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AVOID DATING THIS TYPES OF PEOPLE NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU NEED THEM

Avoiding toxic datings

By Bridget DykePublished about a year ago 3 min read
AVOID DATING THIS TYPES OF PEOPLE NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU NEED THEM
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When it comes to dating, choosing the right partner is crucial for a healthy and fulfilling relationship. While the search for companionship and love can sometimes feel desperate, it is important to exercise caution and avoid certain types of people, no matter how badly you may feel you need them. These individuals may appear attractive or charming at first, but their traits and behaviors can lead to toxic and damaging relationships. Recognizing these warning signs and understanding the consequences of getting involved with the wrong person can save you from heartache and potential harm.

One type of person to steer clear of is the manipulator. Manipulators are skilled at controlling others to fulfill their own needs and desires. They may use emotional blackmail, guilt-tripping, or deceit to gain power and control over their partners. They often exploit vulnerabilities and insecurities to maintain their dominance, leaving their partners feeling trapped and emotionally drained. Despite any initial feelings of attraction, dating a manipulator can lead to a cycle of manipulation and abuse, ultimately damaging your self-esteem and well-being.

Another type to avoid is the narcissist. Narcissists have an excessive sense of self-importance and a constant need for admiration. They lack empathy and are often preoccupied with their own achievements and appearance. While they may seem charming and charismatic initially, narcissists are incapable of true emotional connection and tend to prioritize their own needs above all else. Being in a relationship with a narcissist can leave you feeling unimportant and disregarded, as they may exploit and manipulate your emotions for their own gain.

Additionally, it is wise to steer clear of individuals with addictive behaviors. Substance abuse, gambling, or any other form of addiction can have a severe impact on relationships. These individuals often prioritize their addiction over their partners, leading to neglect, financial strain, and emotional turmoil. While you may feel a strong urge to help them, it is important to remember that overcoming addiction requires professional assistance and personal commitment. Entering into a relationship with someone battling addiction can be emotionally exhausting and may put your own well-being at risk.

A person who consistently displays a lack of respect and empathy towards others should also be avoided. Respect and empathy are fundamental pillars of a healthy relationship. If someone consistently belittles or disregards the feelings and boundaries of others, it is unlikely they will treat you any differently. Dating an individual who lacks respect and empathy can lead to a toxic and one-sided dynamic, where your needs and feelings are consistently undermined or dismissed.

Furthermore, individuals who exhibit a pattern of dishonesty and betrayal should be avoided at all costs. Trust is the foundation of any successful relationship, and without it, a partnership is bound to crumble. People who consistently lie, cheat, or deceive their partners erode trust and create an environment of suspicion and doubt. Building a relationship on a shaky foundation of dishonesty can lead to heartbreak and emotional turmoil, ultimately damaging your ability to trust future partners.

Lastly, it is important to avoid those who have a history of abusive behavior. This includes physical, emotional, or verbal abuse. Abuse of any kind is unacceptable and should never be tolerated in a relationship. Engaging with an abuser can have severe consequences for your physical and mental well-being. While it may be challenging to identify an abuser at first, warning signs such as possessiveness, jealousy, and explosive anger should never be ignored.

In conclusion, no matter how badly you may feel you need a partner, it is essential to avoid certain types of people in the dating world. Manipulators, narcissists, individuals with addictive behaviors, those who lack respect and empathy, people with a history of dishonesty and betrayal, and those who have exhibited abusive behavior should be avoided at all costs. While it may be tempting to overlook these warning signs in the pursuit of companionship, entering into a relationship with such

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Bridget Dyke

As a passionate writer of fiction and general articles, I invite you to embark on an extraordinary literary journey with me. With immersive stories and thought-provoking articles that will captivate your mind and touch your soul.

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