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How to become motivated to become the best version of yourself.
DON'T FOLLOW THE CROWD
In a world teeming with influences and distractions, the phrase "Don't follow the crow, lead the crowd" resonates deeply. It's a call to arms, urging us to break free from the shackles of conformity and embrace our unique paths. Let's delve deeper into this empowering mantra and explore why leading instead of following is essential for a fulfilling life.
Sunday ChivuezePublished 18 days ago in MotivationVoices of Impact: Harnessing the Power of Speech for Positive Change
The human voice, an instrument universally played, wields unparalleled power. It possesses the potency to incite wars or whisper "I love you." Yet, it's a lamentable reality that many find themselves speaking without being truly heard. Why does this happen? How can we harness the power of speech to effect change in the world? Let's explore seven prevalent pitfalls of speech that hinder our ability to communicate effectively.
Sebastian ClarkePublished 19 days ago in MotivationSocial media addiction
If you’re feeling consumed by social media and feel overwhelmed trying to take control of how much you use it; you are not alone. Many of us are noticing something is different with the tech we love. While the companies keep adding more features like their competition to keep us from leaving. We dive right into learning these new features that are over stimulating us, filling up our feeds with more ads and suggestions all design to keep our attention for their value. Seems that we got lost from the original intentions of social media and a simple photo sharing post. Even now we are full speed ahead creating or consuming content and jumping from one platform to another. Today something feels off from when we made our first posts with high engagements. Maybe you’re struggling to beat the algorithm because your views or likes have dropped and it’s taking a toll on your mood or mental health after all the time spent creating and curating content. Perhaps you feel like you developed terrible impulses control in the pursuit of likes and trying to grow in followers. Maybe you’re struggling with mindlessly scrolling through feeds stuck in a type of autopilot compulsion mode of just consuming content. Maybe you’re comparing yourself and your creativity to others and feeling down about yourself because your numbers are lower. Perhaps you feel your attention span has shortened and you find it difficult to concentrate as a side effect from over stimulation. Maybe you want more discipline on how much time you spend on your device yet you feel helpless because it’s feels like a struggle for you. In a world were we are all constantly consuming social media many of us have been dealing with some sort of over consumption of it and attempting to regain some control over of it.
TheartistjoskoPublished 20 days ago in MotivationThe reason we change
When you reach a certain age, you are going to notice people change around you. Whether it's friends who don’t speak to you anymore, or it's relatives who only care about what you can give them. It might even be yourself without realizing, you will change from the person you once were and some people might tell you that.
real JemaPublished 21 days ago in MotivationBreaking Free: Conquering the Vicious Cycle of Procrastination
It's 5 p.m., and that sinking feeling sets in. You glance at the clock, realizing that dreaded report, the one you've been putting off, is due tomorrow. Time to buckle down, you tell yourself. But wait, what's that? Your phone beckons, tempting you with the allure of your favorite YouTube channel. Maybe just a quick check won't hurt, right? Oh, but then there's dinner to make. Cooking usually brings you joy, but not with this looming work hanging over your head. Suddenly, it's late, and the temptation to call it a night and try again tomorrow is strong.
Sebastian ClarkePublished 21 days ago in MotivationThe C.V of satan
Satan knows how to enchant us with soothing melodies that strike the chords of our hearts intensely. Contrary to what many have charismatically proposed and asserted in a bid to discredit satans perceived prowess in devising mischief, he is not exactly ignorant neither is he illiterate. He is neither a novice or fledgling who is shabbily attempting to distinguish himself in the arena of deception.
Ernest Kobby BaahPublished 23 days ago in MotivationThe Journey of Self-Belief
In today's world, bombarded by challenges and uncertainties, self-belief stands as one of our most potent tools. The unwavering confidence in ourselves and our abilities, the inner flame that propels us towards our goals, undeterred by the obstacles that might line the path. Nurturing this self-belief is a journey, a continuous process of self-discovery and empowerment.
MD IFTHAKAR AHMED ALIPublished 23 days ago in MotivationFuel Your Fire: Unleash Your Inner Motivation and Transform Your Life
Understanding Motivation and Its Impact on Personal Development Motivation is the core of all action. Without it, dreams remain just that—dreams. But when I channel motivation, it ignites a fire within me, propelling me towards the transformation of my life. It's the fuel for my personal development, a fundamental force that drives me to overcome obstacles, pursue my goals, and ultimately become the person I aspire to be.
Neli IvanovaPublished 23 days ago in MotivationFrom Fear to Victory
My name is Amir, and I overcame a childhood fear of driving on the road when I was 14 years old. As the only sister of two confident brothers, the thought of riding a bike in traffic has always made me nervous. When I was five years old, I saw a terrible accident that would change my life forever.
Ameer BibiPublished 23 days ago in MotivationUnlocking the Focus Code
Being able to focus is practically a superpower in the modern world. It's rare to witness someone who can focus for hours on end on one task. It also comes as no surprise that those that can concentrate accomplish a great deal more than others. You could gain from increased focus in a variety of situations. Whether it's for a hobby, job, school, or study. You can achieve your goals more quickly if you have the ability to concentrate. I'll thus go over what's preventing you from focusing and how you can fix it immediately. Remember to jot down a few salient ideas related to what you have learned from this text. You'll maximize the benefits of your procrastination session in this way. It's going to be a long one, so grab a seat. Now let's get started.
NatashaPublished 23 days ago in MotivationWays to Make Yourself More Interesting
We begin with a peculiar finding. The amount we feel we have to say about ourselves to certain people differs greatly from that to other people. We tend to judge people based on how entertaining they are, but we run the risk of missing a more serious and pertinent issue when we associate certain people with being boring while others do not. When someone asks, "So, what have you been up to lately?" we can come up with a plethora of topics, but when someone asks the same question, we can barely recall that we have ever existed. To explain this phenomenon, we have to attribute our unconscious minds with a faculty we might not have known we possessed throughout our interactions with people. How interesting does a given person make us feel? Why does our mind quickly fill with stories when we are around some people while we experience ourselves as blank dull and close to inert around others? indicators of how much our conversation partner is comprehending and valuing what we're saying when we bring up a specific topic How much does this person's eyes light up? How much of our world can they accept? How much shock value can they handle? How much can they take in stride? From the answers to these numerous data points, we typically arrive at a broad and active conclusion without even realizing we've done so. Therefore, the question is, how much of what is noted and complex in us can they safely receive? How much of our reality would we need to hide from them to spare them and us an alarmed or censorious response? how much of me this person is likely to get and rather simply the more the answer is a lot lot the more we will have to say and the more the answer is not so much the more a cautionary Instinct will form inside us telling us to remain quiet this simultaneously helps to explain how someone gets to be a companion around whom people feel they have a lot to say they do this by opening many rooms in their own minds or if you like by saying a lot to themselves of course this is far from simple many rooms of our minds contain very frightening things indeed areas of properly daunting loss pain horror and Chaos which we can be forgiven for never wanting to go anywhere near yet a person will feel interesting precisely to the extent that they have become a brave and relaxed Wanderer inside their own minds that they have become familiar and one could almost say at ease with things that are sad dark agonizing and potentially shameful when they're at home with their own anxiety grief strangeness and silliness so by a beautiful principle of reciprocity they will be at home with ours as well where they have gone we can follow because they have talked to themselves we will be able and Keen to talk to them what they have felt safe exploring in themselves we will be able to safely unpack around them this gives us guidance as to how to become a more interesting person for others by becoming the best possible We need to open as many doors to our psyches as we can because, as travelers within ourselves, we will simultaneously send out a covert signal to others that we will be a safe recipient for all of their smaller, more private, less often mentioned observations and feelings. Once we have the courage to say a lot to ourselves, others will have much to say to us.
BUI PHUOC TIENPublished 23 days ago in MotivationGetting Good at Asking Questions
Asking questions is a fundamental life skill that you should always be improving on. You should be able to ask relevant questions without feeling as if you are imposing on someone. There are limits to how many questions or what kind of questions we can ask but you won’t know if that question will be answered until you ask it. Most of the time, there is no harm in asking someone a question and seeing what the response will be. I find that it’s often better to have posed the question than not to have asked anything at all.
Ben WPublished 25 days ago in Motivation