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Why You Should Check on Your Friends

In today's world, it's more important than ever to check on our friends and make sure they are doing okay.

By Jason ShermanPublished about a year ago 3 min read
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With the ongoing stress and challenges of the pandemic, economic struggles, and social and political issues, many people are struggling with their mental health. It's not uncommon for people to put on a brave face and try to hide their struggles, but this can be damaging in the long run. That's why it's important to check in on your friends and make sure they are okay.

One of the biggest barriers to seeking help for mental health issues is the stigma that surrounds them. By showing your friends that you care about their mental well-being and are willing to listen and support them, you can help to reduce this stigma and create a more supportive environment. This is especially important for those who may be struggling in silence and may not know how to ask for help. By consistently checking in on your friends and letting them know that you are there for them, you can help to create a supportive network that they can rely on when they need it most.

When you check in on your friends and show them that you care, it can help to strengthen your bond and create a deeper sense of connection. This can be especially true if you are open and honest with each other about your feelings and experiences. Sharing your struggles and challenges can help to create a sense of trust and understanding that can deepen your friendship. It can also be helpful to offer each other advice and support when needed, as this can help to build a sense of community and belonging.

By checking in on your friends and offering them support when they need it, you can help to prevent minor issues from becoming more serious. This can be especially important if your friend is going through a tough time and may not be able to ask for help on their own. By being proactive and offering support, you can help to ensure that your friend gets the help they need before things escalate. This can include offering to listen, providing emotional support, or even just being there for them in a time of need.

In addition to helping your friends, checking in on them can also have a positive impact on your own mental health. It can give you a sense of purpose and meaning, and can also help you to feel more connected to others. By showing your friends that you care, you can also feel more connected to your own sense of compassion and empathy, which can be incredibly rewarding.

So, how can you check in on your friends? Here are a few simple ways:

Reach out via text, call, or video chat. This can be as simple as sending your friend a message asking how they are doing and if there's anything you can do to help.

Offer to spend time together. Whether it's going for a walk, having a virtual hangout, or just chatting over coffee, spending time together can be a great way to check in on your friends and offer them support.

Ask open-ended questions. Instead of just asking your friend how they are doing, try asking more open-ended questions like "What's been on your mind lately?" or "Is there anything you want to talk about?" This can help to encourage more in-depth conversations and give your friend the opportunity to share their thoughts and feelings.

Be a good listener. When your friend does open up to you, make sure to listen carefully and show that you are there for them. Avoid interrupting or offering unsolicited advice, and just be present and supportive.

By taking the time to check in on your friends, you can help to create a stronger support system and build deeper, more meaningful connections. So don't be afraid to reach out and check in on

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About the Creator

Jason Sherman

Successful innovator, award winning filmmaker, podcaster, and Cofounder of Spinnr: a video platform designed to help you make new friends who share your hobbies and interests.

Blog: https://spinnr.app/blog/

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