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How To Make Him Want You More and Make Him Chase You

You met someone and somehow it went well initially

By Archer Published about a year ago 3 min read
How To Make Him Want You More and Make Him Chase You
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You met someone and somehow it went well initially, you find some common interests, but he seems not so into you yet... or he has really expressed interest but you are not quite satisfied and you want to know how to make him want you more and make him chase you. Read on for tips on what will help you do this:

(1) Have self-confidence - men like to chase a woman of value, who knows how to carry herself, and you can do this by making the most of yourself in many aspects,: physically by bringing out the best in you, dressing feminine but confident; SMILE; having confidence by being good at something, whether about work, or sports, or hobby. Being confident and preoccupied with something you are good at makes a man feel you can hold out on your own and thus not too clingy.

(2) Be a smart and an interesting company - it pays to read, makes a woman an interesting conversationalist, and men are impressed by women who can take him on a smart talk.

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(3) Know details about him, his interests, and read about them - it is human nature that makes a person want to talk about himself, his interests and preferences. If he is a golf aficionado, while you need not actually play golf yourself but to be able to talk about it is a plus.

(4) Have a certain air of mystery and do not be totally open about everything about you - men want to chase a woman who carries a certain air of mystery. If you have already gone overboard with being too available for him, yes you can undo this by keeping out of touch all of a sudden, being less accessible.

(5) Be a genuine person - gentle, caring, sweet, trustworthy, who knows how to listen - when a man is comfortable with you and he knows you care and can be trusted, it will make him want you more because he feels good and light with your company.

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(6) Your sense of humor - having the ability to make a man laugh is a good seduction secret to make him want you more, and it makes good sense - laughing releases feel-good hormones and makes a person comfortable and at ease with you. It is not merely memorizing jokes and tending to try too hard, but having the ability to naturally blend funny incidents and lines into a conversation. If you have trouble with this, get into the habit of watching comedy shows or movies or recall funny events in your life. Be around people who have this sense of humor. Learn to have fun and make light of a situation.

In his book "How To Make Him Want You More and Make Him Chase You", James Bauer offers valuable insight and advice to women who are looking to improve their relationships and make their partner want them more. The author's approach is based on the idea that men are hardwired to respond to certain emotional triggers and that by understanding these triggers, women can create deeper connections with their partners and make them want them more.

One of the key concepts that Bauer discusses is the idea of "emotional attraction". This is the idea that a strong emotional connection is what ultimately drives a man to pursue a relationship with a woman. According to the author, women can create this emotional attraction by understanding their partner's needs and desires and then using specific communication techniques to make him feel valued, understood, and appreciated.

Another important aspect of the book is the idea of "playing hard to get". Bauer argues that this is an effective way for women to create a sense of challenge and excitement in their relationships, which can help to keep their partner's interest and make them want them more. He also emphasizes the importance of maintaining independence and not being overly available, as this can lead to a lack of excitement and interest on the part of the partner.

Overall, "How To Make Him Want You More and Make Him Chase You" is a well-researched and thought-provoking book that provides women with valuable insights and practical advice for improving their relationships. Whether you are looking to reignite the spark in an existing relationship or find ways to make your partner want you more, James Bauer's book is definitely worth a read.

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