The Right Way To Sweep A Foreign Woman Off Her Feet

Do you know what’s a complicated thing that even scientists still don’t understand completely?

Romantic attraction.

But through research, they’ve come up with many theories about what draws one person to another. Attracting foreigners is especially interesting, because you start off meeting them online first. The excitement builds up before you two even get to meet.

Below, we've rounded up some of the most compelling scientific insights about the traits and behaviors that make men more appealing to women.

The best part? None of the items on this list require you to get cosmetic surgery or do a major personality overhaul. We're talking small tweaks, like acting nicer and swapping your deodorant.

The Universal signs of flirtation

Best-selling author and Rutgers University anthropologist Helen E. Fisher says that women around the world have similar sequences of expression when they show interest.

When a woman shows interest, she smiles at her admirer and lifts her eyebrows in a swift, jerky motion as she opens her eyes wide to gaze at him. Then she drops her eyelids, tilts her head down and to the side, and looks away. Frequently she also covers her face with her hands, giggling nervously as she retreats behind her palms.

This flirting gesture is so distinctive that German ethologist Irenaus Eibl-Eibesfeldt was convinced it is innate - that it was a female courtship ploy that evolved eons ago to signal interest.

If the one you’re trying to court has similar gestures when you talk, treat it as a good sign. But don’t get cocky. You still have a few things to do before you make your move.

1. Be well-presented

Are you a 'well-kept' person? Are you overly scrutinizing potential partners because you've adopted a certain style that some ladies may find unattractive? Do you have a good smell? Have you ironed your clothes? Are you in good physical condition?

Although accurately answering all of these questions will make you more attractive to ladies, putting up the effort to do so will automatically instill confidence in you, which is essential for attraction.

• If you have a light beard, you’re on your way. If you don’t, try to grow one. In a 2013 study, researchers at the University of New South Wales asked 177 heterosexual men and 351 heterosexual women to gaze at photographs of ten men in one of four states: clean-shaven, light stubble, heavy stubble, or full beard. Participants rated the men pictured on several traits, including attractiveness.

The women said having a heavy stubble was the most attractive beard length.

Authors Barnaby J. Dixson and Robert C. Brooks say “Facial hair correlates not only with maturity and masculinity, but also with dominance and aggression. An intermediate level of beardedness is most attractive.”

• You can also build some muscle. But not too much though. Less-muscular men were thought to be a better fit for long-term relationships. So if you want to catch a woman's eye and hold her attention, you may be better off not going overboard.

2. Initiate contact

If you have her attention, initiate eye contact. Eye contact is a very effective tool for enticing interest. However, be aware that spending too much time in this phase can make an approach much harder and sometimes quite uncomfortable.

Make an introduction once you've made eye contact. Most people are uncomfortable with ‘random' introductions, but if you can be introduced by a buddy who already knows her, it could be helpful. If you're giving an introduction for the first time, be forward and confident.

3. Be chivalrous

Gestures like opening doors, standing as she enters a room, offering to carry her bags and so on. Don’t neglect your duties as a gentleman. Ladies love a man who knows how to treat one.

Other actions are also appreciated:

• Offer your jacket if she’s cold
• Remember your manners
• Avoid overly cursing
• Listen to her when she talks
• Don’t be on your phone

4. Make her feel special

Small gestures can make a big difference, but they shouldn't be creepy or awkward. Find little, personalized methods to express your admiration for her. Don't expect anyone to recognize your gestures because it will make the situation stuffy. Simple but meaningful compliments delivered delicately will always pleasantly surprise her—again, don't go overboard.

5. Spend time with her

This is easier said than done. You want to spend time with her but don’t want to seem to be smothering. Try and find yourself in her company as naturally as possible.

6. Make a larger gesture

Try to be brave. Don’t make the gesture public or else she may become embarrassed and come to resent you. Something as simple as sending her flowers to something more involved such as planning a day out. If you do decide to go out, make sure you have everything planned ahead of time so all she needs to do is show up. Create romantic moments on purpose!

7. Learn a few basic phrases in her language

Just by learning a few basic phrases, you’ll give yourself an edge over the majority of guys. You’ll show that you actually care about the culture and took time to learn it, unlike most tourists. Even if it’s just a few phrases, it can go a long way and help you make a good first impression.

Start by learning how to greet her in her language. And with phrases like:

• What’s your name?
• How’s it going?
• How do you do?
• Do you speak English?
• I like your eyes/hair/smile

Foreign women are especially fond of men who show interest in their culture. Often, they’ll even help you learn more of their language. This gives way for your first date.

The principles still apply

The difference in language and culture don’t matter when you want to treat a woman right. The principles of being good with women still apply. The majority of women around the world like dominance. They like being led and they like men who go after what they want.

You still need the fundamentals and you still need to take action. So take action.