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People will meet many enemies in their lives, but there will not be any enemy more difficult to overcome than yourself

Know yourself

By Matthew A LamPublished 2 years ago 5 min read
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The world of adulthood is not easy for anyone. Just living and making ends meet is already quite difficult, not to mention that in the process, you will always meet a lot of people who are not so friendly and encounter a lot of things that are not so good.

There will always be a lot of accidents, and there will always be a lot of twists and turns. In the world of adults, every choice has regrets, not even a maybe if you don't try! Some that you can think of, as well as some that you simply did not anticipate.

When life is so hard, just choose to escape, which of course does not work. Because we simply can not avoid, if things happen, always need to face, them but also always need to solve them.

And whenever this happens, having a strong heart is necessary. Strong inside, nothing can defeat us, no matter what we experience, we can always turn the situation around so that everything is moving in the right direction.

In this life, everyone is the same and should become a strong inner self.

Not all dreams come true in time, not all words come to you in time, and guilt and remorse, are always planted deep in the heart after parting, although they say that all things in the world will eventually come to nothing. --Si Murong

This song, "Farewell" by Xi Murong, speaks of the many irreparable shortcomings in the world, and even the many opportunities that cannot be revisited. How many things you want to say are too late to tell, how many people you want to love are too late to love each other properly, and then you turn around and are already strangers. The fact is that you can't get to the end of the story, and the ending is happy or sad, but you can't get hold of it.

And good flowers do not necessarily need to match a good vase, good tea does not necessarily need to match the expensive teapot, the perfect life, is not perfect, but to leave seven points perfect, three points lacking.

The so-called flower is not fully bloomed moon is not full, because there is a trace of shortcomings, so it is beautiful. And this beauty, not a momentary fragrance, but so that you will never forget the beauty. Because once the flower blooms to the extreme, is withered, and all too beautiful things, once the beauty of the extreme, will become desolate. It's better to leave a trace of defect, to achieve a better self.

The only way to accept imperfection is to learn to accept all imperfections to accept your imperfect self. If you have something too perfect, you will spend your days in fear and worry. So I don't want to be perfect, I just want to be perfect.

This noisy world is as calm as a lake without waves, but the human heart is deep and unpredictable, and even has many desires and obsessions, which give rise to greed, anger, anger, slowness, and doubt. If you know how to let go of your unwarranted obsessions, forget what you have lost, and stop dwelling on past sorrows and regrets, you may reap more spiritual joy on the path of seeking self-improvement and cultivation.

Learn to accept all the imperfections and defects, to accept the original imperfect world. The so-called perfection is only half perfect and half defective, which makes up life. Just like marriage, always need two people's management, half of the wife's contribution, half of the husband's assistance, by each other's imperfections to support each other, and complement each other, to achieve a truly complete and happy family.

You are the main load of fate, be responsible for yourself! Yes! Life is like sailing in the sea, there are calm waves and stormy seas, but the rudder of fate is always in your own hands, be responsible for yourself, the biggest waves can not overturn the ship of life! I do not have to look beyond the red world, nor do I need to follow the waves, I want to recognize their strength, with their strength to show the swan's ambition, and responsible for themselves!

Responsible for their own, should be in my victory and complacent, let the frivolous heart quiet down, say no to pride, ready for a new round of struggle, to challenge the new generation of goals. To be responsible for me, when I am discouraged by failure, let my lost eyes look out of the window and tell myself that the sun always shines after the storm, adjust my mentality, deal with the failure in front of me again, and sail to the other side of success.

Responsible for their own, should be in my for hardship and stagnation, let the flame of confidence rekindle, illuminate the bumpy road ahead, persevere, through the dense thorns in front of you, to overcome the difficulties of the sun hindered forward!

To be responsible for yourself is to encourage yourself when you are behind, to remind yourself when you are relaxed, and to warn yourself when you are lazy! Be responsible for yourself, success is just around the corner!

Good flowers in full bloom, you should do your best to pick first, do not wait for the beauty is difficult, otherwise a moment, it will wither and shrivel, fall in the dust. To some extent timing is money, to achieve certain achievements, we must act at the right time.

Action produces results, and action is the guarantee of success. However, only the person who acts in time is effective in his actions.

Anthony Robin, a world-renowned potential master, said, "Greatness in life does not lie in being able to know, but most importantly in being able to act. "William James also believes that no matter how many golden words you know, no matter how good conditions you have, when the opportunity comes, you will not make progress if you do not apply them concretely. One's life will not improve if one has a good idea and does not contribute to it. For a person, only action will bring results.

No matter how great one's goal is, if one does not implement it, it will always be only an empty thought. Everything will be attributed to oneself, and one will always have a strong sense of action. You will experience some not-so-good things, but no matter what, always hold a normal heart. Do your best to live your life, and after you have tried, you know how to let everything go.

I don't want everything to be as I want it to be, but I want to be free of guilt and enjoy myself.

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