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Advice that will put you on the path to success; tips, tricks and nuggets of wisdom from trusted experts and motivational mentors.
Why you shouldn't put too much effort into trying to be happy all the time.
In a world obsessed with the pursuit of happiness, it might seem counterintuitive to suggest that striving for constant happiness could be detrimental. However, we, as experienced experts in the field of well-being and psychology, believe that there is a deeper perspective to consider. While achieving happiness is undoubtedly a noble goal, an overly zealous approach can lead to unintended consequences. Allow me to guide you through a thought-provoking exploration of why you shouldn't try so hard to be happy.
By MK Khan3 years ago in Motivation
Jet-Set Educator
As an education consultant, I never fathomed that I would one day embark on a worldwide expedition. But, over the span of two decades, that is precisely what I accomplished - I transformed into a globe-trotting educator, journeying across continents to bolster schools and instructors in diverse cultures and countries. And while there were indeed trials and comical instances along the way, I managed to traverse it all without misplacing my passport!
By Freddie's Lost Treasures3 years ago in Motivation
Don't Compare Yourself with Anyone: The Lesson from an Unhappy Crow
Don't Compare Yourself with Anyone: The Lesson from an Unhappy Crow In a world where comparison is prevalent, it's easy to lose sight of our own uniqueness and value. The story of an unhappy crow teaches us a valuable lesson: comparing ourselves to others can lead to profound unhappiness. Let's delve into this story and the wisdom it imparts.
By Sameel Iqbal3 years ago in Motivation
If you don't give these 12 things a try, your life will stay just the same.
Ever heard of the quote often linked to Einstein? It says, "Insanity is doing the same thing repeatedly and expecting different results." That makes a lot of sense, right? If you keep doing the same stuff, you'll keep getting the same results.
By MK Khan3 years ago in Motivation
Mental Habits to Build Your Wealth
Ever wonder why some people seem to have a natural knack for money while others struggle? The truth is, building wealth has less to do with how much money you make and more to do with how you think. The wealthy view money differently and if you want to achieve financial freedom, you need to learn to do the same.
By Simply Explorer3 years ago in Motivation
Shattering Ceilings and Rewriting Narratives: How Women are Revolutionizing the World.
Women Crush Wednesday: Changing Narratives and Shaping Society: In the ever-evolving tapestry of our world, women have emerged as powerful catalysts of change, reshaping narratives and challenging conventional norms across various domains. From the corridors of political power to the realms of entrepreneurship, science, and culture, women have consistently proven their mettle, asserting their rightful place and altering the course of history. Women Crush Wednesday, a social media trend that celebrates and highlights remarkable women every week, provides a platform to appreciate and acknowledge the profound impact women are making on the global stage.
By passionate_omobolaji3 years ago in Motivation
Am I right? There is no right answer.
Understanding Complexity: Navigating a Complex World In our complex world, things aren't always as simple as they seem. We used to think that there was only one correct answer to every question, but now we're realizing that different situations have many different sides. Trying to find just one right answer doesn't always lead to the best solutions. It can actually prevent us from discovering new and improved ways to solve problems.
By Art Ko3 years ago in Motivation
Trusting Yourself
In a world inundated with external influences and opinions, the act of trusting oneself has emerged as a crucial aspect of personal empowerment and growth. The ability to believe in your own judgment, decisions, and capabilities is not only a foundational pillar of self-esteem but also a catalyst for achieving one's aspirations. This essay delves into the significance of trusting oneself, explores the benefits it brings, and provides insights on how to cultivate and strengthen this essential trait.
By KEN RIVERA3 years ago in Motivation
How to Use Positive Affirmations
It is highly probable that I may not possess the necessary intelligence to perform this job satisfactorily. I am perplexed as to why my superior has entrusted me with the responsibility of conducting the presentation. My public speaking skills are inadequate, and I fear that I may bring disrepute to the team.
By Anna Gravett3 years ago in Motivation
Do You Want A Revolution?
Recently, I stumbled upon a children's book titled "Sylvia and Marcia Started a Revolution." Its message is clear: young minorities should engage in social activism, even start a revolution, to better America. However, this popular notion is actually counterproductive. To truly uplift America, especially for minority groups, the focus should shift away from social activism and towards entrepreneurship. Entrepreneurs accomplish something that social activists, revolutionaries, or politicians can't replicate. They create jobs, not just for themselves, but for countless others. In the US, there are 33 million small businesses, responsible for two-thirds of new job opportunities, driving innovation, and fueling economic growth. Comparing small business owners to alchemists is fitting. Unlike the fruitless pursuit of turning lead into gold, these entrepreneurs genuinely turn ideas into reality, generating value where none existed before. The positive economic ripple effect spreads through communities and beyond. So, who are these small business owners? Remarkably, they're disproportionately represented by minorities. In fact, compared to their share of the population, minorities exhibit higher rates of business initiation than their white counterparts. And many are thriving. Consider the example of Carlton Guthrie. Alongside his brother, Carlton owns Detroit Chassis, a company that manufactures frames for motorhomes and commercial trucks. Carlton took a modest metal stamping shop and transformed it into a substantial manufacturer, raking in over a hundred million dollars annually and employing around 160 workers, predominantly black like the Guthrie brothers. A parallel trend can be observed among Hispanic entrepreneurs. The gap between white and Hispanic household wealth decreased from 8-to-1 in 2013 to 5-to-1 in 2019, largely due to increased Hispanic entrepreneurship. Carlos Gazitua, a Cuban-American proprietor of Miami's Sergio's Restaurant, deeply comprehends the significance of minority entrepreneurship. He urges minorities to showcase their achievements, revealing that business success is attainable, disproving the notion that the system is rigged against them. Carlos aptly concludes that entrepreneurship epitomizes the American dream. The Kaufman Foundation reports that 360 out of every 100,000 Americans initiate a business monthly. Among Hispanics, this number rises to 540 per 100,000, a substantial 50% above the national average. With 10 million minority-owned small businesses in the US, generating a staggering two trillion dollars in annual wealth and providing jobs for 10 million people, the positive impact is undeniable. These businesses primarily flourish in minority neighborhoods, offering employment opportunities to minority workers. However, not all is rosy. Small businesses, due to their size, are more susceptible to adverse government policies compared to larger enterprises. Consider this: which business is more strained by an escalating government-mandated minimum wage? The local dry cleaner or the downtown law firm? Similarly, whose profit margins are more affected by inflation stemming from reckless government spending? Is it the corner barbecue joint or the financial services company's CEO? Further, which entity is hit harder by surging gas prices triggered by constrictive government energy policies? The neighborhood landscaper or the work-from-home data analyst? The takeaway here is simple: while entrepreneurs already face challenges competing against established players, these difficulties are magnified when compounded by unfavorable government policies. So, what constitutes beneficial government policies? They adhere to a straightforward principle that should underpin all governmental actions: do no harm. Each new tax or regulation chips away at the bottom line. Factor in rampant inflation, and already slim profit margins erode further. Profits drive the expansion of small businesses, leading to the creation of jobs, improved wages, and enhanced benefits. Consult any entrepreneur, and they'll likely concur: "Just let me be." To elevate minorities and bridge the racial economic divide, it's unproductive to follow the path of Sylvia and Marcia, social activists, or well-meaning politicians. Instead, we should seek inspiration from the countless minority entrepreneurs who courageously strive to better their lives and communities daily. For those genuinely interested in triggering a revolution, look no further than embarking on an entrepreneurial journey.
By Olusola Bodunrin3 years ago in Motivation
Planning My Life Out
Lately I have been watching tons of youtube videos about how to use planners. Through my search I found one youtuber who has the planner lifestyle I think I want for myself. The more I watch the videos the more I learn how to plan. I think I wanted to plan because I feel that when you start planning you are really taking more control over your life, which is something I think I need. The youtuber I watch plans her days out every single day and focuses on achieving goals slowly with a set routine. I think this is absolutely perfect! I’m hoping I can create this for myself in my life. In the past I have bought planners but never used them daily, so my planners had a lot of blank pages that went to waste. From what I’m learning from this youtuber I need to write in my planner every single day, even if it seems repetitive. Actually, repeating the goals everyday is actually helpful because that way I can keep myself focused. Personally, I have no discipline and will let go of any routine or habits in about a week. I would like to change this because I feel this is part of why sometimes I am so negative. I really don’t trust myself or believe I can do anything because like I said I usually let go of everything only to feel guilty afterwards. I don’t want to feel that guilt anymore, I would instead like to feel like I can commit to something and see it through.
By Lily3 years ago in Motivation
5 tips from the Dalai Lama to every WOMAN seeking her LOVE
the world is full of single women who are already desperate to find love frustrated women spend their money on female psychological counseling buying books on how to attract the opposite sex and how many women sign up for various relationship courses which in many cases do nothing but waste their money perhaps instead of all these useless activities it's worth looking within yourself and finding your own answer to the question of love we suggest turning to the age-old wisdom of Buddhism and analyzing what the Dalai Lama said phrases from this wise man about Harmony in relationships Dalai Lama quotes about love we will never be in harmony with the world around us unless we make peace with ourselves the Dalai Lama's first wise piece of advice is to make peace with oneself you should not wait for gifts from fate or Prince Charming because you may end up with nothing to find happiness start with yourself any man will be interested in a self-sufficient woman who is confident in herself who knows what she wants from life a man with a strong personality interests and work is a person you'll want to know better and women who are looking for a protector or a sponsor are not of interest to strong men nobody wants to marry a woman from the daughter archetype who cannot solve her own problems self-esteem does not improve just by finding a partner first you need to get rid of the complexes that prevent you from building a happy life Humanity was created to be loved and things to be used the world is in chaos because everything is backwards men often accuse women of being interested they say all women want is their fat wallet and gifts but men who see women as pretty dolls are no better than them this is what the Dalai Lama says value genuine feelings and stop objectifying each other love cannot be bought with money and feelings are much more important than gifts and flowers the person quickly realizes that they are being used and milked and will walk away forever a relationship based on trust and respect will Thrive for years remember not getting what you want is sometimes true luck the Dalai Lama talks about not turning the search for a partner into the goal of your life sometimes being alone can teach us more than being in a relationship and if Fate has not given you what you want now it is an opportunity to learn something new a single person can also be happy treat those who leave your life with understanding and wisdom they may simply have occupied a place in it in vain bringing only harm and suffering only by letting them go can you move forward the planet does not need a large number of successful people it needs people with whom you can live well it does not matter what education you have whether your job is prestigious or whether you earn a lot of money a man who loves you will live with you not with your merits he needs a warm respectful and loving woman men appreciate confident women despite their appearance and merits so you don't have to spend all your time and money to fit into the standards of beauty and success we need more people with whom it is Pleasant to spend time and have a quiet life love in its purest and most Sublime form is the strongest absolute and unconditional desire for happiness for another person it is a desire that Springs from the heart regardless of how that person treats us by maintaining a positive attitude towards life it is possible to be happy even in the most adverse circumstances happiness is the absence of suffering remember that the best relationships are those in which mutual love surpasses the need to possess the other the warmth and love we give are much more important than the warmth and love we receive only when we share warmth and love and feel genuine concern for others that is show compassion do we acquire the conditions for true happiness it follows that to love is more important than to be loved the more you are Guided by love the more fearless and free your actions will be some people are fat others thin some are very beautiful but if you look at them all in x-rays you will only see a room full of skeletons what are you looking for happiness love peace of mind don't go to the other side of the planet to look for them you will return disappointed Afflicted and desperate look for them on the other side of yourself deep in your heart the phrases about love and relationships the wisdom that the Dalai Lama has given us deserve more attention than deceptive courses do not make finding a man the goal of your life take care of yourself of your development and do not Chase success with the opposite sex fate may have other plans for you and love will come just a little later that will be an important lesson for you.
By Aamir Adam3 years ago in Motivation
