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How to Turn a Girl Into Your Girlfriend With One Simple Move...

Instead of Chasing Her, Do "THIS"...

By Duong Dinh HaiPublished 12 months ago 13 min read
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What is the fastest way to make a woman fall in love, according to psychology?

There is nothing more attractive than being with someone who listens without interrupting and does not judge.

When it comes to falling in love with a woman, not everything is rosy. They all have very different personalities and do not react the same to "compliments", calls, messages, details or their behavior on dates. In addition, it can also affect the culture, and in the case of Latin women, it is said that they are the most difficult to conquer.

If no matter how hard a man tries to make things work out for him to attract a difficult woman, but he doesn't get good results, it's time to try some psychological tricks.

Emotional intelligence expert Madeleine Mason shares some tips to ensure success when you win that special someone. These techniques will help that difficult woman to be interested in who wants to conquer her.

How to fall in love with a 'difficult' woman?

Good impression

It is necessary to be kind and cheerful at all times. “The tone when speaking should be cheerful without bordering on superficial optimism. You must be daring and take the initiative. The point is that you are not afraid of success”, says the expert.

a casual date

Most people like expensive and spectacular places, however, for the first meetings it is best to go for the casual and austere. This is because in an informal environment they take more importance to the person with whom they go out.

On the other hand, in exclusive places, attention is paid to etiquette and other things that are not important for a relationship.

take an interest in her

“The questions you ask should reveal that you really care about getting to know this person. Make an effort to get to know her passions, her hobbies, how she grew up, etc.,” says Mason.

The expert also advises asking peculiar questions so that the woman does not forget the man so quickly.

There is nothing more attractive than being with someone who listens without interrupting and does not judge.

feel self-assured

To be charismatic, first of all, you have to trust yourself. "Feel free when making decisions, be able to count only on yourself and show that you do everything to be happy," suggests the psychologist.

Security is felt, not only in behavior, but also when speaking.

not look away

When talking to someone you feel attracted to, always look them in the eye. "Sometimes a penetrating gaze can say more than a thousand words: a true eye contact shows that you are listening, understand her and accept her words with attention," says Mason.

show a vulnerable side

What actually manages to attract people is that they feel connected, when they feel empathy for that person who conquers them, 50% is already won.

“The more vulnerable you are, the more you open up. This creates a psychological space that fosters bonding and leads to a deeper connection”, explains Madeleine.

light contact

Details like touching the shoulder, the hand, in a casual way make that person perceive the attraction. “It's not about touching for the sake of touching, it's the soft casual touches that will make him want to touch you more. And to take the interaction to something deeper”, concludes Mason.

It is not only the guys that do the seducing. Believe it or not, girls often try to seduce guys. They are a lot more subtle about it and it goes very unnoticed. Easily missed. So it's important for you to know what to look out for when when a girl is trying to Seduce you.

If you've ever been on a date and thought to yourself, not sure if she's trying to seduce me right now, the answer probably was a yes. Our intuition is almost always correct, but we do double guess at times. So today's video we are going to look at what girls do and they are trying to seduce a guy so that the next time you are on a date or out somewhere, you know what to look out for. Before we get started, give me a huge thumbs up and be mindful. If you like the content from this video, please subscribe so you can see lots more content all about relationships and making sure you are high value and just pretty much awesome.

So let's get into today's video.

By the end of today's video, you are going to be an expert in reading the signs of the ultimate seduction. Sometimes it may be a lady that you are dating who is trying to seduce you, and other times it might be a coworker who is keen on you. It's important to know that when a lady is seducing you, you know what to do next so that you can calculate the best move. Sure, sometimes you might want to go all in for it. She could even be your crush and you simply can just not believe your look or the times you might not have a crush on her at all, but this suddenly opens up possibilities.

And then of course you might not have feelings for her, which means you need to let her down gently. Seduction is one of the highest forms of flattery. So if a lady is trying it on with you, then you should feel confident in your abilities with a woman. Remember that all ladies and I mean this use similar seduction techniques on a guy. So easy for you.

Let's go over what you need to be looking out for. The very first thing is they suddenly want to be your friend. Yes, that's right. When ladies want to seduce a guy, they would start by being their friend. If they laid all their cards on the table at the beginning, they are at a greater risk of failure, which is something that they want to avoid.

Because women do embarrass easily, you might notice that they start by being just very friendly with you. That's going to be including joking around with you and wanting to spend more time with you. Sometimes this can seem very natural because you've gained a new friend, but other times you may have seen the lady around the office, for example, for a few years and then all of a sudden she wants to be your friend and you're like, wait, what is this confusing behavior? This is just their way of getting close to you so that they can get to know you better and you get to know them on a more personal level before they pretty much unleash their moves. The next stage is the disarming one, so you guys are already friends, so step one has been achieved and knocked out of the park.

Now, she wants you to think that she is the most perfect lady for you, so you might notice that she is spending a lot more time with you. She will most likely share the same hobbies as you and you will find you have similar interests. Maybe you love playing golf and then you mention it to her, but then the next time when you see her, she might suggest a round of mini golf because, well, she knows that you love playing it and she likes it too. Now, this could be true, but it's highly unlikely to be. She simply just wants to make it seem like she shares the same hobbies and interests as you in a way to get you thinking.

She's wow your ideal lady. She wants you to spend more time with her and she basically wants you to think, Goddamn, this woman is perfect for me. And it might sound a little bit manipulative and it is kind of, but it's also what you do to the ladies. Come on, be honest. But it's a sweet thought because it shows she's putting in so much effort just to seduce you.

She will spend a while in this stage as well without asking you directly on a date or telling you that she likes you. It might just seem like a friendship to the untrained eye when in real life so much more the attack, which is not something you need to be scared about, I promise. Now that you are these established friend couples, you have a lot in common. She knows that you are more likely to have feelings for her right now when you have common interests, which means it's time for her to go all in. She will risk it all to show you how she feels.

She might invite you to dinner and tell you honestly that she likes you, or she might try and kiss you while you are out doing something. She is being really brave by doing this, so you need to be kind. If you don't feel the same way, you simply explain that you like her as a friend and you want to carry on the friendship with nothing else. She will understand, but may not want to remain friends, but if you feel the same way, well, that's great. The signals okay.

Little bit kind of like Batman, but not quite. She will suddenly spend a lot of time with you. So I did mention this one briefly above, but when a lady is trying to seduce you, she will suddenly want to spend a lot of time with you. She might have ignored you in the past and then suddenly invites you to lots of events or tries to arrange meetings that you can both be in at work. This is a typical easy to spot sign of seduction, and it's a big sign that she has developed her feelings for you.

She will always be around you. If you guys work together, you will notice this for sure. She's at your desk. She comes over, asks you questions. There always seems to be something wrong with her computer or something that she's doing in the workplace for you to help her out with.

If you do share the same friends as well, you might notice she's always there in the friend group. This is a common sign of seduction. She might not realize she's making it very obvious, but you need to understand that she's trying to be around you to catch your attention and basically persuade you to like her. She will message you more often. When a lady seduces you, she often also likes you and will want to be around you as much as possible, like we just said.

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And when you guys are not together, she keeps that communication open. She messages you frequently and she replies pretty damn quick. This can just be a sign that she really likes you or that she's trying to seduce you. Either way, if you like her, this is a positive sign. She compliments you often.

If she is trying to seduce you, she will compliment you on those small changes. She might notice that new haircut or even a new jumper that you bought. She is studying you so that she knows everything about you, which makes it a lot easier for her to just slot into your life if you were to date. She's not being creepy. She's trying to be nice that you know that she also likes you.

She will dress up for you. Now, the art of seduction starts with what you are wearing very aesthetically pleasing situation. You will notice that she always looks nice when she's around you, and she just seems to always look very well put together. Once she's reached the attack stage, you might meet for a date and she wears something subtle, something very sexy. When a lady is trying to seduce you, she will never simply just wear jeans and a top.

On a date. She's going to wear high heels, a sexy dress, or a tight skirt on top. She wants you to know that she's interested and she wants to look attractive. She will often show more skin around you at this stage, which can be disarming, especially if you do like her. It could make you nervous.

But just remember, she is the one putting in all of that effort to seduce you, so just let her do it. She is going to give you some VIP special treatment. She is not going to be treating you like she treats the other guys. Now, this is going to be pretty hard to spot in the beginning Because you might think she's just being nice to you. You might, for example, be at the kitchen in the workplace and she offers to make you a cup of coffee but not to your friend Mark, who is also in the kitchen.

This is her giving you special treatment, Aka known as girlfriend treatment. If she acts like a girlfriend to you and no one else, there you go. So enjoy this special treatment and take it as a sign that she's trying to seduce you. You won't really know if she likes you or not. Seduction and women confusing very tricky.

All these mind games. What do you even think when a lady is seducing you? I hate to admit this. You won't really know if she likes you or not. She might seem interested some days and then ignores you the next.

She might tease you in an almost mean way and then be nice and charming. So you're wondering, okay, what's wrong with her? Because that is not normal. Women are confusing at the best of times but especially in that seduction mode. If she's getting hot and then she's getting cold, this is just her seducing you.

You have to take this as a positive sign. You could put her out of her misery by telling her that you like her as well and ask her out on a date. But this is all about playing hard to get. So if you want to know more, we do have many videos Explaining the process behind a woman who gives you that silent treatment who is hot and then cold, who is basically trying to get more out of you. So go check that next.

If you think I missed something from today's video, Let me know down in the comments. Give me a huge thumbs up and consider subscribing to make my day. But if you want to get your name rolling up next to my face like these amazing people the names here, then all you have to do is click the link in the description bar below to find out a little bit more. Have an amazing day. See you soon.

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