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Face your own reality first before you try to look at mine when we both know that you are the one that is in denial.

By Theresa EvansPublished 7 months ago 3 min read
Your reality
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You say you love rain, but you use an umbrella to walk under it. You say you love the sun but seek shelter when it shines. You say you love wind, but you close your windows when it comes. So that’s why I’m scared when you say you love me. (Face the Reality)

This is the month to sit back and be thankful for all you have. Many people will agree with what I am saying here because it is so true. I generally love people because I am a people person and still stand by to see who I can serve daily. At the same time, I am more mindful of who I choose to be of service to.

Back to the quote that I started this piece with today, I would like all of my readers to take the time to really read this quote again and again until it positively gets to your mind. I used to be terrified of loving others because of their actions, but now I just look at others and figure out the best way to reach them and move forward. When I realize that you are not the kind of person willing to help not only yourself and others, I will fall back with no hesitation on my part.

When others say they love the rain but use an umbrella to walk under it, this is true regarding moving on with your life and not looking back. In life, we all have our own issues that we face every day, but when you have people in your inner circle that are out in the rain with you with no umbrella as well, this means that this person is willing to go through the rain with you even though they know just like you do that the rain will stop eventually. If it doesn’t stop raining for a while, the other person may be able to find an umbrella for both of you so that you don’t get wet too bad while trying to figure things out.

When others say that they love the sun but turn around and look for shelter from it when it shines is also a good thing to think about because if you already have the sun in your heart, to begin with, you should also know that your sunshine will affect others in ways that you would not believe until it happens.

When others say that they love the wind but shut their eyes when the wind comes, they do not want others to see that they are full of verbal and mental bullshit. So when you say that you love me, I will pause because I have to know that I can trust what you say is true. I do not have the time to waste on others who want to come to me with fake words telling me they love me when they can’t stand to be around me because they think I am doing better than you are now. Now true in many ways, I am doing better than the other person because I have regained my mental focus, and that within itself is something that no amount of money can buy.

I take words like I love you, and you are my friend very seriously. If you are a hater, well, my only comment to you is hate on mother fuckers because I am not going anywhere, and I am here to stay, and if you do not like me or the extensions of me will, you can go fuck yourself because you have already lost me as a person and a potential friend for life.

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About the Creator

Theresa Evans

I am a woman on fire for the love of life and being able to reach one life at a time through my words. If I can reach one then I can teach one the art of healing one's self from the inside out all mentaly

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