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A Quick Guide to Practicing Self-Care

Your crash course in self-care

By Wendy MillerPublished 2 years ago 6 min read
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Photo by: Kayla Butler via Ivory Mix

The idea of self-care isn't new. It's been around for centuries, in different cultures and in various forms. But for many people, taking care of themselves is low on the priority list, either because they don't know how to prioritize it or they feel like taking care of themselves doesn't “count” unless it's something big. That couldn't be further from the truth! Here are some simple ways to practice self-care that can give you a mood boost, reduce stress levels, and help you take better care of your body.

What is self-care?

Self-care is taking time for yourself to improve your mental health, reduce stress, and increase happiness. It’s necessary for your physical and mental health, and it’s actually something you can practice every day.

Self-care doesn't need to be complicated. It can be something as simple as doing something you enjoy, like meditating, taking a bubble bath, or going for a walk in nature. Doing something for yourself each day is a great way to take care of your well-being.

Many people think self-care is something you do when you have time to spare, but it's actually something important to do every day.

It can be difficult to make time in our busy schedules for self-care, but if you make it a priority, you'll feel the benefits in your mental health, your body, and your life.

Why self-care is important

Practicing self-care is an important part of living a healthy life. In fact, research has shown that people who practice self-care have a lower risk of depression and anxiety. Plus, if you're able to take care of yourself physically and mentally, you'll be in a better position to take care of others.

The best thing about practicing self-care is it doesn't have to be expensive or complicated. You can take care of yourself with as little as ten minutes a day.

A quick way to practice self-care is to engage in a relaxation activity, like deep breathing or guided meditation. Most apps and websites offer free guided meditations that allow you to customize the length of your session. If you're feeling stressed or overwhelmed, this can be a great way to clear your mind and find some peace for a few minutes.

Another way to practice self-care is by doing a different type of physical activity each day. You could go for a walk in the morning, do yoga after work, try out a new gym class, or do some light gardening. It's important not to overwork yourself with exercise because that can lead to injury or burnout. However, doing something that makes you feel good about yourself is excellent self-care.

Practicing self-care

A lot of people don't realize that self-care can be simple. It doesn't have to be a big thing that requires a lot of time and energy.

• A few easy ways to practice self-care are:

• Taking a walk outside

• Taking a bath by candlelight

• Listening to music

• Reading a book

• Practicing yoga

• Enjoying a cup of tea

• Eating breakfast every morning

What are simple things you can do for your body?

A healthy body starts with a healthy diet and exercise routine. Eating a healthy diet and getting exercise can help reduce stress levels and lead to a better mood.

It's also important to take care of your body's health by practicing good hygiene. For example, make sure to wash your hands frequently with soap and water to reduce the number of bacteria on them. You should also use a toothbrush to brush your teeth with toothpaste twice a day and visit the dentist regularly.

This also extends to when you’re ill. If you're dealing with a cough or sore throat, try gargling with warm salt water. This can help reduce pain and kill bacteria so you can feel better more quickly.

It's also important that you get plenty of sleep. It's not always easy to do this, but try going to bed earlier, turning off electronics at least one hour before bedtime, and doing something relaxing before bed.

Finally, take care of your mental health by practicing self-compassion. Give yourself a break from time to time! If you're feeling overwhelmed or upset about something, remind yourself that it’s okay to feel that way. It's also important to be gentle with yourself when things don't go as planned or when you have a bad day. When the mind feels better, the body does too.

Photo by: Kayla Butler via Ivory Mix

Other ways to practice self-care

You can practice self-care in many different ways. But there are a few simple things you can do to make sure you're taking care of yourself on a regular basis.

Create a self-care routine: Whether you need to take a quick 10-minute break from work or get on your yoga mat for a full practice, try to craft a self-care routine that fits your needs. That might mean getting outside for a walk every day at lunch or taking some time to meditate before bed.

Practice gratitude: Start by listing three things you're grateful for. You can also keep a gratitude journal where you write down at least one thing you're grateful for every day.

Schedule some "you" time: Take a few minutes for yourself every day, set some time aside on your calendar to do something you enjoy, or schedule regular manicures with friends.

Make sure you get enough sleep: Try to get between 7-9 hours of sleep each night.

Eat healthy food: A diet of whole foods can drastically improve your mood and reduce stress levels. It might take some time to change your eating habits, but it will be worth it when you start feeling better!

Tips on how to incorporate self-care into your day

When you feel your mood falter, it's important to reach out to close friends and family for support. It's also important to create a "self-care list." This list can include things that make you feel better, like getting a pedicure, cooking your favorite meal, or watching that TV show you love. You can even create a list of people who you want to reach out to when you're feeling down.

The other thing you should do is to make time for self-care. Take a full day off from work, turn off your phone, and go somewhere quiet to take some time for yourself. You'll come back feeling refreshed and ready for anything!

Start with the basics

The first step is to get on board with the idea that self-care is for everyone. "Self-care is treating yourself the way you would treat your child, elder, or best friend: healthy and balanced meals and snacks on time, plenty of hydration, sleep, meditation and reflection, exercise, and idle time for play and fun," says Dr. Marilyn Cornelis, a change agent and author of 26 books.

Cornelis stresses the importance of starting with the basics, like drinking enough water or getting enough sleep. "You can tweak it so it’s sustainable," she says. "That’s really important."

The basics are easy to implement and they're known to have a significant impact on your mood, stress levels, and overall health. So start doing these things for yourself every day!

Take care of yourself first before others

Self-care is an important part of leading a healthy life. But many people don't get the chance to do it.

Perhaps you are the main caregiver in the household, or maybe you have small children that demand your time and attention. Maybe you work long hours or have demanding commitments that leave you with little time to take care of yourself.

Whatever your reasons are, remember that it's important to take care of yourself before you take care of others. It's okay to put yourself first for a little while every day, even if it's just for 20 minutes.

So, how can you practice self-care? Here are some quick, simple ways you can take better care of yourself:

1) Plan time for yourself

2) Take a break from social media

3) Take time for exercise

4) Eat nourishing meals

5) Take time for self-reflection

6) Spend time with loved ones

7) Get enough sleep

8) Create a protective space for yourself where you feel safe

Self-care is so important, and it doesn't require big chunks of time. It's easy to make a self-care practice a part of your daily routine and reap the benefits without having to make a lot of time commitments. If you're feeling stressed, moody, or like you're not taking care of yourself well enough, this guide is for you. I hope you'll find the perfect self-care practice to help you get back on track and take your life back.

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About the Creator

Wendy Miller

Wendy Miller is a freelance writer & mom coach. Her work has appeared on Her Track, Tiny Beans & Medium. From parenting to relationships, she presents the best tips, advice, and information for life.

mindfulsinglemom.com | writewithwendy.com

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