sexual wellness

Safe sex is the first step to enjoyable sex. Advice on improving your sexual health to improve your sex life.

  • Leigh Norén
    Published 3 months ago
    The 3 Sexual Ideals Responsible For Difficulties Orgasming With A Partner

    The 3 Sexual Ideals Responsible For Difficulties Orgasming With A Partner

    Society places a lot of emphasis on orgasms. We’re meant to orgasm easily, every time we have sex, and, preferably, at the same time as our sex partner. As a sex therapist, I’ve seen first-hand how sexual ideals like these not only make sex more complicated – they also create sexual issues, like female difficulty achieving orgasm.
  • Nishant Kumar
    Published 3 months ago
    Sex Education: Pros and Cons

    Sex Education: Pros and Cons

    Sex education is a well-discussed topic these days, and the opinions and perspectives regarding this topic are divided. For so long in the educational system, sex was a taboo topic, and we educate our children not to discuss this topic in public. And yet, sexual content is all over the place.
  • Leigh Norén
    Published 3 months ago
    Why Sexual Desire Is Strong At The Beginning Of Relationships

    Why Sexual Desire Is Strong At The Beginning Of Relationships

    The beginnings of relationships are often thought of as the best. There’s lots of sex, talking, bonding, sharing, and staring into each other’s eyes. It’s a highly intoxicating period of time that is nothing short of magical when we’re in the thick of it – and its addictive nature seems to explain why sexual desire is strong at the beginning of relationships.
  • Fluo & Pattern
    Published 4 months ago
    Sex with a long-distance boyfriend online: the sex diary.

    Sex with a long-distance boyfriend online: the sex diary.

    Morning sex can bring you and your partner closer together. How so? Sex produces oxytocin, also known as the “cuddle hormone.” Oxytocin is the chemical in the brain that controls love and bonding. When it’s released during sex, you’ll feel more connected to your partner.
  • Teela Hudak
    Published 4 months ago
    What is a Safeword?

    What is a Safeword?

    Have you ever heard the term safeword? It’s a common term in kinky and BDSM circles. It’s a way to communicate consent in ways other than using terms like, “no” or “stop”. The safeword system is a word or set of words that are agreed upon before engaging in sexual activity or entering the kink play scene. These words are used to signal that the scene is getting too intense or unwanted harm is likely to happen. It can be a great way to quickly check-in with your partner and make sure everything is still going well for them.
  • Teela Hudak
    Published 4 months ago
    When Does Sex End?

    When Does Sex End?

    When DOES sex end? Have you ever wondered about that? It may seem like a strange question but how we answer it makes quite a difference to the sexual satisfaction of some people. Our perceptions about what is the climax and completion of sexuality activity play a big role in what feels right to us. It also sets our expectations. Those expectations play a huge role in the interest people have in sex as well as how satisfied they are with sexual activities they participate in.
  • Teela Hudak
    Published 4 months ago
    How to Have an Orgasm

    How to Have an Orgasm

    Exploring sexuality tends to be a unique experience for everyone. Not only because each person has their own unique attractions and tastes but also because each person experiences sexuality differently. How to have an orgasm comes naturally to some people but it’s common for others to struggle. It is especially common for vulva people to have a harder time achieving orgasm. This can lead some people to think that there’s something wrong with them but that’s not true.
  • Teela Hudak
    Published 4 months ago
    Does Penis Size Matter?

    Does Penis Size Matter?

    Does penis size make a difference? This is one of the most asked questions about sex. Cis-gendered men, in particular, tend to worry about this particular problem. Our society gives many examples of the idea of great size as the key to masculinity and sexual prowess. It’s in much of the marketing we see, stories that are told, and the butt of jokes. This subject causes a lot of anxiety for a lot of people. The question is… should it?
  • Teela Hudak
    Published 4 months ago
    Should You Have a Clean Up Towel

    Should You Have a Clean Up Towel

    Do you put any thought into what you grab to clean up after sex or masturbating? Or do you just grab the first thing that comes to hand? Selecting the right material to clean up afterward does actually make a difference. Certain types of material are better for absorbing moisture as well as reducing the risks of any bacterial infections. You shouldn’t just be rubbing any old thing onto your genitals. The skin in this area is particularly sensitive. Vulvas can be particularly sensitive to bacteria and could end up developing an infection.
  • Teela Hudak
    Published 4 months ago
    Should You Fake an Orgasm?

    Should You Fake an Orgasm?

    Have you ever wondered if you should fake an orgasm? Or do you worry that your partner might be? Is it normal for people to fake them? The subject of fake orgasms can be a bit of a touchy one for some people. Many people feel that despite what others say, they never get a straight answer. It can be very upsetting and cause problems in a relationship. So let’s dig into the reasons people might fake an orgasm, why it can be upsetting and if it’s a good idea to do so.
  • Oliva Baron
    Published 4 months ago
    How having an orgy changed my life- and how it can change yours too.

    How having an orgy changed my life- and how it can change yours too.

    Imagine a 12 years old girl who constantly tries to masturbate through her trousers, in class, at school, at home, on the floor, with her foot, with table legs, with slightly older and ugly friends, watching drawings of hentai girls that she discovered through playing a puzzle online.
  • Katrin with Love
    Published 4 months ago
    Affordable Dilators?

    Affordable Dilators?

    Most dilators sets are PRETTY pricey!