The Increasing Importance of Attachment Emotions in Every Sphere of Life: Part 03

Attachment emotions are tough in an environment where survival emotions are fostered

The survival emotions are fear, anger, disgust and shame. The environments which foster survival emotions find it very difficult to live up to the value of attachment emotions i.e love, trust, excitement/joy. Both are absolutely the opposite ends of the earth. One more important thing is which value gets prioritized and strengthened by the authority when. Age-old tradition plays an important role as well. There is no doubt that the modern approach is to encourage attachment emotions wherever it is possible at the quickest time. It is also equally challenging to turn a negative atmosphere that fosters survival emotions into emotionally attached ones overnight. This is certainly a life-spanning endeavor that requires a huge amount of time, money and energy.

Respect Vs Humiliation

Emotional attachment is associated with trust and respect. Survival emotions are associated with fear, disrespect and humiliation. Attachment emotions always prioritize relationships over interests. The essential elements of a good relationship are trust and respect. On the other hand, survival emotions put more attention on interests or personal gains which may in some cases devalue the importance of good relationships. Survival emotions are also associated with poverty, difficulty, survival, competitions, threats and challenges which continuously put pressure on making healthy relationships in a group. Respect is a very valuable word. We can show respect in many ways such as by our words, body language, gestures and postures. There is an old saying; respect begets respect. A trustworthy loving person is surely respectful. We never expect to respect somebody who humiliates us.

A Well Emotionally Attached Criminal Group

Fighting against a well-attached criminal group who live in an environment based on survival emotions is very challenging. Survival emotions always leave a group of people scattered and consequently, it is the weakest group. But the criminal group takes the commanding role in this case, taking the advantage of scatteredness of the prime group. From this point of view, we can say that the groups prioritizing the values of survival emotions are always vulnerable and at risk of being ruled by criminal groups. Sometimes, emotional attachments may become a fierce weapon among a poor group of criminals who do not possess other kinds of resources to fight.

Harmony among thoughts, Actions and Emotions

Our emotions are triggered by our thoughts and actions. Our thoughts, actions and conversations are greatly influenced by the environment we live in. Most importantly, our mental and physical well-being depends on our emotions and feelings. In a word, Positivity must be aligned with all the above-mentioned factors. Otherwise, it is truly difficult to draw a balance and remain emotionally sound. For example, in an atmosphere, if there are irrelevant activities that are contrary to the practical ones, these will surely evoke emotions and actions accordingly that may deviate a group from achieving its ultimate goals.

Can We Give up Negative Ways of Searching for Dopamine?

Attachment emotions are joy, love, trust and excitement. There are both positive and negative ways to outsource these. For example, a drug addict seeks excitement from the drugs s/he takes. Criminals find a lot of pleasure and joy in committing crimes. That is why they never care about taking risks of their lives. attachment emotions are fundamental to our living and survival. But it is also immensely important to determine the source of those whether there are positive or negative. Every single day, we get challenged by new types of problems which force us to the domain of survival emotions, causing negative feelings among us. At this point, our life becomes standstill and we tend to choose the wrong paths for getting emotional attachments. We need to remain rigid and act very patiently to decide the best alternatives for us then. If we fail, we run the risk of getting lost in the dark kingdom of negative emotional attachments forever. It sometimes becomes absolutely difficult to get back to the correct track again, start from the beginning and live a new life.

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