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THE SUNSET OF LOVE

How to make him admit his feelings for you

By Nicah MutumaPublished 9 months ago 3 min read
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At the sunset of love

We call it the sunset of love because this is where love is at its peak of the volcano ready to erupt. It's not easy to hide a crush that you have on someone you are close to. So today am gonna give you some tips my ladies to really Determine if he has any genuine feelings for you by observing his actions and behavior. Some major signs include:

Making you a priority in his life. This mostly is where we say he takes out most times introduces you to his friends when y'all are hanging out and stuff.

Being fully present when he's with you. you know if someone does really care they concentrate in two and more things at a time.... they are listening to you, scrolling down their phones looking around and zoning out which is really annoying. If someone really likes you they listen because they are interested in knowing you more.

Bringing you into his personal life. He's most likely to share his problems with you. He loves you that means he has trusted you enough to know he can let you in to help him solve the personal problems

Not focusing solely on sex and pleasure. This is what determines the difference between lust and love. when someone loves sex is never a priority, they are more interested in travelling with you, exploring places, going out and more

Opening up about his values and what's important to him. when someone sees their future with you they try as much as possible to involve you in their plans, trying to get opinions about what you think about something and what you think and want your future to be like.

Genuinely caring about your life. He'll check up on you " Have you had lunch?" or maybe " How was your day today and how re you doing right now?" and much more. With their care coming from within he heart it makes it easy to notice that he's much more concerned than he should be.

Understand that men typically show their feelings through actions rather than words.

To find out if he has feelings for you, pull back in your communication with him.

Take longer to respond to messages. This makes him wonder why or what he did wrong it pushes him to have more interest on this person that is now ignoring him. Make him expectant to see the responses to his messages.

Don't be as responsive as before. This will make him wonder if maybe you don't like him back or maybe you have someone else in mind. This strategy makes him open up in fear of losing you.

Indicate that you might be losing interest and activate him into fighting for what he wants and desires.

If he genuinely has feelings for you, pulling back will make him go into "panic mode," causing him to:

Message you more often. The fear of losing the person you love is the worst fear ever. because who wants the man/woman of his dreams to be with someone else? Truly none of us wants that, for him to keep you calls and texts to follow up on the day, work, on the environment and climate e.t.c

Want to hang out more. This helps him know you more without directly asking questions. This shields him from letting you know that he's interested in you but can't say it.

The following tips will open him up and trust me you he's possibly going to admit his feelings or ask about the status of your relationship

By using this method, you will indirectly encourage him to reveal his true feelings and intentions. Remember that it's essential to keep an eye on his actions and behavior to determine if he genuinely has feelings for you. If he truly cares about you, he will make an effort to prioritize your relationship and be present in your life. And there's the secret.

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  • Nicah Mutuma (Author)8 months ago

    Love straightens all rough roads and whoever choses anything else over love is bound to lose it all, and that my friend is the promise of love.

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