To get over a person completely

A recurring line in the TV series "White Moonlight" is.

"The truth is, we all know that love fades, promises fail, and people walk apart. It's just that we all want to believe we're the exception to the rule. We all hope that we will be someone's unique white moonlight."

Indeed, even if once how deep love, there is no guarantee that later mutual love can still be the same as at the beginning.

Some people go apart, and some love goes on and on and on.

When the feelings encountered betrayal, we will be angry, we will be sad, and even into self-doubt, doubt whether they do not deserve to be loved.

The face of once sincere feelings, who can do nothing, watching it disappear in front of their eyes?

But the face of a lost relationship, the face of an experience that has not returned, who can turn back the clock, who can go back to the past?

Love is beautiful, but love is also fragile.

When love is gone, the only thing we can do is accept reality openly.

It is certainly difficult to erase a once important person from your life, but no matter how difficult it is, the road in front of us is only that one, giving us the choice of only that one option.

To be human, you still have to look ahead. If someone chooses to take the initiative to leave you, it only means that you two are not suitable for living together.

In this world, there are no forgetting people, there is no letting go of things, the key still lies in whether you are willing to forget, you are willing to put them down.

If you want to move forward, if you want to get happy, you have to accept any gathering and separation in this world.

To completely forget about a person, do these three steps.

01: Delete contact information

Some people may ask, but it's just a contact, to delete it.

If you have such an idea, first of all, it is worth celebrating, because it shows that the person is irrelevant to you, you have long been able to openly face the reality of parting.

But there are still a lot of people who talk about desperation, or will secretly open each other's contact information when no one is around, secretly pay attention to each other's dynamics, and secretly long for each other's contact.

If you find each other to live a good life, will secretly sad for a long time, because understand each other throw themselves into the memories, and if you find each other's life is also bad, you will imagine whether the other party is also missing themselves, so they will not want to live well.

One after another, regardless of whether the other person is doing well, they have fallen into more and more fantasy, more and more impossible to forget each other, then, the pain of longing will be more and more.

If you want to completely forget a person, you may want to let yourself do a little bit of ruthlessness, like say, delete each other's contact information.

Don't let the relationship that has ended disturb your heart, don't let so unworthy people occupy the position in your heart.

To completely forget about a person, then do this one step: delete the contact information.

02: Accept new things

Zhang Xiaoxian once said.

"New love, is the revenge of the old love, but also the best treatment."

In fact, not only the new love, as long as the new things can be a means of treatment for a relationship.

In life, many people are unable to make memories of the past, unable to completely forget a person, is because he accepted too few new things, so much so that he always thought that the other party is their world, he will never again meet someone so deeply in love.

But, as long as he continues to take a step forward, he can find that the world is not the only love to bring happiness, the world is always someone deeply in love with himself.

The fact that you are trapped in a world where you can go back to the past over and over again, is to cut off your happiness.

The wheel of the years never stops turning because of a certain person, if you do not want to go forward, it will only be discarded by the years, discarded by the times, discarded by happiness.

A person always has to find the bearer of feelings, maybe someone in memories, maybe someone who has not yet appeared, but if it is the former, it is doomed to failure from the beginning, and only in the latter, we can get a chance to succeed.

So that to completely forget a person, then we must do this one step: accept new things.

03: Try to improve yourself

Heard a story like this.

The couple lived together for five years, and finally the woman a "can not see the future" hurriedly ended the relationship, the man was heartbroken, drinking to degrade a good period, he was ready to propose the plan, but did not expect a sudden breakup.

The girlfriends said they could not see the future, but he did not feel that way, although he could not buy a house in a big city, in a small city can still afford to buy.

He pestered his girlfriend for some time after, but each time was simply rejected.

The friend advised him since your girlfriend wants a high quality of life, you either make good money first, later when you can get a foothold in the city, and then come back to her.

Later, the man kept improving himself and became a small boss.

But in the face of the woman's initiative to seek compound, he did not have the initial interest, he found that he did not love the woman, and can completely forget the woman in his memory.

A person, the reason why the end of the relationship can not forget, the reason is often obsession, rather than deep love.

And once the obsession gets transferred, it will not dwell on it.

So it is not difficult to get over someone completely, if you can improve yourself well, it is easy to shift your obsession.

Everyone has the opportunity to pursue happiness, and if the person in front of you does not bring happiness to yourself, why do you always have to dwell on it? Why should you always be obsessed with not forgetting?

It is not difficult to completely forget a person, the key is still whether you are willing to forget.

If you are willing, even ruthlessly can force yourself to forget, if you are not willing, even if there is an opportunity to forget will be a missed opportunity.