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A child with big dreams and a adult with no dreams

this story tells how a child is worry free, happy, joyful, having no answer to any questions but still he wants to become his dream boy and on other hand a adult knowing most answers of questions from the world is lost.

By Devesh SuhalkaPublished 3 years ago 4 min read
A child with big dreams and a adult with no dreams
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A great philosopher said "we don't see the world as it is, we see the world as we are".

being an adult now when I see a child's face, he is always looking for something, maybe he is having 100 questions in his mind but he expects no one to answer them but from the world around him.

whenever he see from the world whether a great toy, a new bag, a good story book (which has more cartoon characters), a new cycle, he is obsessed whth that item. He imagines himself having that cycle or that new bag and asks his parents or his loved ones to get that cycle for him and usually these things are not hard to afford by most parents, they try to deliver it in some time, so as the child's subconscious mind is been developed until he is 7 or 8 year old.

The subconscious mind of a child is a fascinating aspect of human psychology. The subconscious mind is responsible for storing memories, beliefs, and experiences that shape a child's perception of the world around them.

From birth, a child's subconscious mind is developing rapidly. It is in this phase that the brain forms neural connections and builds the foundation for all future learning and development. The subconscious mind of a child is highly impressionable and is heavily influenced by their experiences, especially in the early years of life. The things a child hears, sees, and feels during this period can significantly impact their beliefs, values, and behaviors later in life.

"We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world." - Buddha

Parents, caregivers, and educators must be aware of the impact they have on a child's subconscious mind. Negative experiences or trauma can create long-lasting effects that can shape the child's perception of themselves and the world around them. For example, a child who experiences constant criticism or abuse may develop low self-esteem, feelings of worthlessness, and a lack of trust in others. On the other hand, positive experiences such as praise, encouragement, and love can lead to healthy self-esteem, confidence, and a positive outlook on life.

It is essential to note that a child's subconscious mind is also responsible for developing their belief systems. These beliefs are not necessarily based on logical reasoning or evidence but are instead formed from past experiences, cultural norms, and social influences. For instance, a child growing up in a household where gender roles are rigidly defined may develop subconscious beliefs about what is expected of them based on their gender. These beliefs can have a profound impact on their life choices, including career paths, relationships, and personal development.

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If you are adult now and you see that your subconscious mind is been developed for mediocrity, things been said to you in your childhood like "money dosen't grow on trees, "you are not more then the average","poor people die poor, rich people die rich, "you will have to work hard until you are on your ded bed", you will find it hard to get rid from this beliefs but the good part is you can still reprogram your sunconscious mind by the power of repetation

you can follow these steps to reprogram your mind and achive great success in life:

Reprogramming your subconscious mind involves changing the beliefs, thought patterns, and behaviors that are deeply ingrained in your mind. Here are some steps that you can take to reprogram your subconscious mind:

Identify negative beliefs: Identify the limiting beliefs that are holding you back from achieving your goals. These beliefs could be related to your self-worth, money, relationships, or any other area of your life.

Challenge your beliefs: Once you have identified your negative beliefs, challenge them. Ask yourself if these beliefs are true, and if they are serving you in any way.

Create positive affirmations: Create positive affirmations that contradict your negative beliefs. For example, if you believe that you are not good enough, create an affirmation that says, "I am good enough, and I deserve success."

Visualize success: Visualize yourself achieving your goals and living the life that you want. Imagine the feelings of happiness, fulfillment, and success that come with achieving your goals.

Practice mindfulness: Mindfulness can help you become more aware of your thoughts and feelings. This awareness can help you identify negative thought patterns and replace them with positive ones.

Take action: Take action towards your goals, even if they are small steps. This will help you reinforce your positive beliefs and create new positive habits.

Be patient: Reprogramming your subconscious mind takes time and effort. Be patient with yourself and stay committed to the process.

Reprogramming your subconscious mind is a powerful tool for personal growth and achieving success. By following these steps, you can start to change your beliefs and thought patterns and create the life that you want.

There are several factors that can negatively affect the development of your subconscious mind and create "enemies" in the process. These include:

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Negative influences: Negative influences from people around you, such as parents, friends, or authority figures, can contribute to negative beliefs and thought patterns that get ingrained in your subconscious mind.

Traumatic experiences: Traumatic experiences such as abuse, neglect, or a major life event can create negative beliefs and thought patterns that get imprinted in your subconscious mind.

Unresolved emotions: Unresolved emotions such as anger, fear, or guilt can create negative beliefs and thought patterns that affect your subconscious mind.

Self-limiting beliefs: Self-limiting beliefs such as "I'm not good enough" or "I'll never be successful" can create negative thought patterns that become deeply ingrained in your subconscious mind.

Lack of self-awareness: If you are not aware of your thoughts and emotions, it can be difficult to identify negative beliefs and thought patterns that are affecting your subconscious mind.

Negative self-talk: Negative self-talk, or the habit of speaking to yourself in a negative way, can contribute to negative beliefs and thought patterns that affect your subconscious mind.

It's important to identify and address these factors in order to develop a healthy and positive subconscious mind. This can involve seeking professional help, practicing mindfulness, and making conscious efforts to replace negative beliefs and thought patterns with positive ones.

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    Written by Devesh Suhalka