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When to reconsider your ex

If it break once you can mend it again

By Busari Lukman Published about a year ago 3 min read

Reuniting with an ex can be a tricky thing to navigate. You may find yourself feeling drawn to them, but unsure if it’s the right move for you. Here are a few signs that you may need your ex back in your life.

1. You’re constantly thinking about them: If you find yourself constantly thinking about your ex, it may be a sign that you need them back in your life. Whether it’s daydreaming about the past, or wondering what they’re up to now, your mind is likely trying to tell you something.

2. You’re feeling lonely: If you’re feeling lonely and longing for the companionship of your ex, it may be a sign that you need them back in your life. It’s important to remember, however, that reuniting with an ex isn’t necessarily the best solution for loneliness. It’s important to explore other ways of dealing with loneliness as well.

3. You miss the physical intimacy: If you’re missing the physical intimacy that you shared with your ex, it may be a sign that you need them back in your life. Physical intimacy is an important part of any relationship, and it’s natural to miss it when it’s gone.

4. You’re still in love with them: If you’re still in love with your ex, it’s a strong indication that you need them back in your life. Love is a powerful emotion, and it’s important to take it seriously. If you still love your ex, you should seriously consider reuniting with them.

If you’re feeling any of these signs, it may be time to consider reuniting with your ex especially when none of you is married yet or in any serious relationship. It’s important to remember, however, that reuniting with an ex isn’t always the best move. It’s important to take the time to consider all of your options before making any decisions.

If you’re considering getting back with an ex, it’s important to take a step back and evaluate the situation. It’s important to make sure that you’re not just getting back together out of loneliness or desperation, but because it’s truly what’s best for both of you.

1. You’ve both had time to reflect on the relationship.

If you’ve both had time apart to reflect on what went wrong in the relationship, it could be a sign that getting back together would be beneficial. If you can both look back on the relationship with a more mature perspective, you may be able to avoid the same issues that caused the breakup in the first place.

2. You’ve both grown and changed.

If you’ve both changed and grown since the breakup, it could be a sign that getting back together would be a good idea. If you’ve both changed for the better, it could be a sign that you’re both more mature and better equipped to handle a relationship.

3. You both still have strong feelings for each other.

If you still have strong feelings for each other, it could be a sign that getting back together would be a good idea. If you still have a strong connection and care deeply for each other, it could be a sign that the relationship still has potential.

4. You’re both willing to make the effort.

If you’re both willing to put in the effort to make the relationship work, it could be a sign that getting back together would be a good idea. If you’re both willing to put in the effort to communicate, compromise, and work through issues, it could be a sign that the relationship has a chance.

Ultimately, getting back together with an ex is a personal decision that should be made with careful consideration. If you’re considering getting back together with an ex, make sure to take the time to evaluate the situation and make sure that it’s the right decision for both of you.

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