisexual people.
By No One’s Daughter2 months ago in Filthy
The Art of Building Anticipation
One of the most erotic and sexy things you can do with your partner is build up the anticipation, not just before sex, but before even the foreplay begins. It can be minutes, it can be hours, or you can go for the all day anticipation. However long it last... it often enhances the entire experience for both partners from start to finish. If done right, it truly is an erotic art.
By Timothy A Rowland2 months ago in Filthy
How to Talk About Your Desires Without Shame
This post is for both the men and the women who read it. Men are afraid to talk about their desires and fantasies because they are afraid that their girlfriend or wife will judge them or freak out some how. Women are afraid to talk about their desires and fantasies because they are afraid that their boyfriend or husband will either think less of her or he will possibly take it too far. The sad result is that everybody stays silent, despite both of them often having similar wants and desires. Sad all around, really.
By Timothy A Rowland2 months ago in Filthy
Sexuality
We all as human being have sexual experiences in our lives. We all admit, men especially, love it or not love it. We all have good and bad experiences when it comes to sex. Men do too. I mean, just because they are men doesn't mean it's always good for them. Let me tell you what pleases a man in bed the most.
By Danielle Mosley2 months ago in Filthy
Foreplay Matters More Than You Think
When people think about great sex, they often focus on what happens during intercourse. But many overlook one of the most important parts of intimacy: foreplay.
By Mark Lim 3 months ago in Filthy
On Modesty. Content Warning.
Introduction I have written about this before, how the human body must be covered in the name of modesty. I will probably repeat a lot of points that I have previously made but they do need repeating. I often say to people who remark on the number of Vocal stories I publish, that I am a bit like a newspaper, you just read the bits that catch your eye and interest you.
By Mike Singleton 💜 Mikeydred 5 months ago in Filthy
High Sex Drive in Women
Having a high sex drive in women is more common than you might think, yet it remains one of the most misunderstood aspects of female sexuality. The psychology of high female libido involves complex factors including hormones, emotions, stress levels, and personal relationships. If you've ever felt like your sexual desires are "too much" or wondered if something is wrong with you, you're not alone.
By LaMarion Ziegler5 months ago in Filthy